Will you woo someone......
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if he/she is already attached?
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never
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Never say never. Cupid works in strange ways.
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never say never is a oxymoron...
neverOriginally posted by cooleo:Never say never. Cupid works in strange ways. -
how bout if you know that someone just broke up? I mean it is unethical right, you know this person is at their most vulnerable state.
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depend on situation...Originally posted by heartbroken07:how bout if you know that someone just broke up? I mean it is unethical right, you know this person is at their most vulnerable state. -
i mean that ppl have diff mentalities. Here are just some for example... Which are u more similar to?
(a) The person is already attached, i shouldn't be the bad person to break up a couple and cause unhappiness to them!
(b) The person is already attached, but so what? All's fair in the world of love, if i can let him/her love me back willingly, why not? It's not like i'm going to force him/her to love me. Too bad for the other party if he/she loses to me.
(c) The person is already attached, i would try and go for it but looking at his/her current partner, i doubt i'm up to it... *sigh*
(d) The person is already attached, i would normally have went straight for it. But the person that he/she is attached to, happens to be my friend, so i'm going to have to let this pass... -
For me..
a) attached - even you are attached so ? I will do what i think is right... if don't do it and have regret...... when you are old and too much regrets.... Its painfull to have regrets..... So i rather have memories rather than regrets....
b) just broken off - I will ask for consent... If no , i will try later like 1-2 weeks later.... If yes , then why not ? i don't care what other ppl say... as long as i am happy with her why not ? QNS - do you go stead to make ppl happy or not happy ? no right ? i don't mind ppl saying i kio sai or whatever . As long i am happy with her and she is happy with me why bother other ppl comments... they just comment because they are jealous
What i can say to those waiting to WOO attached girls... Just go ahead... I belive LOVE is great... LOVE makes someone forget trouble and agony...
But don't go to the extent of killing their BF -
i tink i will never woo some 1 who is alreadi attached.. imagine pple wooing ur gf.. i cannot imagine dat..
as for wooing some1 who juz broke off in a r/s mayb can... coz she is single..
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NO.
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will let him know my feelings but i wun heng dao duo ai
the final decision is up to the him...........and i will respect it -
no... be it attached or just broke up just blame it on the inapporiate meeting time... will not even disclose feelings to her coz it may end up cant even be friends...
if i can get her from her current bf, how sure am i that she will be forever on my side??? -
NO
not even letting her know I'm interested to woo her.
no point causing disturbance in her current relationship. -
interesting.... most ppl take the laid-back approach. Some are even consigned to higher-order forces such as fate and retribution. Only one person seems to be willing to take his own happiness and actions as his own ultimate responsibility.
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er...Originally posted by kurai:interesting.... most ppl take the laid-back approach. Some are even consigned to higher-order forces such as fate and retribution. Only one person seems to be willing to take his own happiness and actions as his own ultimate responsibility.
i hope u don't mean that if a person chooses NOT to chase an attached person that he/she is not taking their happiness into their own hands. -
NO WAY ! ! !Originally posted by kurai:if he/she is already attached? -
of course not. that's why i'm not just asking for yes/no answer. Asking for explanation too. But not a lot of people have answered lar, so it won't be fair to assume these few people's answers could represent everybody's choice. But studies indeed has revealed that asian culural values do indeed influence us to be inclined as such.Originally posted by jOhO:i hope u don't mean that if a person chooses NOT to chase an attached person that he/she is not taking their happiness into their own hands.
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may the best men wins... is all i can say, if i can treat your GF better then you, or give her more sense or security, you should rethink if both of you're right to be together...
or its just my "didi" talking... -
Originally posted by kurai:if he/she is already attached? the bottomline's simply this. it's in the gal's best interest that she's with the man who loves her and only her, the most. who can and will provide for her and protect her under all circumstances. the rest don't matter. that's my didi talking.
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A girl once told me that I should give the impression I am already attached, because it would make girls even more want to chase me. But I dunno, it sounds like hollow advice/
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agree... but before you make any commitment, make sure you're able to provide for her and not just having "fun"...Originally posted by boy in blues: the bottomline's simply this. it's in the gal's best interest that she's with the man who loves her and only her, the most. who can and will provide for her and protect her under all circumstances. the rest don't matter. that's my didi talking.
or its just my "didi" talking... -
Not hollow! It's true that attached guys are generally more attractive, because they display more confidence in the things they do. Also, guys in a loving relationship are generally more sunny and cheerful, less likely to be depressed and reserved. People in love are usually more able to show postive image of themselves to others. However, when your fren told u to "give the impression that u are already attached" i'm not sure how. Cuz these sort of things can't be faked. They come from within, naturally.Originally posted by men_@_arms:A girl once told me that I should give the impression I am already attached, because it would make girls even more want to chase me. But I dunno, it sounds like hollow advice/ -
dun tink so !
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Originally posted by sup3rnatural:agree... but before you make any commitment, make sure you're able to provide for her and not just having "fun"...
or its just my "didi" talking... i believe your 'or its just my "didi" talking...' is intended as your signature since it appears with uncanny regularity. why not use the function and save yourself the cut and paste job every post?