How many....

• Bulat2

  16 Oct 03, 14:25

  Normally how many gf/ bf would u have before u decide to settle down? I mean like really put urself into a relationship and not treat ur gf/ bf as companion only but as part of u.
• bjork

  16 Oct 03, 14:28

  Originally posted by Bulat2:

  Normally how many gf/ bf would u have before u decide to settle down? I mean like really put urself into a relationship and not treat ur gf/ bf as companion only but as part of u.

  weird question? Do u decide when/who to settle down by how many ex u have in the past?
• chonsou

  16 Oct 03, 14:28

  
• tankee1981

  16 Oct 03, 14:44

  I suppose he mean how many relationships should one have that can be considered enough to be used as a gauge to choose the right partner for marriage,right?
• chonsou

  16 Oct 03, 14:46

  let me guess...
  
  For most of the guys As Many As Possible
  For most of the girls As Little As Possible
  
  
• bjork

  16 Oct 03, 14:50

  Originally posted by tankee1981:

  I suppose he mean how many relationships should one have that can be considered enough to be used as a gauge to choose the right partner for marriage,right?

  erm.. still sound the same to me. Marriage is not gauge by how many r/s one has.
  Or does he means, how many r/s one shld go through before realising wat he really want in a partner?
• chonsou

  16 Oct 03, 14:52

  Originally posted by bjork:

  erm.. still sound the same to me. Marriage is not gauge by how many r/s one has.
  Or does he means, how many r/s one shld go through before realising wat he really want in a partner?

  out of curiosity, are you married, bjork?
  
  
• Bulat2

  16 Oct 03, 15:03

  Originally posted by tankee1981:

  I suppose he mean how many relationships should one have that can be considered enough to be used as a gauge to choose the right partner for marriage,right?

  Ya... u got wat i mean man!!!!
• Bulat2

  16 Oct 03, 15:06

  Originally posted by bjork:

  erm.. still sound the same to me. Marriage is not gauge by how many r/s one has.
  Or does he means, how many r/s one shld go through before realising wat he really want in a partner?

  Ok but usually guys when they yung,they like uhmmm take relationship a bit easier. Uhm... maybe becos they are young sometimes they think they still can look ard till the one is come. For gers i think oso the same. I knw there is no one perfect, everybody expect diff qualities. But normally i knw guys will go thru some certain no of relationship be4 they settling down. Gers oso.
• andywalker

  16 Oct 03, 15:39

  Originally posted by Bulat2:

  Ok but usually guys when they yung,they like uhmmm take relationship a bit easier. Uhm... maybe becos they are young sometimes they think they still can look ard till the one is come. For gers i think oso the same. I knw there is no one perfect, everybody expect diff qualities. But normally i knw guys will go thru some certain no of relationship be4 they settling down. Gers oso.

  then just said normal guys and girl lah.....seems both same to me in your post...
• F.O.S

  16 Oct 03, 16:34

  Weird Question I think.
  
  can only judge settle down by age, I can't judge by "how many girlfriends" I must have.
  
  As long as you found someone you can get alone with, your career stable than settle down.
  
  I think those that target how many girl friends to settle down are firlt
  
  
• skeujin

  16 Oct 03, 16:36

  Originally posted by Bulat2:

  Normally how many gf/ bf would u have before u decide to settle down? I mean like really put urself into a relationship and not treat ur gf/ bf as companion only but as part of u.

  wen was the quota requirement implemented? geez i had better read the papers more often...
• bjork

  16 Oct 03, 17:52

  Originally posted by chonsou:

  out of curiosity, are you married, bjork?
  
  

  nope.
• kurai

  17 Oct 03, 02:08

  Originally posted by chonsou:

  let me guess...
  
  For most of the guys As Many As Possible
  For most of the girls As Little As Possible
  
  

  *LoL* .... quite true, quite true!!!
• thhong22

  17 Oct 03, 02:39

  Originally posted by Bulat2:

  Normally how many gf/ bf would u have before u decide to settle down? I mean like really put urself into a relationship and not treat ur gf/ bf as companion only but as part of u.

  it reali depends on alot of things........ it's impossible to give a definate no.....
  some can even settle at the 1st one.... some 10 bf / gf liao oso cannot settle
• boy in blues

  17 Oct 03, 03:40

  Originally posted by Bulat2:

  Normally how many gf/ bf would u have before u decide to settle down? I mean like really put urself into a relationship and not treat ur gf/ bf as companion only but as part of u.

  for guys, measure by number of digits in bank savings. for gals, by number of suitors. i'm bullshiating, of course.
• shandower

  17 Oct 03, 08:56

  Too many variables involved. Unable to compute accurate answer.
• antoh

  17 Oct 03, 08:56

  lol ... time is ripe