nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai - True mah ??
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My fren told me something which I feel is quite true.....he says tat gals tend to look for a bf who preferably is able to provide them with excitement...n muz know how to hong them, at time show them cold shoulder.........etc.....etc
Why is it so for ger to pick these type of guys?
Then what happen to Mr Nice Nice guy.......finish last. 
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nice nice guys.. stay home.. wait for the gal to come n use him as spare backup tire n part time ATM cum "ROBERT"... use as caring shoulder.. then bad boy.. tweak a finger.. she run back again..Originally posted by MagicOne:My fren told me something which I feel is quite true.....he says tat gals tend to look for a bf who preferably is able to provide them with excitement...n muz know how to hong them, at time show them cold shoulder.........etc.....etc
Why is it so for ger to pick these type of guys? Then what happen to Mr Nice Nice guy.......finish last.
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true true, up to some points. Specially abt the part "Bad" boys tweak a finger and gers' run back to them.
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u forgot abt the poor guy who treated as a " ROBERT "Originally posted by MagicOne: true true, up to some points. Specially abt the part "Bad" boys tweak a finger and gers' run back to them. -
Car-rots Head ( Robert )
Come on lah, not all gers' eat guys like "robert". Some are and some are not. What i'm saying in this tropic is that ger really need "Bad" boys to spice up their emotion waves mah?
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its more like demand n supplyOriginally posted by MagicOne: Car-rots Head ( Robert )
Come on lah, not all gers' eat guys like "robert". Some are and some are not. What i'm saying in this tropic is that ger really need "Bad" boys to spice up their emotion waves mah?
someone willing to adminster suffering...
one willing to accept it
NI QING WO YUAN ONE... -
As a matter of fact, this saying is true.
Research reveals that the woman natural instinct causes them to have this tendency of being more emotionally involved for those who are more, forgive my french, bastardly behaved. As mentioned earlier on, excitement is one of the factors that makes up the instinct. If you're a guy who give excitement to those around you, you should be surrounded by lotsa girls. But as girls reaches a state of maturity, the instinct will subside and the rational part of them takes over their choice of a lover.
As the saying goes, save the best for the last. True. True. -
u mean wats left of it for the lastOriginally posted by KeIgO80:As a matter of fact, this saying is true.
Research reveals that the woman natural instinct causes them to have this tendency of being more emotionally involved for those who are more, forgive my french, bastardly behaved. As mentioned earlier on, excitement is one of the factors that makes up the instinct. If you're a guy who give excitement to those around you, you should be surrounded by lotsa girls. But as girls reaches a state of maturity, the instinct will subside and the rational part of them takes over their choice of a lover.
As the saying goes, save the best for the last. True. True. -
nan ren yue jian nu ren yue ai !!!
'come baby call ur other galfrens make love wif us'
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Originally posted by MagicOne:My fren told me something which I feel is quite true.....he says tat gals tend to look for a bf who preferably is able to provide them with excitement...n muz know how to hong them, at time show them cold shoulder.........etc.....etc
Why is it so for ger to pick these type of guys? Then what happen to Mr Nice Nice guy.......finish last. my girl too innocent..so i gotta be huai4 on her behalf to ensure her good nature is not taken advantage of..since she too guai1, i gotta be huai4 enough to balance out..otherwise how to survive? sure, it's a dirty job..but i'd much rather bear the brunt than to let her. -
nu ren yue jian nan ren yue ai
Above is only for part-timer relationship , if serious relationship i think mr nice nice guy will out-run those bastardly players.
Cause it's gers' to want to settle for a more stable guys. Sadly the mr nice nice is also last in choice loh -
you posted this in chitchat too...
i'll just say this: if women get their hearts (and probably a few bones) broken because they insist on finding maladjusted pathological wifebeaters, they freakin' should not go and tell the world "All Men are Bastards!"
simply because it's their own goddamned fault they insist on being with the bastards...
if you keep sticking your hand in a rabid dog's mouth, don't complain to the world you got bitten! there are many more loyal and gentle dogs out there... you won't blame these mutts right? what more men? -
i think that if the girl is about looking for someone with a shoulder to cry on.. i would prefer her as erm.. she is in need of a very good friend who can share her troubles with.. and most probably not together as gf/bf.. if there is one day that you quarrel with the other life.. at least you have someone whom in then would be ur best friend.. to say out and be a listening ear.. seldom see anyone or rather a couple saying anything.. or more into quarreling... if they do it would rather like opposing what the other person is thinking about.. maybe a very good friend is a more important thing to have in everyone's live..
thats what i think..
your bf/gf may shower you with love.. and may not hurt you afterall. but i believe that there are some times whereby there will be a slight quarrle or what.. so best friend is stil the best.. have a shoulder to cry on.. have someone that you won't mind telling anything to.. and bets of all.. trustworthy.. can be trusted and won't say out what things happened to other and become more like 'ji po'
though there are some scenarios whereby there are couples who usually dun like to say somethings to them.. like whether they have did wrong.. or whatsoever.. or in any case done something that may cause the other party worry.. so its best that saying having a soul mate would be better off.. at least i strongly believe that your soul mate won't do anything bad behind ur back and tell the 'news' to your other life...
thats what i strongly think about.. if there's a day that you find that you have done something very wrong to her which can hurt her then you go and tell her.. think it would be a very bad outcome.. unless she is like those very forgiving type.. and wun mind you saying anything..
but i strongly believe there is no such person in this world.. since the time i came into this world i have never encountered anyone having such great forgiveness.. unless that person is really very 'stupid'.. whereby when get hurt already still say nevermind... -
Guys
Think of this, if really gals like those naughty guys, would you like to be 1 and have fun with them, or you rather wait for someone to use them and than wear them like old shoe.
My Advice: Be the first rather than be the last.