Dude, I applaude your attempts to venture beyond you little relationship bubble now. But the transition process is going to be hell, well at least the way i know it. Look from my experience, the new chick needs to know that you're already attached. It's not possible for both girls to be kept in the dark. The new chick needs to be willing to accept that she's going to be no. 2 for a while but will eventually become the one. The whole processes is going to involve months of lying through your teeth. Probably more lies than you have ever told in your entire life. I've also accepted the fact that it's also not entire possible to prevent your current gf from becoming aware of no.2's presence. Let's face it she's going to call, but a set of codes needs to be prearrange to let her know when you are with no.1. You also have come up with some incredible excuses on why this woman keeps calling. Do not store your new gf's no. on your handphone, delete away every sms that she sents after you read it. When you are sure enough about no.2, a clean break would be the ideal situation between you and your current girl. But more likely, her curiosity would have gotten the better of you by then. Then, facing the music is part of the deal, you have to go through with it. Have fun, hope this helps, good luck on your venture. And to all women out that thinking of having a go at me, go ahead, men are flirtatious by nature, we just wish women are too.
