Choosing....
-
If ever you have to choose:
If your current gf or lover or wife is having affair, while you and your ex-gf or lover or wife felt that there is something rekindled between both of u all. What will you choose to do? -
CHIM!Originally posted by weird70s:If ever you have to choose:
If your current gf or lover or wife is having affair, while you and your ex-gf or lover or wife felt that there is something rekindled between both of u all. What will you choose to do?
Anyway, talk to the "legal" partner first. if both decides that should go own way, den go ahead lor.
If not, talk things out. Keeping quite will not get anything done. Afterall, face it!
-
I don't really understand, can explain? my english problem lah.Originally posted by weird70s:If ever you have to choose:
If your current gf or lover or wife is having affair, while you and your ex-gf or lover or wife felt that there is something rekindled between both of u all. What will you choose to do? -
bu ming bai
meaning... yr legal partner is going back to his/her ex?
sounds familar... think something like this actually happened to a camp mate of mine.
His wife came back to Singapore (while he is in Australia) and met her ex classmate or an old friend and realised she don't love my friend.
Anyway, they are seperated, waiting for divorce. -
i think if this happen I rather let her off than keeping someone that don't love me though is pain, easy to say but not easy to do.
longer you drag longer pain and suffer you had. settle faster and start a new life -
That depends.Originally posted by weird70s:If ever you have to choose:
If your current gf or lover or wife is having affair, while you and your ex-gf or lover or wife felt that there is something rekindled between both of u all. What will you choose to do?
1) If only in bgr, then go your own ways lor. You're still young mar.
2) If married liao, but no kids yet, then must think more carefully. When u 2 married that time, vowed to take care of each other through thick and thin, problems should be solved. In the first place why should either of u be in an affair if the marriage was going right? either see a marriage councellor and reviw your marriage or you 2 can just divorce if u see no point carrying on anymore.
3) If married, and have kids, please spare a thought for your kids. Many selfish married adults divorce easily for the sake of their own future happiness without thought for their own children's future happiness. Can u imagine the pain and psychological damage the poor kids have to suffer?