Just a lifestyle??? Hmm...maybe...Originally posted by orangesandlemons:hmm. i have occassional sex with my friends. this girl even fingered me a few times. thing is, my boyfriend knows and he's okay with it. he fools around with other chicks and i'm okay with it. VARIETY! it sounds pretty sick but it's a lifestyle.
I think in the end. You need to weigh the fairness you'll be giving to your bf and towards yourself.Originally posted by winky:Personally, I'm experiencing some problems related to this issue now. What should I do now? Its not a problem if I'm single of course. The problem comes in when I'm attached, and I got tackled with a part-time casual sex offer from a friend whom I used to have a crush on, and still am slightly affected by him.![]()

and would u be willing to honestly tell your future spouse of your behavior prior to the relationship if he asks?Originally posted by Nata|ie:I guess it's pretty ok?? if both are agreeable on the fact that u've got a gf lor. That it's plainly physical and nothing more than tat. But if feelings are goin to be involve.. maybe gotta think abt ur gf? hehe
It's ok if both parties are singles..... but practice safe sex.![]()
Originally posted by orangesandlemons:hmm. i have occassional sex with my friends. this girl even fingered me a few times. thing is, my boyfriend knows and he's okay with it. he fools around with other chicks and i'm okay with it. VARIETY! it sounds pretty sick but it's a lifestyle.
gals who love to flirt tends to be more fun.......so u club alot?Originally posted by Nata|ie:hahah Am single and still flirting... lolx..![]()
ya, tats true...Originally posted by tandavidsg:Even though both of u say u r "ok" with it... i tell u.. 1 day, u juz need a spark n an arguement will come out from here... even though u say u r ok.. n he is ok.. but deep down... both are u realli nt lo... imagine u r married le.. then ur husband still go out n nie hua re chao.... hmm world war siah..