Girls make of water?

• F.O.S

  11 Nov 03, 15:15

  Girls like or enjoy crying?
  I had this problem for many years, when girl cry I become soft hearted and will try my very best by giving promises, forgive and forget or give way to what they want even I think is wrong, to stop them from crying. Now I am think are girls using this as a weapon again me or guys?
• rovguy

  11 Nov 03, 15:38

  it depend on individual..if girl cry for your sympathy.no use..lor .unless she is a very good gir...l..
• -=|nN0c3Nt=-

  11 Nov 03, 16:16

  i believe gals often use tears as their ultimate weapon to get wat they want... n i think tis kind of situations are jus too common. gals are often the one crying n the guy comforting n hugging her... wats wrong wif tat?
• thhong22

  11 Nov 03, 16:18

  
• F.O.S

  11 Nov 03, 16:23

  Originally posted by -=|nN0c3Nt=-:

  i believe gals often use tears as their ultimate weapon to get wat they want... n i think tis kind of situations are jus too common. gals are often the one crying n the guy comforting n hugging her... wats wrong wif tat?

  recently my girlfriend cry almost everyday of everything little things, I love her lot but just get sick of comforting her. It has been 2 weeks, I feel tired.
  So thought of post here to get suggestion to feel better and understand better.
• Seacucumber

  11 Nov 03, 17:03

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  recently my girlfriend cry almost everyday of everything little things, I love her lot but just get sick of comforting her. It has been 2 weeks, I feel tired.
  So thought of post here to get suggestion to feel better and understand better.

  maybe u can try understand what causes her to cry?
  dont think your gf will just open her "tap" anyhow right?
  or maybe both of ya have some miscommunication and perhaps can open up and talk to each other.
• meizi

  11 Nov 03, 17:12

  at least if the girl cry, she show emotion. if she dun cry...got problem liaoz.
• Parka

  11 Nov 03, 17:13

  ......complicated matters......
• F.O.S

  11 Nov 03, 17:20

  Originally posted by Seacucumber:

  maybe u can try understand what causes her to cry?
  dont think your gf will just open her "tap" anyhow right?
  or maybe both of ya have some miscommunication and perhaps can open up and talk to each other.

  What I mean is now a days, she don't use to be like that. Yes I could say she could be loving deeper but she just cry over little little things. Just like a pamper child
  
  Specially this month I am so busy, when I tell her please try not to querral or don't pick a fight during this month, this could ended up crying also, and specially this month she cry the most. It has been 2 weeks she cry almost everyday over words, Joke, problem I mishandle.....
  
  I feel so tired over work, relationship can't cop both at 1 time.
• F.O.S

  11 Nov 03, 17:20

  double
• Seacucumber

  11 Nov 03, 17:56

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  What I mean is now a days, she don't use to be like that. Yes I could say she could be loving deeper but she just cry over little little things. Just like a pamper child
  
  Specially this month I am so busy, when I tell her please try not to querral or don't pick a fight during this month, this could ended up crying also, and specially this month she cry the most. It has been 2 weeks she cry almost everyday over words, Joke, problem I mishandle.....
  
  I feel so tired over work, relationship can't cop both at 1 time.

  maybe its because she missed u too much and cant help crying.
  i presume your relationship is still on the "honeymoon" period. and she depends on u alot.
  
  i guess what u can do is just tell her the fact, let her know u are working very hard for both of ya future. and perhaps, u can suggest somethings for her to do to "prevent" her from missing u that much..
  or buy small little gifts to surprise her.
  
  
• TrAnQuILiTy

  11 Nov 03, 18:20

  At lest better than some guys, want face then ai kao mai kao... later tio lai xiong.
• NeonTetra

  11 Nov 03, 18:21

  made of water?? is tt why they can make ppl wet??
• Parka

  11 Nov 03, 18:23

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  made of water?? is tt why they can make ppl wet??

  A thousand points for Neon......
• FireIce

  11 Nov 03, 18:26

  i made of flesh and blood leh..............
• 8thSiN

  11 Nov 03, 18:27

  it depends really. u can tell if they are crying because of a break up (from a 3rd party pov) or if they're sobbing to get something from u. if it's the latter, well, being the softie that I am, they normally get their way, knn..
  
  but otherwise, if she's seriously crying over something, then I normally let them get it out of their chest and see what I can do! not much normally, eheh
• FireIce

  11 Nov 03, 18:29

  one of my fav quotes:
  
  No man is worth your tears and the one who is, won't even make you cry...
• cinakia

  11 Nov 03, 18:34

  u bully gal ar?
• F.O.S

  11 Nov 03, 18:38

  Originally posted by cinakia:

  u bully gal ar?

  It all started before I left for businees trip, I thought is because she gonna miss me alot, but I came back still like that.
  
  I also don't know whats wrong. Maybe is a sign of wanted to break up with me
• NeonTetra

  11 Nov 03, 18:45

  Originally posted by Parka:

  A thousand points for Neon......

  i share 500 points with u lah. haha
• F.O.S

  11 Nov 03, 22:00

  thanks, I learn lots and tons. I really feel much better and cheer up.
  will try all your suggestion, any more tips?
• Homebody

  12 Nov 03, 12:38

  
  Girl crying is normal lah. Just hug her will do. Don't need to do anything. She'll automatically be better after hugs.
  
  I cry buckets from time to time too when I speak to my hubby on the phone (he's overseas). Miss him so much mah. Don't think can just stop tears like that.. I'm not tap and your girl is not tap either, cannot just turn on and off one... need to be gradual.
  
  Next time she cries... just hug her... believe me, it will do wonders.
• F.O.S

  12 Nov 03, 12:45

  Originally posted by Homebody:

  Girl crying is normal lah. Just hug her will do. Don't need to do anything. She'll automatically be better after hugs.
  
  I cry buckets from time to time too when I speak to my hubby on the phone (he's overseas). Miss him so much mah. Don't think can just stop tears like that.. I'm not tap and your girl is not tap either, cannot just turn on and off one... need to be gradual.
  
  Next time she cries... just hug her... believe me, it will do wonders.

  I agree, I use to do that but specially when overseas when I hear she crying over the phone I feel bad and is very bad.
  when home yes I use to hug her but just feel that she take for granted that she became crying more and more somall issues and many and many. Should I say when she needs a hug she just cry?
  
• greyskymorning

  12 Nov 03, 13:33

  Originally posted by F.O.S:

  Girls like or enjoy crying?
  I had this problem for many years, when girl cry I become soft hearted and will try my very best by giving promises, forgive and forget or give way to what they want even I think is wrong, to stop them from crying. Now I am think are girls using this as a weapon again me or guys?

  tot women use sex as weapon...men biggest weakness
• GrEeNGi@nT

  12 Nov 03, 13:55

  ying xiong nan tao mei ren guan... haiz...
  
  maybe she is testing your limits...be a challenge and dun give in to her everytime...maybe that will make her stop...