help me! A man's ego~
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Hi.. Got a problem here.. hope you ppl can give me some advices..
how do i actually make a man gain back his confidence after accidentally commenting that his 'brother' is small?
do u guys really feel in the dumps if ya gf says tat u do not really have a magnificient dick?
gals, do u mentally compare the dick sizes of the men tat u had wif?
or reali juz give blunt comments once in a while like " u arent reali big.. XXX is so much bigger.." any comparison done? n how do u make up for the hurt tat is being caused by a slip of tongue? -
wahhh die liao...
its just like saying...
"Are you a man?"
erm maybe you could say that u were being sarcastic?
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yeah i noe.. its juz being sarcastic n mean n i apologize umpteen times but its seems useless!
besides i myself also got back my own taste of medicine..
he was so demoralised to the extend tt he could not maintain erection n tat makes me feel like " oh.. so im no longer attractive to him anymore.. tat exciteness is gone.. temptation is gone.. i felt like a piece of shit to him when tat happens.. like im a pest or someone whom he detest..
i mean y during intercourse he can bcome soft with ejaculating? n its not as if its the 1st time or wad.. i felt disheartened too.. i mean even if i said smth wrong long long time ago.. he shd no longer brood over it wad.. i also feel veri demoralised.. will think tat im such a fatty bom bom la.. den airport la.. all de confidence built up is gone juz by him 'bowing' to me.. -
Comparing a man's equipment with other men is a strict no-no... hahaha
if a guy ever asked me what i think of theirs, all i'll do is laugh, look away and then forget the whole question ... if not, simply arouse them till they forgot they asked... hahaha -
"are u a man, master-_- ?"Originally posted by Master -_-:wahhh die liao...
its just like saying...
"Are you a man?"
erm maybe you could say that u were being sarcastic? 
hey dude! i called u last nite coz Gordon actually dunno who are u...
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nvr comment abt a man's instrument... no matter how much they try to get u to tell them or even compare them.... even if u made any mental comparision tat's where it should stay... in ur mind!Originally posted by `wAwA`:Hi.. Got a problem here.. hope you ppl can give me some advices..
how do i actually make a man gain back his confidence after accidentally commenting that his 'brother' is small?
do u guys really feel in the dumps if ya gf says tat u do not really have a magnificient dick?
gals, do u mentally compare the dick sizes of the men tat u had wif?
or reali juz give blunt comments once in a while like " u arent reali big.. XXX is so much bigger.." any comparison done? n how do u make up for the hurt tat is being caused by a slip of tongue?
I must say u r in a very sad situation... just apologising won't automatically make him stand.... his ego is crushed and it'll take u alot of time and effort to get him up on his feet again... lotsa love and encouragement, no more just lusting after him... make him realised u love him not just his dick... slowly but surely he'll recover.... and pls dun make tat mistake ever again...if u have to open ur mouth, moan........... -
Originally posted by wendy81:"are u a man, master-_- ?"
hey dude! i called u last nite coz Gordon actually dunno who are u... 
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u must encourage him more to recover his confident... always tell him that he can make it.. -
sounds really bad....suggest you two go for a quality holiday, like spa resort or something, try having some quality intimate loving time....if still not effective, time to break off liao.....
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first of all...
lets establish the rls bet you and him.... gf/bf? husband/wife?
gf/bf - break off la... it seems that his size does affect you... and there are still lingering thoughts of the size you had before....
husband/wife - apologizing is not enough... you have to convince him that if you've mentioned that the one before had been better, you were only joking and you never meant it at all... making more noise during the sex thing will only complicate things further as he'll only think that you're just putting on an act... it is a very MENTAL thing for him now... good luck...
the first and last thing to do is to compare your present with your ex... imagine how you'd feel if he had compared your tits/bum with his ex... and how much better were they? you are too cruel to him!!!
it is not what you can do now... but what will you do? just put yourself in his shoes and you'll know what to do... only you know him best... -
u kinda ruined his sexual life ..
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agree.... and what women hate is not so much having their tits and bum compared but having their own skills compared... now that is something that sounds really ouch... so if you don't want that to happen, just dun compare a man's equipment....
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If he is treating you different now, it may be more because he probably think that you may be a "public bus"... In a guy's mind, only a girl who has "been around" that will make such a comment.Originally posted by `wAwA`:yeah i noe.. its juz being sarcastic n mean n i apologize umpteen times but its seems useless!
besides i myself also got back my own taste of medicine..
he was so demoralised to the extend tt he could not maintain erection n tat makes me feel like " oh.. so im no longer attractive to him anymore.. tat exciteness is gone.. temptation is gone.. i felt like a piece of shit to him when tat happens.. like im a pest or someone whom he detest..
i mean y during intercourse he can bcome soft with ejaculating? n its not as if its the 1st time or wad.. i felt disheartened too.. i mean even if i said smth wrong long long time ago.. he shd no longer brood over it wad.. i also feel veri demoralised.. will think tat im such a fatty bom bom la.. den airport la.. all de confidence built up is gone juz by him 'bowing' to me..
That's why most of your sisters are smart enough to keep their mouth shut on this issue.... It may not be ego problem but problem with his perception of you...
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Originally posted by `wAwA`:yeah i noe.. its juz being sarcastic n mean n i apologize umpteen times but its seems useless!
besides i myself also got back my own taste of medicine..
he was so demoralised to the extend tt he could not maintain erection n tat makes me feel like " oh.. so im no longer attractive to him anymore.. tat exciteness is gone.. temptation is gone.. i felt like a piece of shit to him when tat happens.. like im a pest or someone whom he detest..
i mean y during intercourse he can bcome soft with ejaculating? n its not as if its the 1st time or wad.. i felt disheartened too.. i mean even if i said smth wrong long long time ago.. he shd no longer brood over it wad.. i also feel veri demoralised.. will think tat im such a fatty bom bom la.. den airport la.. all de confidence built up is gone juz by him 'bowing' to me.. -
i read enough to know that u should never tell ur bonker that he's got a smaller d*ck than someone else. unless its bigger or longer than others, keep ur mouth shut.
what u think in ur head
" tis wan not as shiok as the other wan, cos tis not long enough to gimme deeper peneration" or,
"tis wan is so soft easily!!" should never be spoken out in words if u wanna be bonk again, or, if the relationship meant something to u.
try to make him horny more... and try different stuff.. -
the real question to ask here really is...
HOW SMALL IS HE EH?? -
break off? haiz.. juz bcoz he lidat break off? is it worth it?Originally posted by jet70:sounds really bad....suggest you two go for a quality holiday, like spa resort or something, try having some quality intimate loving time....if still not effective, time to break off liao..... -
tell him you've seen smaller...
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I can't believe you did that! Never comment on a man's "brother"!Originally posted by `wAwA`:Hi.. Got a problem here.. hope you ppl can give me some advices..
how do i actually make a man gain back his confidence after accidentally commenting that his 'brother' is small?
do u guys really feel in the dumps if ya gf says tat u do not really have a magnificient dick?
gals, do u mentally compare the dick sizes of the men tat u had wif?
or reali juz give blunt comments once in a while like " u arent reali big.. XXX is so much bigger.." any comparison done? n how do u make up for the hurt tat is being caused by a slip of tongue? If he cannot pleased you then you got to teach him how to even if his "brother" is too small. Even if there are girls who compare sizes of men's little brother... NEVER EVER say it out. Either way... you gotta try to make him feel that he is good enough for you to enjoy yourself. If that doesn't work then good luck and hope that he can get over it. -
ah beys.... u jia lat liao... no hope liao..... end of story... if i was him i go jump liao....
jk lah, maybe u can try to praise him more in diff areas? for eg: though he may be small... but his skills are much better. the wae he fondles u are wae better than ur ex... blah blah blah.. catch the pattern? how bout a comment like : i love the wae it is, juz cute and it doesnt hurt me as much.
gd luck~ u will need every tiny weeny bit of it... -
here's a new way...
make a comparison of your tits with his didi... that is if u are small also... then tell him of how proud you are even when you are small....
yeah... or maybe tell him that you are absolutely sure you his is much bigger than your kid bro, little nephew... only that they are still 5-6yrs old... 
you may say ask why break of b'cos of this... then lets ask u why are u hurting him b'cos of his size / virility? -
just looked in here.. dunno if it's tragic or comic...
try this: It's the driver, not the equipment -
haiz.. im to blame.. i'm veri st8 forward.. i noe tat i shdnt compare.. but juz bcoz of some topics i blurt out tat my ex is bigger den his.. den he assume tat he is small..Originally posted by edseeker31:here's a new way...
make a comparison of your tits with his didi... that is if u are small also... then tell him of how proud you are even when you are small....
yeah... or maybe tell him that you are absolutely sure you his is much bigger than your kid bro, little nephew... only that they are still 5-6yrs old...
you may say ask why break of b'cos of this... then lets ask u why are u hurting him b'cos of his size / virility?