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Recently i'm starting to haf a liking for a gal tat's 7yrs younger than mi... M i being normal for having tis kind of feelings for her? i'm currently 21yrs old while she's onli 14... wat should i do?
pls feel free to gif my ur precious advice n personal experiances r also welcum... thanks alot...
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jus wan to add sumthing... i dun haf any fantasies on her... jus purely like her... M i mentally ill???
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hhhmmm...u like siao3 mei mie ah
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Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:
hard to say.... im sure not having any sexual fantasies on her..... u aren't sick ah........... might be love.... u never know.... hey no one called rupert murdoch sick for marrying some lady 20 years younger than he is right? so dun worry too much.
Recently i'm starting to haf a liking for a gal tat's [b]7yrs younger than mi... M i being normal for having tis kind of feelings for her? i'm currently 21yrs old while she's onli 14... wat should i do?
pls feel free to gif my ur precious advice n personal experiances r also welcum... thanks alot... [/b] -
there's lots of things which i haf to consider lor... wat will ppl say abt the gal? ppl say abt mi, nvm.. but i dun wish to see her get hurt... afterall she's onli a sec skool student nw... ppl wun possibly be able to accept mi n her lor... wat should i do? should i woo her or jus let her go... forget abt her?Originally posted by HENG@:hard to say.... im sure not having any sexual fantasies on her..... u aren't sick ah........... might be love.... u never know.... hey no one called rupert murdoch sick for marrying some lady 20 years younger than he is right? so dun worry too much.
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unless you're willing to wait another 7 years (okay, maybe when she's 18)..
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edited to kill the stupid eight-right parenthesis smiley
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pls lah. she's so young, wat does she knw about luv n sacrifice n relationships. she probably hasnt hit puberty yet. geez....
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go for it, just dont have sex till she's 16 or there'll be trouble.
if you really like her, go for her and wait.
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it's a matter between you and her.Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:there's lots of things which i haf to consider lor... wat will ppl say abt the gal? ppl say abt mi, nvm.. but i dun wish to see her get hurt... afterall she's onli a sec skool student nw... ppl wun possibly be able to accept mi n her lor... wat should i do? should i woo her or jus let her go... forget abt her?
i first dated my GF when she had just turned 16, i was 27. She's 18 next month and we're still together. -
Originally posted by the Bear:
i beg to differ, age has nothing to do with love and maturity.
unless you're willing to wait another 7 years (okay, maybe when she's 18[b])..
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edited to kill the stupid eight-right parenthesis smiley [/b]
she might be just looking for and older guy to show her life rather than date another 15 year old kid. -
no man, i'm bad at mental arithmatics...
and i thought the age of consent was 18?
hmmm... oh well...Originally posted by AzRaeL:i beg to differ, age has nothing to do with love and maturity.
she might be just looking for and older guy to show her life rather than date another 15 year old kid. -
only in Commie countries like the United States.Originally posted by the Bear:no man, i'm bad at mental arithmatics...
and i thought the age of consent was 18?
hmmm... oh well...
In Canada, age of Consent is 14.
Japan: 13
Singapore - 14 by Criminal Law but the Women's Charter has raised it to 16.
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Singapore is not a commie country?
why didn't anyone tell me that!
Originally posted by AzRaeL:only in Commie countries like the United States.
In Canada, age of Consent is 14.
Japan: 13
Singapore - 14 by Criminal Law but the Women's Charter has raised it to 16.
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the United States has more ridiculous laws than Singapore.Originally posted by the Bear:Singapore is not a commie country?
why didn't anyone tell me that!
Sure they made fun of singapore's gum laws but American laws are amongst the most conservative on Earthy.
Their Gun laws? it's centuries old and they refused to amend it to control guns.
the 1st Amendment? that's a joke....
you can't speak out against the Bush administration without fear of being singled out as unpatriotic and boycotted.
Their sex laws? Archiac with a 18 year age of consent (16 in some states)
Their Drug laws?
ridiculous...drug deals scoot free and Marijuanna peddlers get life in jail.
Dont forget their "Racial Profiling"
They demand free trade but are the world's biggest protectionists when it comes to their own industries. -
Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:
To my own personal view, its very normal because when i was 16... i went with my ex stead who was only 12. We lasted for 6 years down the road but it didn't lasted.
Recently i'm starting to haf a liking for a gal tat's [b]7yrs younger than mi... M i being normal for having tis kind of feelings for her? i'm currently 21yrs old while she's onli 14... wat should i do?
pls feel free to gif my ur precious advice n personal experiances r also welcum... thanks alot... [/b] 
In any case, if you do go with that girl whom you have feelings for. Just remember this, its going to take lots of time and effort to be with her. Just be mentally prepared... Good luck and hope that it will work out for the best. -
thanks for ur encouragement... it realli makes mi feel better after reading ur comment... thanks...Originally posted by AzRaeL:it's a matter between you and her.
i first dated my GF when she had just turned 16, i was 27. She's 18 next month and we're still together. -
i understand wat u mean. but i also fear there may be generation gap lor... as in differences in topics tat we can tok abt... as u know, the age @ which their thinking are are alittle different from wat i'm thinking lor... hw do i overcum tis problem?Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:To my own personal view, its very normal because when i was 16... i went with my ex stead who was only 12. We lasted for 6 years down the road but it didn't lasted. In any case, if you do go with that girl whom you have feelings for. Just remember this, its going to take lots of time and effort to be with her. Just be mentally prepared... Good luck and hope that it will work out for the best.
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Generation gap... its unavoidable! But if you both are willing to put effort in your new relationship. Then you got to help her understand what you are talking about or going through and of course without saying vice versa. Age is just a number... if you both sincerely love each other then believe that love can be able to conquer all. Most importantly is communication because of your age difference. No matter what happens just remember that she will be needing you for guidance and support etc till she gains enough exprience from your new relationship or expriences from you. Either way, don't be shock or stunned if one day she thinks that she knows all that. Just remember to explain everything from a to z and help each other understand each other.Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:i understand wat u mean. but i also fear there may be generation gap lor... as in differences in topics tat we can tok abt... as u know, the age @ which their thinking are are alittle different from wat i'm thinking lor... hw do i overcum tis problem? 
Good luck and all the best! -
that's the first time anyone has ever said that to me *sniff*Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:thanks for ur encouragement... it realli makes mi feel better after reading ur comment... thanks... -
what generation gap!Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:i understand wat u mean. but i also fear there may be generation gap lor... as in differences in topics tat we can tok abt... as u know, the age @ which their thinking are are alittle different from wat i'm thinking lor... hw do i overcum tis problem?
it's only 7 years.
have her read more.
find out what she likes
and she finds out what you like.
there you go!
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thanks again... haha... i will work harder on tat...Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Generation gap... its unavoidable! But if you both are willing to put effort in your new relationship. Then you got to help her understand what you are talking about or going through and of course without saying vice versa. Age is just a number... if you both sincerely love each other then believe that love can be able to conquer all. Most importantly is communication because of your age difference. No matter what happens just remember that she will be needing you for guidance and support etc till she gains enough exprience from your new relationship or expriences from you. Either way, don't be shock or stunned if one day she thinks that she knows all that. Just remember to explain everything from a to z and help each other understand each other. Good luck and all the best! -
haha... @ most if she childish then i childish wif her lor...Originally posted by AzRaeL:what generation gap!
it's only 7 years.
have her read more.
find out what she likes
and she finds out what you like.
there you go!
all the best.
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YUM! 3rd from Left is CUTE!Originally posted by Evil Clown:
