Stop It.
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Hai...i have this problem with this girl...she and i went sort of steady for awhile..after that she left me for another guy..dunno why
But all of a sudden, she starts smsing me and calling me. But the problem is, she is stil with the other guy!?
I really don't get it, why is she like this? Kinda need your guys advice...esp those love experts out there, been following this forum for quite sometime (just dun dare to post). Poeple like wendy81 , and the ever famous pervert SGboy2004 
Anyone can give me any advice? What should i do, it seems as thought she is flinging! (flirting while having a boyfriend). And when she calls me, i feel extremly awakward talking to her, as if she was some distant relavtive, a much older one...
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your topic title just suggested what you should do.
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isn't this one of the cases of "zhao sai"?
dude... search the "Bar" threads and have a look at them... i think there are at least 2 recent threads about this...
make up your mind about this... what she has done to you, and doing to the guy, she can do again.. unfortunately....
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Hi...thanks for your replies, my deepest gratitude to both of you. can either one of you help me o find that so called thread, "zao sai"?
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hmmm.. lost already
not in Bar.. not really sure where it was posted...
sorry... remember it but not sure which forum...
anyway, affairs of the heart, only you can make the decision... the only suggestion is to search your heart, be honest with yourself, ask yourself how would you handle it if you "stole" her from her current guy.. as in how would you like it if someone did it to you, i.e., stole her from you...
how would you handle it if she went flirting with someone else behind your back?
is she just playing with your heart?
and maybe could try talking to her.. honestly.. and pray that she's also honest with her answers..
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all hail the mighty www!Originally posted by www: -
hahaa. coz the thread is within my moderating vicinity.Originally posted by the Bear:
all hail the mighty www! -
Haha....i guess i will face it straight up. I am not prepared to "snatch" her back, cause I thought of what the other guy would feel too..
Follow my heart? The last time i did that, i ended up having to glue it all back together....but i guess..that's life?
*thanks to all who contributed in this thread*
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i hope you'll be well...
i followed my heart and it's in pieces, not in my possession anymore...
i'll still follow my heartOriginally posted by Understand:Haha....i guess i will face it straight up. I am not prepared to "snatch" her back, cause I thought of what the other guy would feel too..
Follow my heart? The last time i did that, i ended up having to glue it all back together....but i guess..that's life?
*thanks to all who contributed in this thread* -
ur heart is not rational.....so dun follow it....
haha...tats the only piece of advice i tink i can gv u....
cos i had a similar experience b4.... -
Dun use ur heart to think,
cos tat's ur brain's job.
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love is an emotion..
that's the heart's jobOriginally posted by C-100:Dun use ur heart to think,
cos tat's ur brain's job. -
using both?Originally posted by the Bear:love is an emotion..
that's the heart's job -
What i can say is that there might be something in you that her present BF doesnt have..certain things or character that you have which kinda make her miss u... but the problem is..."is this temporary?" is she looking for u becoz at that moment of time, she missed u? that u have to analyse yourself... anyway since she has got a BF, i suggest u treat her as a normal friend. Dont pin your hopes too high.
