help!

• Love_hurts

  11 Sep 03, 21:05

  i wan to send a gal home whom i love home in abt 2 hr time cos she is wrking now. however she told me tat if i want to meet her jus to see her home...i shld save the trouble.
  
  does it mean tat she dun wan to see me??????
  
  what can i do to meet her? help........Thanks
• Friday

  11 Sep 03, 21:24

  Originally posted by Love_hurts:

  i wan to send a gal home whom i love home in abt 2 hr time cos she is wrking now. however she told me tat if i want to meet her jus to see her home...i shld save the trouble.
  
  does it mean tat she dun wan to see me??????
  
  what can i do to meet her? help........Thanks

  Er, just how well do you know her?
  
  It actually depends on her tone of voice when she said that to you. On one hand, it could be that, yes she doesn't want to see you.
  On the other hand, it could be that she's hinting that perhaps you want to go do something else before sending her home, in which case, that could prove interesting!
  And of course, she may just be testing you out to see how interested you are.
  And finally, she could genuinely be sincere in not wanting to trouble you, cos she's not the selfish about herself etc.
• Love_hurts

  11 Sep 03, 21:32

  so what shld i do? she sms me wan.... so i do not really know her tone. the sms goes like tis"huh? why u want meet me? if u want to see me home only.. then dun take he trouble k."
  me quite close with her le liao....
  went out alot alot of time.. jus went to cable care dining in the skies & sentosa yest...........
  
  what shld i do??????? do i still go wait ?????????
• BearBear®

  11 Sep 03, 21:48

  then bring her to somewhere else first loh......
• KashNut

  11 Sep 03, 21:53

  Bring her to some where man!!! gd luck...
• Imperfect

  11 Sep 03, 22:01

  I think she just feel that it is meaningless for u to meet her just to send her home... it doesnt really mean that she dont want to see u.. .she is sincere in saving u the trouble. Some gals just dont like to meet to eat then say bye bye, feel that it is not quality time spend. needless to say just to send her home. Since u are close to her liao, u shld somehow know what does she mean...
• -=|nN0c3Nt=-

  12 Sep 03, 01:47

  i think u should realli work hard for it, if u're realli serious abt her... all the best!!!
• Slumberland

  12 Sep 03, 16:27

  I think no point guessing what she really wants from you. Might as well take the next step from here. Next time round, ask her if she would like to hang out at the cafe and chat for a bit before sending her back. If that she doesn't respond well to your suggestion ( take note if she is really tired or not. If it is, don't lose heart), take a hint.
  Gd Luck!
• M©+square

  12 Sep 03, 16:31

  My take is, ask her if there's anything bothering her.
  Care for her, placing anything else below her.
• jet70

  12 Sep 03, 16:35

  Halo, ppl last night 9pm sent SOS for help, saying would meet the gal in 2 hrs time (11pm). Now, I think he had supper liao, sleep over at her place liao, eat breakfast and shit liao, and went to work this morning liao. No need to reply liao. May be send him an message 2 months later to check if the gal got pregant?
• KrU

  12 Sep 03, 18:59

  Originally posted by jet70:

  Halo, ppl last night 9pm sent SOS for help, saying would meet the gal in 2 hrs time (11pm). Now, I think he had supper liao, sleep over at her place liao, eat breakfast and shit liao, and went to work this morning liao. No need to reply liao. May be send him an message 2 months later to check if the gal got pregant?