My Gf is pregnant!
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shooting outside wont slove the problem, sperms already inside swimming hard towards the finishing line..Originally posted by aHGer^83:prevention is oways better den cure...shld'be worn condom...or even at the least remove ur "frichen" dick when u r gonna cum...
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hey rox.. i think it has been some time since u post ....what was the decision ??
i didn't read page 3-8..coz i dun wanna see all those comments. I am quite concerned about how ur gf feels....
erm, i hope u r doing well too.... 
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Originally posted by Rox:It's not that i dun wan the baby... i love children. My gf dun wan, she said she had bring shame to her family,and wanted this to be over... I dun wan her future to be ruin either. U guys said we should tell our parents, but u all nv think that her parents is super conservative... can't imagine wat they will do to my gf if they knw abt it... I dun wan my gf to go tru another torture. Only a few of you can understand wat I gone tru... i appreaciate your advice.
well basically the folks here are concern for you and your gf's future... taking away this baby will never solve the problem... however it may add to the problems u may encounter in future... i know tat your gf comes from a very conservative family but how long can she hide... no parents will ever want to see his/her child fall in no matter wat situation they will still love your gf ... trust me ...i really suggest the both familys sit down and see to a solution ...
dont let your problems cloud the solution when is already there ... go to your parents n go to her parents tell them the situation... be a man take up responsibility not shun it ...
hope this is not too late -
Wa... this topic is still going strong ah...
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please remember with every abortion, the probability of conception for ur gf reduces dramatically. a few more times may result in no chance of conception either naturally or artifically for her.
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hmm .. don noe whether he can still read this msg or not loh... but then ... wat i can help is to let you know that if you and your gf are both 20 this year, you need to have someone above the age of 21 to sign the document so that your gf be able to carry out the abortion loh...
my frend went for abortion at KK loh... cost about 600 to 800+ loh.. im not too sure... KK more professional lah ... go KK better lah ..
well.... i understand y ur gf don wan to keep the baby loh...so this is your decision make sure you n gf wont regret it loh... that all i can say ... -
loh...
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I didn't bother to read the previous 8 pages cos DON"T EVER EVER ABORT YOUR OWN fLESH & BLOOD.
Your GF might will have Chan Hou Yiu Yu Zheng Even you abort, there'll be a dark side inside the both of you No income is an excuse, your parents or your GF's parents will help Don't ever try t orun away from problems, abort is not a good choice. -
aiya... it's their choice, and i believe they are young adults already and they know what's best for them.. as long as they come to a decision that they wont regret.. and their lives would be normal after the abortion. have u heard postnatal syndrome? do u know that there are alot of psychological and phsiological side effects after laboring especially they are not prepared for this child..Originally posted by [M]oon:I didn't bother to read the previous 8 pages cos DON"T EVER EVER ABORT YOUR OWN fLESH & BLOOD. Your GF might will have Chan Hou Yiu Yu Zheng Even you abort, there'll be a dark side inside the both of you No income is an excuse, your parents or your GF's parents will help Don't ever try t orun away from problems, abort is not a good choice. -
pls keep the baby.......
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well the baby's innocent and it shldnt be denied of its life. but since you both doesnt have the income tp support it and moreover ur girl comes form a conservative family, cruel abortion might be just the only answer. DO NOT GO FOR ILLEGAL abortions. KK is ok.
just ensure that you keep by your words that u'll be with ur girl coz the emotional and physical hurt is something you'll never feel. and for goodness' sake. the next time, use a condom -
adding in to what *evanesence* has said,Things might really complicate after abortion. Can mean life and death.Pls CONSIDER CAREFULLY!!!!Originally posted by *evanesence*:Poor girl...
she would have to suffer the mental torture.... and the side effects of the abortion (physical torture) ...
ANd the baby's the most innocent!!!
Right now, the best thing is if you two cld get together with both of your families to discuss... we're talking abt a life now... so pls think carefully before making a decision....
I wish u 2 all the best...
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We have abort the baby. My gf is very depressed but also relieved at the same time. We are going to live with this guilt forever.
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take gd care of her.... give her all the support u can, n b responsible, use condoms...
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The pain when it grips me, for things that IÂ’ve done
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The pain youÂ’ve laid donÂ’t speak a sound
DonÂ’t take my heart away from me
And they think I fell down
Daddy, donÂ’t you love me?
Then why do you hit me?
And momma donÂ’t you love me
Then why do you hurt me?
Well I try to make you proud, but for crying out loud
Just give me a chance to hide away
Exhaustion takes over, will this someday be over?
A teardrop falls from up in the heavens
Drowning the sorrow of angels on high
For the least of the helpless, the hopeless, the loveless
My jesus, his children, he holds in his eyes -
Whatever done is done. I hope you have learnt your lesson and be this a lesson to others too.Originally posted by Rox:We have abort the baby. My gf is very depressed but also relieved at the same time. We are going to live with this guilt forever.
I've got 1 advice for you now. If anyone wants to introduce drugs to your GF because of the depression, avoid them. Even mild Anti-depression should be avoided. -
Did u guys know that..
In singapore,you dun have to be above 21 yrs old to have a non-parents-consent abortion..REALLY!!
Even if you are 16 yrs old, as long as u wan the abortion..u go to KK Hospital, Mount Elizabeth...all u have to do is bring your IC and sign a form and go for some talks sessions..then if you are sure that abortion is wad you realli wan..Then it can be carried out..only if the pregnacy is not more than 24weeks.
This shock me too..But tt's really the fact..if you dun believe me..try calling Mount Elizabeth and KKH..i've done a project on Abortion b4..lOlx..When i called..they tot i wanted an abortion..
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you better cherish your gf more and dont DON'T ever EVER!!Originally posted by Rox:We have abort the baby. My gf is very depressed but also relieved at the same time. We are going to live with this guilt forever. do it agian -
Only one word : "DESPICABLE !!!"
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Rox,Originally posted by Rox:We have abort the baby. My gf is very depressed but also relieved at the same time. We are going to live with this guilt forever.
Well... I think she must be very glad that you stayed by her all the time...
Some guys are much worst... they just get the the girl pregnant and leave...
You stayed together as a couple... I respect that.
I wish the best for your future together.
What doesn't break you only makes you stronger...