What Do You Do... if your partner is frigid
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What do you do when your partner does not enjoy sex...
I'd like to ask the ladies out there.... what should I do if she does not enjoy making out...
here's her bio-data:
she's alright with watching porns,
she can get a little aroused...
but when doing it, she does not respond... not even the sound-effects...
whats worst is that she gets so stiff that she doesn't spread...
and please, its not my size that is not letting her feel it as I know this when making out with EXs. this is really bad as I'm a self-proclaimed nymphomaniac...
I used to like to do it at least 3 times a day.. its just like breakfast, lunch & dinner.... 
now I've to skip all three meals totally.... 
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the greatest sexual organ is the brain.
work on that. and using ur well-endowed organ isn't the way to tickle the brain.
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Mayb its time to cut down on ur frequency??? 3 times a day is simply too much of normal gals lor. did u ask her, does she realli likes it 3 times a day? mayb sit down n tok wif her lor... listen to hw she feels...
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I totally agree with you that I should check out if she likes it.... I have and she has been forth-right to admit she does not enjoy sex... As a matter of fact, when I used to have 3 times a day, it wasn't with her but my ex....Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:Mayb its time to cut down on ur frequency??? 3 times a day is simply too much of normal gals lor. did u ask her, does she realli likes it 3 times a day? mayb sit down n tok wif her lor... listen to hw she feels...
So this is why I'm trying to find out ways to arouse her and bring the sex thing back into our lives.... We're married.... -
nymphomaniac?
you're female? -
that person was talking about his/her partner as a female. so if he's a he, then no he's not female. if she's a she then yeah she's female, and a lesbian, or perhaps bi?Originally posted by AzRaeL:nymphomaniac?
you're female? -
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the term nymphomaniac can only be used to refer to femalesOriginally posted by jOhO:that person was talking about his/her partner as a female. so if he's a he, then no he's not female. if she's a she then yeah she's female, and a lesbian, or perhaps bi? -
yeh... thanks... i know...Originally posted by AzRaeL:the term nymphomaniac can only be used to refer to females
cos men's are always over-sexed to have a terminology just for them.... most women are frigid.... and when you do find one that likes sex... you'll want to give them a status... -
but still....
no one is able to come up with a bright plan so far.... apart from trying to do gramatical corrections and all.... sigh... -
Instead of trying to please her sexually maybe you should focus on the foreplay. Once that is done right, sex would follow. You could find out what turns her on, her erogenous zones, a particular time or places that she prefers, or what relaxes her so that the experience becomes more pleasurable.Originally posted by edseeker31:but still....
no one is able to come up with a bright plan so far.... apart from trying to do gramatical corrections and all.... sigh... -
thanks choco... been there...Originally posted by edseeker31:but still....
no one is able to come up with a bright plan so far.... apart from trying to do gramatical corrections and all.... sigh...
used fingers... tongue.... won't bother about sex toys cos she doesn't fancy... wouldn't try toes since that will be one place I'd really like to enter and thus has to be really hygienic.... -
Erm, correct me if I misinterpreted, but do you define "erogenous zones" as only her privates?Originally posted by edseeker31:thanks choco... been there...
used fingers... tongue.... won't bother about sex toys cos she doesn't fancy... wouldn't try toes since that will be one place I'd really like to enter and thus has to be really hygienic.... -
correct me if i am wrong....but doesnt the word "nymphomaniac" only refer to gals? but if u r a lesbian...i can guide u on the rite path...
Originally posted by edseeker31:What do you do when your partner does not enjoy sex...
I'd like to ask the ladies out there.... what should I do if she does not enjoy making out... here's her bio-data:
she's alright with watching porns,
she can get a little aroused...
but when doing it, she does not respond... not even the sound-effects...
whats worst is that she gets so stiff that she doesn't spread...
and please, its not my size that is not letting her feel it as I know this when making out with EXs. this is really bad as I'm a self-proclaimed nymphomaniac... I used to like to do it at least 3 times a day.. its just like breakfast, lunch & dinner.... now I've to skip all three meals totally.... -
what.. were u trying to shove a crowbar up her or smth.. tts why she not happy?
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find out whether the frigidness is due to past sexual abuse or trauma.
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well... like they say... 3 times a day is too much. Ur gf is ur love 1 not ur meals ok. No gals like to be treated like packets of instant noodles. Even when u hve d urge, do check on her feelings also rite? Perhaps her reaction now is cos of ur "overdrive" mode on her. U onli hve urself 2 blame...
u wana her 2 enjoy again, work more on ur foreplay. gals are very much into foreplay, where guys tend not to work so much on foreplay, and rather just wanna cum and dat's it. If u need any professional help, go to Popular bookstore. There is a book titled Healthy Sex. It's under the marraige section I think. Go read it, it helps. -
lol. hilarious.
how old is this person your talking about?
