Anione noes how it feels.....
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....to be just married & at times feel caged up ...still wanna make more frens,.....???
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Ya, although i'm not marry yet but i do have tat feelings at times when i'm attached. Ur hubby mind tat?Originally posted by sassyfire:....to be just married & at times feel caged up ...still wanna make more frens,.....??? -
it feels like shit...
especially when your other half is the suspicious, possessive type... going through your phone when you're not aware and asking many questions later just like being interrogated...
to make matters worse... we are not sexually close.... the other half does not enjoy making out...
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yup....edseeker i noe what u mean....but at times is cos the guys did somethin too many times we can't trust or perhaps e gurl is insecure ma...so the man must do somethin' about it....well to me love-making is one of the essential component to a loving marriage as well....just that when u're a virgin then u marry the man....sometimes u wonder is that all that is to making out???
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Yes... I guess I can understand that feeling...?Originally posted by sassyfire:....to be just married & at times feel caged up ...still wanna make more frens,.....??? Can be....
DAMN FUNNY..???
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yes la funni hor.....hmmmpfff (oop so touchy)
Sumtimes jus wanna know more frens....aiyah but ppl can be double-standard one hor...like u make more frens can la then if u c ur wife have too many guy frens....cannot -
How about if your boyfriend/husband only have 3 best buddies (1 guy and 2 girls... which the guy and one girl is a couple) who are always with him and you got tons of guys hanging out with you, sms-ing, calling, trying to date etc? Care to share your view?Originally posted by sassyfire:yes la funni hor.....hmmmpfff (oop so touchy)
Sumtimes jus wanna know more frens....aiyah but ppl can be double-standard one hor...like u make more frens can la then if u c ur wife have too many guy frens....cannot -
its is jus a thin line between care and obsession
no one reallie can tell which is which
and most of the time its reallie up to the individual
love is never a game played when we are bored
love is responsibility and committment
i have loved and lost, and i believe most share this experience
now i am abt to lose the gal whom i love
treasure wat u have..
when u look at a piece of white paper.. remember not jus to spot the black spots.. look at it as a whole.. and u can see tat it is white
remember tat u love him -
i think dun nid to be married.. juz have a bf and u will have the feeling of being caged le... but human are weird le.. .if ur partner control too much then u will feel tat u dun have any freedom.. if he dun care abt u... u will feel tat he dun care abt the r/s..
contradicting right?
i rather my partner control me.. at least i noe he is ard for me...
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Sad to say but good to know! There are only few who think like you do!Originally posted by Lynette80:i think dun nid to be married.. juz have a bf and u will have the feeling of being caged le... but human are weird le.. .if ur partner control too much then u will feel tat u dun have any freedom.. if he dun care abt u... u will feel tat he dun care abt the r/s..
contradicting right?
i rather my partner control me.. at least i noe he is ard for me... -
its really difficult to find a partner who can totally trust you and let you go out with whoever you want to.
I always believe in a relationship is like flying a kite...
let the string loose when it time to let a few yards out...but can't let out too much till it flies away..
pull the string once in awhile so that it will caught the wind and fly higher...but not too tight till the string breaks... that it will fly away too...
if you can do that.. this kite will fly long and high -
[Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:How about if your boyfriend/husband only have 3 best buddies (1 guy and 2 girls... which the guy and one girl is a couple) who are always with him and you got tons of guys hanging out with you, sms-ing, calling, trying to date etc? Care to share your view?
[/b]sorry for e late reply...I only check tis when i @ work...harhar...
Actually if the couple he hangs out with dun try any hanky panky....it's fine...as for me I dun really think it's tat good for e relationship if got tons of guys trying to call N date u.....I may hv alot of guy frens in e past but I never go out wif everyone...usually i try to go in a group too, dun wan em to get e wrg idea....also last time I try to make frens wif gals but always kanna betrayed (thy jus wan to noe my guy frens) or thy pretend to be frens only ...ask em go out always not free....so tats y 99% of my frens r guys.....thy respect tat fact & understand my situatn....but cos if u've bf or hub, he cant accept one la...rite? -
if my bf dn care abt me.. and never ask anything.. i think i will feel insecure leh.... mabbe i paranoidOriginally posted by Marmalade Boy:Sad to say but good to know! There are only few who think like you do! -
Originally posted by sassyfire:
I wouldn't say that your boyfriend or hubby wouldn't accept it. But i know for a fact that it would make him very insecure or uncomfortable with the idea. If you show him that you know when you draw the line and make him feel secure... i know that there are guys out there who wouldn't mind one bit even if your friends are all males!
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sorry for e late reply...I only check tis when i @ work...harhar...
Actually if the couple he hangs out with dun try any hanky panky....it's fine...as for me I dun really think it's tat good for e relationship if got tons of guys trying to call N date u.....I may hv alot of guy frens in e past but I never go out wif everyone...usually i try to go in a group too, dun wan em to get e wrg idea....also last time I try to make frens wif gals but always kanna betrayed (thy jus wan to noe my guy frens) or thy pretend to be frens only ...ask em go out always not free....so tats y 99% of my frens r guys.....thy respect tat fact & understand my situatn....but cos if u've bf or hub, he cant accept one la...rite?[/b]
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I wouldn't say that your boyfriend don't care but its more of rather. When your boyfriends ask about it, you might say that he is paranoid and being over sensitive. Or when he doesn't care, you might say that he just plainly don't care. Hmm... this is quite confusing and fustrating.Originally posted by Lynette80:if my bf dn care abt me.. and never ask anything.. i think i will feel insecure leh.... mabbe i paranoid