I think i've feelin on my ex bf! It sldn't be like this, hw?
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My current bf was in NS nw n thus i spent most of the time with my ex bf like gtg out for movies n supper etc. My bf know abt it n he did not mind cos he know my ex bf too.
but somehow i think i've feelin on my ex bf. When he told me that he like my best friend, my heart feel aches n i'm quite sad abt it. I sldn't react like this. i'm sure that i wont patch back wif him cos I'm VERY certain tat i still love my bf alot alot.
but why i'll feel aches when my ex bf told me he like my best friend?
i need advice from u guys n gals urgently...
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how did he become your ex?
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bad bad bad.. haiz.
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it's always quite easy for a gal to 'dong xin' when she n someone r always 2gether n close, let alone to say it's ur ex-bf, someone u love n r close with b4......
i think it's not tat u still like him lah..... but juz don wan to accept tat he like ur fran, while u n him r still so good???
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huh what u mean? btw i think i post my topic at wrong place.. hope u all dun mind...Originally posted by the Bear:how did he become your ex? -
i think he mean y u all break up?Originally posted by whoofwhoof:huh what u mean? btw i think i post my topic at wrong place.. hope u all dun mind... -
i also think of it too... but kinda funny that my heart will aches cos of him..Originally posted by thhong22:it's always quite easy for a gal to 'dong xin' when she n someone r always 2gether n close, let alone to say it's ur ex-bf, someone u love n r close with b4......
i think it's not tat u still like him lah..... but juz don wan to accept tat he like ur fran, while u n him r still so good??? -
if u are sure u love ur bf (which is good!) then u're fine. just ignore those thoughts, and they'll probably pass with time.
i wouldn't question the reasons for those thoughts. don't even think about it. after all, u're SURE u love ur bf... right? -
it's natural i guess.....Originally posted by whoofwhoof:i also think of it too... but kinda funny that my heart will aches cos of him..
juz like when i saw a neoprint in my ex-bf wallet.... which he claim to b his fran only..... i will oso jealous mah.... for donno wat reason...
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oh he is my first love mah.. that time i still young... tat abt 8 yrs bk...Originally posted by thhong22:i think he mean y u all break up? -
ohh.... so long liao ah.....Originally posted by whoofwhoof:oh he is my first love mah.. that time i still young... tat abt 8 yrs bk... -
how old were u then? 10?Originally posted by whoofwhoof:oh he is my first love mah.. that time i still young... tat abt 8 yrs bk... -
yup... we remain as very good friends whom share problems etc.. till these few days then i got feelin on him.. die man... y i've such feelin? i'm wonderin the feelin is those love type or wat?Originally posted by thhong22:ohh.... so long liao ah..... -
kaoz.. wonder somemore..Originally posted by whoofwhoof:yup... we remain as very good friends whom share problems etc.. till these few days then i got feelin on him.. die man... y i've such feelin? i'm wonderin the feelin is those love type or wat?
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14 tat time...Originally posted by jOhO:how old were u then? 10? -
so long liao then have feelings???Originally posted by whoofwhoof:yup... we remain as very good friends whom share problems etc.. till these few days then i got feelin on him.. die man... y i've such feelin? i'm wonderin the feelin is those love type or wat?
or shld i say so long liao... STILL have feelings??? -
i see.. if my maths serves me right....Originally posted by whoofwhoof:14 tat time...
ok my maths has stopped serving jack...
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tat y i'm puzzled... am i reali have feelin on him or onli jealous cos he said he like my best friend?Originally posted by thhong22:so long liao then have feelings???
or shld i say so long liao... STILL have feelings??? -
hmmm...... tat i donno liao...... could b a mixture of both or none.....Originally posted by whoofwhoof:tat y i'm puzzled... am i reali have feelin on him or onli jealous cos he said he like my best friend?
errr..... m i confusing u further 
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hmmm.. mabbe juz tat u dun want 2 lose him to ur best friend?
if he is together with ur best friend den u 2 wun be together tat often? so confusing... u still love ur current bf mar? -
I think you are just lonely because your bf is not around.Originally posted by whoofwhoof:My current bf was in NS nw n thus i spent most of the time with my ex bf like gtg out for movies n supper etc. My bf know abt it n he did not mind cos he know my ex bf too.
but somehow i think i've feelin on my ex bf. When he told me that he like my best friend, my heart feel aches n i'm quite sad abt it. I sldn't react like this. i'm sure that i wont patch back wif him cos I'm VERY certain tat i still love my bf alot alot.
but why i'll feel aches when my ex bf told me he like my best friend?
i need advice from u guys n gals urgently...
Also you are probably quite young. -
x 2Originally posted by Lynette80:hmmm.. mabbe juz tat u dun want 2 lose him to ur best friend?
if he is together with ur best friend den u 2 wun be together tat often? so confusing... u still love ur current bf mar?
mayb tat's the case -
Very sad....
Sigh...thats life -
Hmm.. veri long nv come here le...
Hmm... i think it is lyk tat 1 la... i laz time i see my 1st gf then i lyk tinking "arggg m i still loving her?" tat kinda of thing... u wait lo.. wait n see.... tat is the best thing now, dun do things tat r silly.... sumtimes this kinda of feelings juz come n go... who noes veri fast.. u dun hav tat feeling le.... -
Sometimes there's no need to know the reason for everything that happens. Since you know that you still love your current boyfriend, then all you need to do is to concentrate on him and just let time deal with the rest...