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I've got a happy and satisfied relationship wif my bf..we've been 2gether 4 ard one and a half yr..Initially,we used to have very close and frequent physical contact,and will recall those 'moments' 2gether.. but now,things are not da same..we've less physical contact and sumtimes i dun even feel lek reali going into tat..there's no 3rd party between us..juz that i dun haf the kind of feeling to haf physical wif him nw...maybe its due 2 my stress @ work..but i can't blame everything on my work rite..he juz feels sad and sumting is not rite.....how to regain tat type of intimacy wif him as b4????
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shdnt u post tis in aunt agony instead?
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There must be some reasons if u dont feel like intimacy with him... even kissing? hugging? U must ask yourself that. Although stress at work can be one of e reasons...there must be another... u yourself will know it..maybe its just that u dont gove it some thought feeling its not e problem. Try to allocate some days for just u n your bf... go soem romantic places..romantic outings..dont think about work...do some sensual things..like giving each other a body massage..while watching tv at home relaxing...see if it gives u e urge to get intimate with your bf
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Just take off all your clothes n seduce him...Originally posted by JeSseRiStA80:I've got a happy and satisfied relationship wif my bf..we've been 2gether 4 ard one and a half yr..Initially,we used to have very close and frequent physical contact,and will recall those 'moments' 2gether.. but now,things are not da same..we've less physical contact and sumtimes i dun even feel lek reali going into tat..there's no 3rd party between us..juz that i dun haf the kind of feeling to haf physical wif him nw...maybe its due 2 my stress @ work..but i can't blame everything on my work rite..he juz feels sad and sumting is not rite.....how to regain tat type of intimacy wif him as b4????
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Give it more time.
Go enjoy yourself with your friends at a theme park or something.
Sometimes even lovers need a holiday.
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HAHAHHAHA. she is so poor thing.Originally posted by skeujin:shdnt u post tis in aunt agony instead?
post in aunt agony and asked to come bar.
post in bar and asked to go back to aunt agony.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=49260
wait till she post in sggirls.. -
if im stressed at work or wat. my girlfriend will try her best to coax me with hugs and kisses =)
sometiems even if u dun feel like it,
nike. just do it.
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Hey JeSseRiStA80,
do you guys quarrel often . . . sometimes some upset moments will spoilt the mood of couples . . . try to catch up wih friends or just give the 2 of you a break. Couple do need to spend some times on their individuals. -
Or... Sometimes going out on double dates helps. You know, you 2 going out with other couples to a romantic dinner, the beach or something. Can discuss how you guys/girls overcome some problems, girl to girl advices, guy to guy asking why their GF do this why they don't do that.
Then sometimes probably, the guy will share with his GF and his GF may sometimes even share with you. Vice versa too.
Intimacy isn't always going to be there. People will change moods. It's always good idea to take a break from everything. -
hey ppl,thanks 4 da concern..
kissing and hugging of coz still haf lah,if not,tats da end liaoz..
mi trying 2 do wat i can loh..
we did argued..but not tat frequent lah..but it seems tat i've bcoming more and more defensive acc. to him..
sigh...
neber mind....mi go wash face...*splash* -
Do wat u normally dont do......Originally posted by JeSseRiStA80:hey ppl,thanks 4 da concern..
kissing and hugging of coz still haf lah,if not,tats da end liaoz..
mi trying 2 do wat i can loh..
maybe he will find it unique and turn on....
if like for example u treat him like a king everytime, then u should just tie him up and force him to drink till he very high...
after tat use candles and kindda stuff to rekindle the lost feelings....
whip him wax him abuse him -
haha..machiam lek sex abuse him...wait he got frightened and run away..
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Originally posted by JeSseRiStA80:haha..machiam lek sex abuse him...wait he got frightened and run away..
Chase after him lor...
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juz now we did tok on da phone 4 quite sum time liaoz..haha..
he can still suggest to stay overnite @ his hse during tiz wkend 2 sort of make my flame burn again~~hehe..
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congrats, make sure u prove ur worth.........Originally posted by JeSseRiStA80:juz now we did tok on da phone 4 quite sum time liaoz..haha..
he can still suggest to stay overnite @ his hse during tiz wkend 2 sort of make my flame burn again~~hehe..
sigh..
think wat u can do to show ur competive advantages.
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Haha... good loh... can gan chai lie huo... y sigh?Originally posted by JeSseRiStA80:juz now we did tok on da phone 4 quite sum time liaoz..haha..
he can still suggest to stay overnite @ his hse during tiz wkend 2 sort of make my flame burn again~~hehe..
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hahaha~~
tats a good one man~!!
oN ar..tiz sat. gonna make him phant and puff~!!! -
Haha... all the best to u gal...Originally posted by JeSseRiStA80:hahaha~~ tats a good one man~!!
oN ar..tiz sat. gonna make him phant and puff~!!! -
kekeke~~thanks folks 4 all da suggestions~!!
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If u happen to pass by TIMEs or those books stores... go look for a book call MARS and VENUS on a date..... it might solve your prob... TRUST me...
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Originally posted by www:HAHAHHAHA. she is so poor thing.
post in aunt agony and asked to come bar.
post in bar and asked to go back to aunt agony.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=49260
wait till she post in sggirls.. reminds me of chao4 kayng1 telephone receptionists. -
Originally posted by JeSseRiStA80:I've got a happy and satisfied relationship wif my bf..we've been 2gether 4 ard one and a half yr..Initially,we used to have very close and frequent physical contact,and will recall those 'moments' 2gether.. but now,things are not da same..we've less physical contact and sumtimes i dun even feel lek reali going into tat..there's no 3rd party between us..juz that i dun haf the kind of feeling to haf physical wif him nw...maybe its due 2 my stress @ work..but i can't blame everything on my work rite..he juz feels sad and sumting is not rite.....how to regain tat type of intimacy wif him as b4????
HeLp................................................................................... hugging and kissing owns sex for free anyday. just checking..this one is the bar version right?