real nuisance.

• treccid_69

  7 Jan 04, 01:17

  hey guys, i once were very close with this gurl, for some reason... well, we were very close and she like me. so the furthest yet that we have done physically is kissing, hugging and thats all. now the problem here is that, i dun like her anymore and she tot i am really in loveee with her. so, i ignored her and told her so. Then, she keeps scolding me and talk down on me to her frens. thats really anonying. i feel like really shutting her up. tell me, what du i do about this problem? Do u experience this b4?
• lolsuck

  7 Jan 04, 01:39

  u are to be blamed in the first place for doing such things when u dont like her,
  anyway be friend with her again.. and just be friend nothing much..
  that is 1 of the way to stop her from complaining around and also..
  try to put yourself into her shoes...she felt very hurt... and bcome hatred...try to befren her again,make up the damange u did to her.
• mtsm

  7 Jan 04, 10:10

  Originally posted by lolsuck:

  u are to be blamed in the first place for doing such things when u dont like her,
  anyway be friend with her again.. and just be friend nothing much..
  that is 1 of the way to stop her from complaining around and also..
  try to put yourself into her shoes...she felt very hurt... and bcome hatred...try to befren her again,make up the damange u did to her.

  lolsuck is right. Gers think very differently from guys. What u perceived as a friendly kiss or hug, a ger might think it's a sign of affection. We are still very much conservative asians.
• dumbdumb!

  7 Jan 04, 10:31

  hmm... reconcile with her you must hmm?
  
  fear leads to anger.. anger leads to hate.. and hate leads to suffering... hmm?
• dead_clone

  7 Jan 04, 10:34

  men often mistake friendship instead of sex, for love,
  women often mistake sex instead of friendship, for love...
  
  in your case, it's physical intimacy...
• FireIce

  7 Jan 04, 10:36

  u are the one tt dropped the wrong signal in the first place
  play finish liao then dun want liao......
  
  pUi~
  
  so who is the real nuisance?
• ernestantan

  7 Jan 04, 19:00

  walao... u want free lunch from her and after eating u tell her go away...?
  
  just be sincere to her... you owe her an apology... no point forcing urself to be with her (as bf) if u dont love her. talk to her and explain. even if she hit u. haha..
  
  if u think should continue with the friendship (and if she wants it) then no more physical intimacy anymore...
  
  what u think gals are for...? walao... give some respect pls
• ditzy

  8 Jan 04, 00:15

  Its definitely ur fault for giving her the wrong signals in the 1st place. You have to stop what you start. You reap what you sow.
• huiz

  8 Jan 04, 15:35

  she could be feeling being used of by u so she is behaving like tat.
• Ah Ma

  8 Jan 04, 16:31

  who do u tink u r
• FireIce

  8 Jan 04, 16:32

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  who do u tink u r

  spice girls!
• sgboy2004

  8 Jan 04, 16:33

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  who do u tink u r

  i am buaya sgboy2004, your hubby lor
  
  
• ~Numb~

  8 Jan 04, 20:06

  no no..it's the stickman in the nike ad...