Will you allow you bf/gf to go out with ex?
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My guy friend is facing this problem. His ex girlfriend came back from overseas study want to patch back, but his gf is worry. Yet the gf ex boyfriend message her almost everyday, sometime even sms her "good monring" and still meet up . Now both of them quarrel both of this, any advise?
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Both go back to their respective ex... settled.
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unless i know his ex is no match. hiak hiak.Originally posted by F.O.S:My guy friend is facing this problem. His ex girlfriend came back from overseas study want to patch back, but his gf is worry. Yet the gf ex boyfriend message her almost everyday, sometime even sms her "good monring" and still meet up . Now both of them quarrel both of this, any advise?
can you accept ? do you think is fare?
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can loh
but mus let me know -
at the first place hmms why is he meeting his ex for?
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no match in terms of wat??..Originally posted by bjork:unless i know his ex is no match. hiak hiak. -
She rush back from overseas when she heard from a friend that my friend just got a girlfriend liao.Originally posted by bjork:at the first place hmms why is he meeting his ex for?
So my friend bring another guy friend along to meet up with her and clear it once and for all. ever since then both don't contect each other. Now the girl went back to study liao. -
sorry double post
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oh its to clear things up. Then its different. I will let him go since its for our r/s thats he is meeting her for.Originally posted by F.O.S:She rush back from overseas when she heard from a friend that my friend just got a girlfriend liao.
So my friend bring another guy friend along to meet up with her and clear it once and for all. ever since then both don't contect each other. Now the girl went back to study liao.
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if its pure meeting to catch up with each other then i think its all right for me, so you said they are patching up.. then you see the point...Originally posted by F.O.S:My guy friend is facing this problem. His ex girlfriend came back from overseas study want to patch back, but his gf is worry. Yet the gf ex boyfriend message her almost everyday, sometime even sms her "good monring" and still meet up . Now both of them quarrel both of this, any advise?
can you accept ? do you think is fare?
before he/she is marry he/she don't belong to any one he/she is not puppet of anyone, of course he is free to meet his EX.. my advise will be that the girl dont always quarrel with him cos this will only make him frustrated and maybe at first he is not interested to patch thing up with her but you keep quarrelling with him, he may change his heart somehow....
leave all these thing to fate is my point....if he and your friends is fated eventually they will still together no matter what -
Totaly agree, I have the same feeling when my girl quarrel with me refering to the same case also.Originally posted by andywalker:if its pure meeting to catch up with each other then i think its all right for me, so you said they are patching up.. then you see the point...
before he/she is marry he/she don't belong to any one he/she is not puppet of anyone, of course he is free to meet his EX.. my advise will be that the girl dont always quarrel with him cos this will only make him frustrated and maybe at first he is not interested to patch thing up with her but you keep quarrelling with him, he may change his heart somehow....
leave all these thing to fate is my point....if he and your friends is fated eventually they will still together no matter what
If a girl keeps nag and nag I "bay ta hun" also. -
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Sian. My gf juz went out wif her ex today. Then she tell me nothing happen lar, tell me dun worry. Warrau i scared leh, that guy is pianist, then looks machiam like Takuya (mu4 chun1 tuo1 zai1) liddat.... think i can dun worry meh?
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Don't worry bro, when a girl love you they don't mind your look.Originally posted by kurai:Sian. My gf juz went out wif her ex today. Then she tell me nothing happen lar, tell me dun worry. Warrau i scared leh, that guy is pianist, then looks machiam like Takuya (mu4 chun1 tuo1 zai1) liddat.... think i can dun worry meh?
as long you look neat and clean when you go out with them.
at time they will comment others looks handome but they will not compare you with them.
most of the time 90% of the girl will not go back to their ex even they break off with you. (hao3 ma3 bu4 chi1 huay2 tou2 chou4)
worry more on the new guys she know better than the old one.
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totally agreed......
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I wun mind..... but dip inside, i feel like killing tat BITCH....Originally posted by F.O.S:My guy friend is facing this problem. His ex girlfriend came back from overseas study want to patch back, but his gf is worry. Yet the gf ex boyfriend message her almost everyday, sometime even sms her "good monring" and still meet up . Now both of them quarrel both of this, any advise?
can you accept ? do you think is fare?
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Yeah I would. It's all about trusting your other half.
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haiya~!the bf how can like tt? treat frends oso no onli mostly everyday sms ma..i dunno lo...cuz diff ppl..diff thinkin...wad i feel is..if his gf dun mind..den it's fine le...if his gf mind...better stay away frm ex..
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add some question here
do you guys or gals use the words "everytime" when you quarrel with your bf/gf ?
example :
1 why you everytime do this?
2 why you everytime don't say
3 why you everytime look at girls?
experiance the above? I found out me and my friend all got this problem. When we use this word it sure leads to a quarrel with our gf. I mean sometime our gf use that on use and we are very mad too. but if this word is use by a normal friend nothing will happen. -
sorry my english no good maybe you guys got me wrong.Originally posted by Do|pHinE:haiya~!the bf how can like tt? treat frends oso no onli mostly everyday sms ma..i dunno lo...cuz diff ppl..diff thinkin...wad i feel is..if his gf dun mind..den it's fine le...if his gf mind...better stay away frm ex..
it 2 parts of the story.
1st The guy.
1) he meet up with the ex gf came back from overseas just to patch back and turn her down and stop contact since then.
2) but his currently girlfriend even since then on and off nag at him and worry that he will go back to the ex.
2nd the guy's girlfriend
1) all along when my friend know her, she is sms and meet up with the ex bf.
2) Is until last month when my friend ex girlfriend found out that he is attached and fly back. My friend us the words "everytime you also contact your ex" so the whole quarrel starts.
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dun ever worry...jus do your part.... the point of being together is: 2 beings coming togther 2 want 2 be 1 togtherness but still separate entities... we gotta respect each other n u sure will not score points for being seen as "selfish, pessimistic, narrow-mminded" etc etc.. jus relax and seem to care jus a little but dun ask too much! golden rule - dun ask more than 2 questions at the same time related to tat particular outing...drives her crazy tat u dun care (but in fact u do, your response then will be: "i trust u my dear & i jus wanted u to enjoy yourself without having a mother nagging u..." )
wow!! u surely will blow her mind & she'll really fall into your love trap man.....
but take note, if this little trust cannot be given or she dunno how 2 appreciate it, then she probably will run away whether or not with old guy, new guy, with restraints or no restrictions.
be cool, my man.