why am i feeling pain?

• yuiko

  16 Jun 03, 13:13

  Anyone know how to reduce the pain when having sex? i really need help in this cause i can't feel anything but only pain when having sex with my bf .
• lonellyguy

  16 Jun 03, 13:22

  Originally posted by yuiko:

  Anyone know how to reduce the pain when having sex? i really need help in this cause i can't feel anything but only pain when having sex with my bf .

  Think u r vigin, if not wrong... try to hv more foreplay..so that yr pussy has more lubricant for yr bf dick to go in.... but still there
  will be pain for first, second or third time... later will be fine..... so
  enjoy yr sex as you carry on.....
• mattdevil

  16 Jun 03, 13:25

  BTW is this ur first time trying?...
  
  I presume that the pain is caused by dryness on ur part.
  
  U should ask ur bf to do more foreplay
  this way u would be more wet and when he enters u, it won't be so painful ... another way is to ask him to use lubricant... it is to be applied on his dick... there are a couple of brands ard... can be bought from pharmacy...
  
  hope this would help u enjoy sex...
  Cheers!
• loneryu00

  16 Jun 03, 13:29

  Originally posted by yuiko:

  Anyone know how to reduce the pain when having sex? i really need help in this cause i can't feel anything but only pain when having sex with my bf .

  Not enuf lubricant lah... only rough & hard goes thru... tell him to go easy 1st... then when U comfortable them tell him wat speed & strenght U can adjust to loh... So simple...
• j007

  16 Jun 03, 13:29

  http://my.webmd.com/content/article/64/72263.htm?lastselectedguid={5FE84E90-BC77-4056-A91C-9531713CA348}
  
  u may suffer from tension and not able to relax...otherwise u shld try to engage in more foreplay (that can almost make u reach orgasm) and if u can atain this level, u shld be moist enough for him to enter u..
  not necessary to be a virgin meaning tt u are tight down there...
  just let ur mind communicate and not getting tensed in the physical activity...
  otherwise apply some KY jelly...and it shld be fine...
• 10cm

  16 Jun 03, 22:32

  you sound very young
  
  i will save up all those preaches but do tink twice before trying next time...
  
  

  Originally posted by yuiko:

  Anyone know how to reduce the pain when having sex? i really need help in this cause i can't feel anything but only pain when having sex with my bf .

• De|usi0n

  16 Jun 03, 22:57

  Originally posted by 10cm:

  you sound very young
  
  i will save up all those preaches but do tink twice before trying next time...
  
  

  hey, ur nick look tempting...
• Parka

  16 Jun 03, 23:55

  Originally posted by De|usi0n:

  hey, ur nick look tempting...

  
• [M]oon

  17 Jun 03, 03:11

  Originally posted by 10cm:

  you sound very young
  
  i will save up all those preaches but do tink twice before trying next time...
  
  

  Hey, you nick looks like ... refering to yourself ... cute !
• BÃ¥seline

  17 Jun 03, 03:18

  Apologies if I pour cold water in here.
  
  Do you think you'll get proper help here? If possible, ask a professional opinion from a Gynaecologist.
• 10cm

  17 Jun 03, 22:37

  maybe the gynaecologist will refer to the police and report this as a rape case
  
  

  Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:

  Apologies if I pour cold water in here.
  
  Do you think you'll get proper help here? If possible, ask a professional opinion from a Gynaecologist.

• 10cm

  17 Jun 03, 22:38

  depending on which angle you are viewing it from
  
  oops... did i say any wrong things again?
  
  

  Originally posted by De|usi0n:

  hey, ur nick look tempting...

• whiteillum

  17 Jun 03, 22:40

  go slow
  maybe u are too tense and not wet enuff
  try to use lubrication and see how it feels