jaguar007,
ha ha, the forumites here seem to give you a hard time! nothing against you, I can actually understand your sentiments as I travel a bit as well, and it's always nice to talk to someone local, understand their lifestyles, cultures, etc, whatever gender they are, but you're probably looking at the wrong place. perhaps someone may pm you with an offer, maybe an "spg" (abbr. for "sarong party girls" in Singapore who cling to foreigners like leeches) who happen to stumble onto your post here, but I very much doubt any spg participates actively in these forums. But you should find plenty of those in pubs and bars - Boat Quay and Clarke Quay as suggested, also here if you have not seen this:
http://afterdark.hotspots.com/matrix/review_index_001.htmlanyway, welcome to Singapore!