Virginity?Important to save it for future husband/wife?
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In this 20th century, what do we think about saving our virginity for opposite sex after marriage? I feel that it is not impt anymore, since ur opposite sex tendency to be virgin, is very LOW. And if we do not want to stay virgin, who is the best person to give it to? 
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how come nobody ans? pls share your views, esp gals...
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It's still very important for me to stay V until i got married.
There u go one answer from me.. -
sheesh... isn't anyone sick of this stupid topic by morons wanting to get high?
my answer is the same as before. virgin until married. -
me too.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:sheesh... isn't anyone sick of this stupid topic by morons wanting to get high?
my answer is the same as before. virgin until married.
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ME TOO!Originally posted by dumbdumb!:sheesh... isn't anyone sick of this stupid topic by morons wanting to get high?
my answer is the same as before. virgin until married.
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wow looks like all is not lost. There is still so many traditional gals in sg fighting hard to protect their chaste... Juz like my gf. Sighz, hence me oso gotta stay V bcos of her. But given a chance. I rather giv the 1st time to her then to get it lost one day when we party and throw it away during ONS...
Hence when lost liao, then we dun need not worry abt ONS already, rite guys.
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come on.....TA PO KIA here..not galsOriginally posted by MacDonal:wow looks like all is not lost. There is still so many traditional gals in sg fighting hard to protect their chaste... Juz like my gf. Sighz, hence me oso gotta stay V bcos of her. But given a chance. I rather giv the 1st time to her then to get it lost one day when we party and throw it away during ONS...
Hence when lost liao, then we dun need not worry abt ONS already, rite guys. -
Originally posted by NeonTetra:come on.....TA PO KIA here..not gals
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well,
I would love to keep it for my future wife....
if only I was firm enough to say NO...haha
anyway....what if ur wife is not one??
dun matter so much about that big V k....
it isn't a big deal after all...
as long as u love ur wife and she love u...
everyong makes a mistake rite...
but i will not be able to accept it if my wife slept around so often....keke -
Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:well,
I would love to keep it for my future wife....
if only I was firm enough to say NO...haha
anyway....what if ur wife is not one??
dun matter so much about that big V k....
it isn't a big deal after all...
as long as u love ur wife and she love u...
everyong makes a mistake rite...
but i will not be able to accept it if my wife slept around so often....keke
so often cannot la...once a while nvm ah? -
virginity is some infantile superstition tat it's supposed to be a sign of purity and not dumb ignorance.
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No replies? Maybe it's because you are living in a different time and era from us ("20th century"???)
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dunno ley..
i think different pple have different views lor.. in the past its like ger muz be V... guys dun nid be V.. so0o0 unfair..
but if u reallie love tat person.. u wun mind whether he/she is a V or not... i feel tat its important to leave for not future husband/wife.. is leave for the person whom u love most~ -
Virginity to me is more than a physical condition; it is the condition of the heart.
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wah "Qim"!!Originally posted by AzRaeL:virginity is some infantile superstition tat it's supposed to be a sign of purity and not dumb ignorance. -
so to speak, if u luv me, u may give me. Then come next moment, if u luv him, how to giv him (the "V")Originally posted by Lynette80:dunno ley..
i think different pple have different views lor.. in the past its like ger muz be V... guys dun nid be V.. so0o0 unfair..
but if u reallie love tat person.. u wun mind whether he/she is a V or not... i feel tat its important to leave for not future husband/wife.. is leave for the person whom u love most~ -
I agree with u here. Love Overcomes Everything. If u really love each other, then u would accept and love her for wat he/she is.Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:well,
I would love to keep it for my future wife....
if only I was firm enough to say NO...haha
anyway....what if ur wife is not one??
dun matter so much about that big V k....
it isn't a big deal after all...
as long as u love ur wife and she love u...
everyong makes a mistake rite...
but i will not be able to accept it if my wife slept around so often....keke -
It is very important to me....will save it for my future hubby..
However, if it comes to an extraordinary situation, then maybe give to the love of my life..in a case that I'm dying or won't see him again or whatsoever..
I agree that love is all that matters..love you for the present you and not bothering about your past..
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nO... onlie if i love the guy alot alot.... not all who sae loves me will get it one mar.... but if d guy sae "if u love me u will give it to me.. "Originally posted by MacDonal:so to speak, if u luv me, u may give me. Then come next moment, if u luv him, how to giv him (the "V")
i hate this line.. so childish -
Nowadays the average age for sg males getting marriage is about 30 plus and females is about late 20s or more . . . hmmm...
In todays contact, if you are still virgin by then, irregardless you are male of female... err... dont be too proud about it
btw only kids ask such question again again -
actually i really feel that sex shd come after marriage although both partners might have a hard time controlling themselves, esp when they feel that they need to show their love physically. i feel that its not the Virginity tt is impt anymore but the problem of wanting to statisfies the urge every now and then.
but i really feel that sex is like an addiction, once u start , u cant stop. The sexual desire will be there and what if e r/s dun work and e couple goto break off. How do they actually statisfies their urge of lust? i believe there r gals and guys around who are eager to vent their sexual urge every now and then or even sleeping ard. To some extent, i think it really causes social problems .
If its possible , i hope its possible 2 provide solutions to curb this kind of desires. -
Originally posted by MacDonal:wow looks like all is not lost. There is still so many traditional gals in sg fighting hard to protect their chaste... Juz like my gf. Sighz, hence me oso gotta stay V bcos of her. But given a chance. I rather giv the 1st time to her then to get it lost one day when we party and throw it away during ONS...
Hence when lost liao, then we dun need not worry abt ONS already, rite guys. In this 20th century, what do we think about saving our virginity for opposite sex after marriage? I feel that it is not impt anymore, since ur opposite sex tendency to be virgin, is very LOW. And if we do not want to stay virgin, who is the best person to give it to?
contradicting. if you mean what you said, she wouldn't need to fight hard to protect herself. since she is your gf, so what do you mean? 
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The goal of sexual repression is to produce an individual who is adjusted to the authoritarian order and will submit to it in spite of all misery and degradation.Originally posted by peacely:If its possible , i hope its possible 2 provide solutions to curb this kind of desires. -
Simi ar?Still got virgins around ar?!!Whoa,like dat muz remembr to check for moulds liao.Who noes ur partner is still a virgin?
