Date with a married lady
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How many guys here have gone out on dates with a married woman?
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No need to post this topic once every month. If you want to go out with him, go. If not, tell him you're married, not available anymore, scoot. Some guys are obsessed with who they see around them and ignore the exclusive nature of marriage. That's it, there's all sorts of perverts around, accept it, no need to study it or look for an excuse to accept their overtures. If you have morals, you stick to your stand. If you don't, then don't worry what we think.
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Good one!Originally posted by hunk37:No need to post this topic once every month. If you want to go out with him, go. If not, tell him you're married, not available anymore, scoot. Some guys are obsessed with who they see around them and ignore the exclusive nature of marriage. That's it, there's all sorts of perverts around, accept it, no need to study it or look for an excuse to accept their overtures. If you have morals, you stick to your stand. If you don't, then don't worry what we think. -
Dont I have any right to post anything I want?Originally posted by hunk37:No need to post this topic once every month. If you want to go out with him, go. If not, tell him you're married, not available anymore, scoot. Some guys are obsessed with who they see around them and ignore the exclusive nature of marriage. That's it, there's all sorts of perverts around, accept it, no need to study it or look for an excuse to accept their overtures. If you have morals, you stick to your stand. If you don't, then don't worry what we think. -
ha...ha.... welcome to e forum....u can post anything u want lah...it's just that e regulars here will notice that there are some married or older women constantly posting threads for companionship w younger guys....it's not ur fault but when pple are in this forum long enuff they sort of get sick n tired of it..... nevertheless....do have fun posting n looking at e replies.....
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actually it quite ok mah..
everyone can just say anything that does not hurt anyone -
married women... erm... not sure abt that...
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I married man n date u can anot ah ??Originally posted by mrs_angela:How many guys here have gone out on dates with a married woman?
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Mrs A: im sure if u read the previous threads, there shld be similar threads to urs
can get some reference from there if no one replies to ya -
I think Mrs. A is the one post the previous threadOriginally posted by Gary25:Mrs A: im sure if u read the previous threads, there shld be similar threads to urs can get some reference from there if no one replies to ya
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i got a male friend who date a married gal ...
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if it's a date n nothing else i dun see y not?
not as if u r cheating on e husband or something....
date can mean anything wat....a simple lunch also a date....
depends on wat u think of it...
really..... singaporeans jump to conclusions 90% of e time.....
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actually i have
she was my age.
even slept with her but i didn't know she was married.
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Originally posted by tygrr_eyez:actually i have
she was my age.
even slept with her but i didn't know she was married. 
she even dun wear the ring? -
not at all
until later on one nite she confessed that she actually had a kid.
my god.
and we were the same age. and she's so slim
freaky
luckily i saw the ic before so i know we're the same age and i saw her with the baby before
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out to play definitely know e rules of e game one wat,,,where got so stupid go wear ring one?Originally posted by millienium_bear: she even dun wear the ring? -
Originally posted by harryryan:out to play definitely know e rules of e game one wat,,,where got so stupid go wear ring one? like me also, i as a married gal dated with a guy that moment...
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hmmmmmmmmmOriginally posted by millienium_bear: like me also, i as a married gal dated with a guy that moment...
you can't have been the one i dated rite? -
if you check, about every month, she will start a thread on this topic. She should have got a lot of feedback by now. So why? I have told her before, that the best reason I can think for her behavior is she had a liason with a single guy and up to this day she still feel guilty about it, and one of the ways she has developed to reduce her guilt is to post continuously, hoping to hear people keep saying to her that it's OK, nothing wrong, everyone's doing it. i.e. not looking for info, but using people here to give her psychological relief- dats why I told her to settle it in her mind permanently and don't post anymore.Originally posted by Gary25:Mrs A: im sure if u read the previous threads, there shld be similar threads to urs can get some reference from there if no one replies to ya -
watever it is,this forum allows freedom of speech...so just let pple speak up lor.
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if she's really like wat you say, then wat's wrong? if it help her to feel better, why not? if you really can't stand her then just dun get involve into this thread or any of her similar postings. leave her alone.
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if it makes her feel better, sure. but it doesn't. that's why every few weeks she has to start a thread appearing like a brand new one when it is her once again demonstrating she is not helped at all. We do not want her to suffer in this way, but for her to get definitive treatment so she can return to us, posting genuine threads for our enjoyment, and not making us perpetuate her suffering.Originally posted by foga:if she's really like wat you say, then wat's wrong? if it help her to feel better, why not? if you really can't stand her then just dun get involve into this thread or any of her similar postings. leave her alone. -
It is precisely because there is freedom of speech in this fourm that whenever there is a post that is outrageous, offensive or just unpopular, there follows a slew of opposition, some insulting and others dismissing off the writer- in other words, telling the person to stop posting and get lost. This is when freedom of speech is being exercised- when people feel free to respond according to their judgement, and depending on the degree of unacceptability involved, often includes suggestions to stop posting. Which of course sometimes do not stop the person from another round of similar posts- presumably another expression of freedom of speech. Thus the mere asking of another to stop posting is not a repression of freedom of speech. Rather, it is the exercise of freedom of speech, which includes the freedom to rebut. You may feel free to post your objection to this opinion. You will then be exercising the freedom of speech that you espouse.Originally posted by harryryan:watever it is,this forum allows freedom of speech...so just let pple speak up lor. -
aya.. true wat.. if you want to date younger guys go ahead lor.. if you feel guility then dun do it lor..
why post all this just to tell ppl your choice...??
i dun see why a happening 30 plus or 40 plus auntie cannot date 20 year old + guyz -
yeah brother....at the most u can just ignore the thread right? no need to get all hot and bothered abt such trivial things..Originally posted by hunk37:if you check, about every month, she will start a thread on this topic. She should have got a lot of feedback by now. So why? I have told her before, that the best reason I can think for her behavior is she had a liason with a single guy and up to this day she still feel guilty about it, and one of the ways she has developed to reduce her guilt is to post continuously, hoping to hear people keep saying to her that it's OK, nothing wrong, everyone's doing it. i.e. not looking for info, but using people here to give her psychological relief- dats why I told her to settle it in her mind permanently and don't post anymore.
Stay cool bro!