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Hey guys, just curious about something.
Do you guys get a hard on when you go out with the person you like/love? Or worse, you all get hardon whenever you go out with ANY woman?
Anyway, although I do go out with a particular female alone this many weeks since I separated with the one I love, I never had any hard ons like what I used to have whenever I go out with the one I love.
Anyone with this experience too? Or am I becoming abnormal?
Sigh, I still miss her so much...
Does she know?
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u r trying to equate erections with love? eerrmm..........i get a hard on on the train also...u say leh? haha
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love?
more like LUST -
At that time. whenever I get close to the one I love, it will automatically hardens...
But it never happened again after she and I broke up. Well, what I meant is, going out with other females alone never produced such an autonomic reaction, even if I regularly go out with the female...
Couldn't quite find back the feelings. I think they were gone the day she left me...
And, I dun normally get hard ons in the train, or almost anywhere...
Sigh, am I using the female as a substitute for my ex? -
in other words u r impotent the day she left u ??? oh no......Originally posted by Saint_Evil:At that time. whenever I get close to the one I love, it will automatically hardens...
But it never happened again after she and I broke up. Well, what I meant is, going out with other females alone never produced such an autonomic reaction, even if I regularly go out with the female...
Couldn't quite find back the feelings. I think they were gone the day she left me...
And, I dun normally get hard ons in the train, or almost anywhere...
Sigh, am I using the female as a substitute for my ex? -
Lust of course have...Originally posted by FireIce:love?
more like LUST
But we never did any thing other than hold hands...
And I DO love her terribly...
Maybe too much...
So much that until now I still haven't let go totally...
Seems like it was just yesterday that she left me...
Sigh, when will my life ever get straightened out? -
we parted more than 4 months ago.. it seems an eternity.. without Her...
if the fates allow it, and we are together again, i will, as always, look at her with lust in my eyes and love in my heart
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wasup? go out w a gal only get hard on? if it was normal... guys n gals wont be able to slow dance face to face anymore...
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Trying to be funny??Originally posted by NeonTetra:in other words u r impotent the day she left u ??? oh no......
No lah, if see something stimulating still got reactions...
But last time whenever get close to females will have some reactions...
Now like dull liao...
Anyone who just broke up like to comment? I'm wondering whether is it just me, or this is a normal after-effect. -
How did you handle that 4 months?Originally posted by the Bear:we parted more than 4 months ago.. it seems an eternity.. without Her...
if the fates allow it, and we are together again, i will, as always, look at her with lust in my eyes and love in my heart
Sigh, I tried doing many other things, but the memories of us together, and the things she told me when we broke up, always creeps back...
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maybe thats the side effects of a broken relationship? maybe its psychological response? erections r not always physical....emotions play a part as well......Originally posted by Saint_Evil:Trying to be funny??
No lah, if see something stimulating still got reactions...
But last time whenever get close to females will have some reactions...
Now like dull liao...
Anyone who just broke up like to comment? I'm wondering whether is it just me, or this is a normal after-effect. -
its like the 1st time u saw an exposed bra strap.... u got really exited n horny but after seeing to many liao thn no kick anymore. u nid further stimulation.Originally posted by Saint_Evil:Trying to be funny??
No lah, if see something stimulating still got reactions...
But last time whenever get close to females will have some reactions...
Now like dull liao...
Anyone who just broke up like to comment? I'm wondering whether is it just me, or this is a normal after-effect. -
still handling it...
i love her.. always will...
if we are not fated to be together, then i'll be aloneOriginally posted by Saint_Evil:How did you handle that 4 months?
Sigh, I tried doing many other things, but the memories of us together, and the things she told me when we broke up, always creeps back...
It still hurts terribly... -
Not just normal go out...Originally posted by skeujin:wasup? go out w a gal only get hard on? if it was normal... guys n gals wont be able to slow dance face to face anymore...
Like watch movies together, go arcade together, study together, etc...
Sigh, I think I'm using her as a substitute... -
ya wat no t even intimate so y the harddie? normal activities nia wat... or let me guess your about 17?Originally posted by Saint_Evil:Not just normal go out...
Like watch movies together, go arcade together, study together, etc...
Sigh, I think I'm using her as a substitute... -
Yeah, I think its mostly psychologically...Originally posted by NeonTetra:maybe thats the side effects of a broken relationship? maybe its psychological response? erections r not always physical....emotions play a part as well......
Although I know I have to let go, I still haven't quite managed that...
And my emotions has mostly been rather poor since the breakup...
Oh, I do smile and laugh and joke whenver I'm with my classmates, but deep down, I still feel the hurt...
It's like a burden placed in me, and I can't remove it... -
Yeah, I think its mostly psychologically...Originally posted by NeonTetra:maybe thats the side effects of a broken relationship? maybe its psychological response? erections r not always physical....emotions play a part as well......
Although I know I have to let go, I still haven't quite managed that...
And my emotions has mostly been rather poor since the breakup...
Oh, I do smile and laugh and joke whenver I'm with my classmates, but deep down, I still feel the hurt...
It's like a burden placed in me, and I can't remove it... -
Nah, these type of things dun stimulate me anymore...Originally posted by skeujin:its like the 1st time u saw an exposed bra strap.... u got really exited n horny but after seeing to many liao thn no kick anymore. u nid further stimulation.
Too old for these...
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Nah, these type of things dun stimulate me anymore...Originally posted by skeujin:its like the 1st time u saw an exposed bra strap.... u got really exited n horny but after seeing to many liao thn no kick anymore. u nid further stimulation.
Too old for these...
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maybe even less... still small ... cannot control...Originally posted by skeujin:ya wat no t even intimate so y the harddie? normal activities nia wat... or let me guess your about 17?
watch more porn... and u will grow.. =p hahah
i imagine... if he see a ah ma zao keng on the mrt... will he be able to control .... duhz ! -
it is normal. slowly lor. -
