will u guys hope to be with someone u love or..........
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as above....
or will u be happy as long as...
he / she is happy?
Will u do things like not wanting to be with him/ her...
because u scare to lose him/ her?
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I think the best way to love is to love him/her even if you two are not together. All it mattters is that party to be happy, even though you may not be. WHat's important is that possession doesn't means love.. And love needs no possession ...
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if she's happy, i would be too...
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Yeah, sometimes u're afraid of being with them for fear of losing what u already have. A few years ago, I fell for my best friend in the entire world.. it was pure hell cos I was with him everday and we just knew that we couldn't be together.
But then again, you'll never know if u dont give it a shot.. u've gotta decide if u wanna take the risk i guess. -
well...
its kinda complicated it seems...
no ones wants to lose someone they love so much....
but it u dun give i a try....u will remain where u are...
but if u gave it a shot...and misfired...
oh god...
that will mean the end of the great friendship?
i tried and got hurt...
thats why i taking relationship so likely nowdays...
or rather last time...
now hope to find true luv...
but...
is it possible?
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i agree with the fact that love doesn't need possession and possession does not equate to love.
however i am a greedy bastard. i will have both, or nothing. i will not settle for half price. if i love her, i will want to "possess her" and if i can't, then i will slowly stop loving her.
of course we now step over to the fact that true love never dies (or along those lines). perhaps wat i mean it not that love has died, but rather love will grow for someone else again. it's up to the individual to allow it to grow again.
so let's answer the question: do i hope to be with someone i love or will i be happy as long as she is happy?
BOTH. that i am with her, and she is happy becos she is with me and it is reciprocated.
fairy tale u think? only if u think you aren't worthy of such happiness. -
To be with that person whom i love so much is better than anything else. But sometimes, even if that special person doesn't feel the same about me then as long as she is happy. Then its fine... but of course it is hard to get over it due to being rejected. In time, everything will be fine. At least, she is still a very good friend! It doesn't have to be with her to be happy.
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Hey Marmalade boy...... love ur siggy!!!!!!!!!Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:To be with that person whom i love so much is better than anything else. But sometimes, even if that special person doesn't feel the same about me then as long as she is happy. Then its fine... but of course it is hard to get over it due to being rejected. In time, everything will be fine. At least, she is still a very good friend! It doesn't have to be with her to be happy.
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To me, i think the person i'm with is the person i love most so i would say i hope to be with someone i love.
i mean, no offence to others but, in my honest opinion, if you love somebody else , A, who is with another person, B, and A is happy with B, you're suppose to be happy too? Furthermore, if you're with a person C, but you love A more than C, aren't you sort of cheating C in a way?? -
u sounds like a philosopher, i agree with that.Originally posted by Nata|ie:I think the best way to love is to love him/her even if you two are not together. All it mattters is that party to be happy, even though you may not be. WHat's important is that possession doesn't means love.. And love needs no possession ...
i love a person for about 2 years but i never possess her but i m happy that she is living great now. Still thinking of her and hoping she will come to me. That will make me even happier! -
If I love her, I will want to be with her...
If I love her, I will want to spend the rest of my life with her...
If I want to spend the rest of my life with her, we will need a good foundation.
I believe that just love alone cannot keep a relationship. Other factors like time, committment, spending time with each other, etc. plays an equally important role in the foundation building...
But she said that she wants to end now, and then see how after 2 years, when we graduate...
Sigh, now is the best time to build a strong foundation, but she doesn't see things my way.
She said love is not about possessing. Yes, love is not about possessing. It's for the future I'm thinking about that made me want to be together with her. But she said that although she understand what I'm saying, she doesn't see things my way...
Well, I guess she's still a bit naive about relationships. It was her first, so I guess she had all the fantasies that love will conquer all...
Sigh...
I still miss her SO, SO much...
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Well I am not.. juz that i came to terms with such situations. When you've experienced such heartaches.. i guess everything turns out sour and in time you've got to make do with it.Originally posted by i01314:u sounds like a philosopher, i agree with that.
i love a person for about 2 years but i never possess her but i m happy that she is living great now. Still thinking of her and hoping she will come to me. That will make me even happier!
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of cos the best case scenario is to be wif some1 we luv
but life is not always full of green for every1....Originally posted by dumbz:
i believe dat if u luv some1, even if u r no longer wif him/her, the luv will still exists, so if u say dat when u move on to another person, u will be cheating on him/her juz cos u still luv A, i wnt agree....
i mean, no offence to others but, in my honest opinion, if you love somebody else , A, who is with another person, B, and A is happy with B, you're suppose to be happy too? Furthermore, if you're with a person C, but you love A more than C, aren't you sort of cheating C in a way??
it is true, if u luv dat person, can u say it juz die bcos u r wif another person?? itz juz dat u may no longer luv A as deep as b4.....
sadly, not every r/s is equal, i.e. both parties luv each other as deep
itz always the case of 1 luvin more than the other.....
hence, the person we are wif may not be the person we luv most....