How will modern gals perform as wives ah
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You know some of today's gals are so havoc one. Cheong clubs all the time and drink so much and smoke like a dragon like that not to mention ah have so many boyfriends.
How can such women ever get married or even remain married ah? The world wonders... -
sat nite i cheong, sunday i do housework and cook dinner......
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U sat nite cheong, sunday still do housework and cook dinner?? U muz be a tough gal ya... For me, i do housework can die already, not to mention cheong on the night b4...Originally posted by FireIce:sat nite i cheong, sunday i do housework and cook dinner......
any prob with tt?
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wake up at noon.....have "breakfast"....rest a while then do housework loh.......quite ok wat....
i dun drink much so i dun have hangover.... -
I probably avoid finding girl like that. My night would be best spent with someone watching HBO and enjoy eating some take aways.Originally posted by Dorian-X:You know some of today's gals are so havoc one. Cheong clubs all the time and drink so much and smoke like a dragon like that not to mention ah have so many boyfriends.
How can such women ever get married or even remain married ah? The world wonders... -
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girls who cheong are just aint good as those who don't. The reason is because they tend to be liberal, demanding and overpowering on guys and that is upsetting the balance of Male power and Female dependence begining from the past.
And that is why the world is in such a mess now.
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Another MCP!Originally posted by H-Profile:girls who cheong are just aint good as those who don't. The reason is because they tend to be liberal, demanding and overpowering on guys and that is upsetting the balance of Male power and Female dependence begining from the past.
And that is why the world is in such a mess now. -
then how come guys still like to go pubs pick up zabohs..........
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nice storm brewing... -
What i feel is that guys picking up zabohs in bars is not relevant to what we are discussing at all. If you really want to know why, its bcos we need to tilt the balance to make sure that everything is equal and in order, only then will there be peace in this world without gender wars. Picking up girls is just to "massage" guys' egos and if possible, "massage" their bodies also.
Look...would there be any war if everyone was happy?
Example: Males continue to be the breadwinner and the "head" of the family and Females doing their great job of taking care of the whole family. Everyone is happy....no fighting or shifting of responsibilities.
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End of Storm-brewing Session.
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A pity its not going to work in sg with the high level of living standards involved here.Originally posted by H-Profile:What i feel is that guys picking up zabohs in bars is not relevant to what we are discussing at all. If you really want to know why, its bcos we need to tilt the balance to make sure that everything is equal and in order, only then will there be peace in this world without gender wars. Picking up girls is just to "massage" guys' egos and if possible, "massage" their bodies also.
Look...would there be any war if everyone was happy?
Example: Males continue to be the breadwinner and the "head" of the family and Females doing their great job of taking care of the whole family. Everyone is happy....no fighting or shifting of responsibilities.
Females do have to work after marriage nowadays! Unless they marry someone, who's rich enough to support the family!
Aren't we putting a lot of demand on women nowadays?
They have to deal with family, as well as work stress! Spare a thought for modern women! If they have a choice, I guess they will not want to work and be happy and willing to shake their legs at home! -
Hey! We are all rounders! We clean, cook, wash, party, take care of the family, go shopping, and build a career for ourselves. BALANCE is key word..
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men have been doing so for god knows how long, but they still can get married and remain married...Originally posted by Dorian-X:You know some of today's gals are so havoc one. Cheong clubs all the time and drink so much and smoke like a dragon like that not to mention ah have so many boyfriends.
How can such women ever get married or even remain married ah? The world wonders...
so why can't women be the same... -
Ya,I know gals can change after marriage.But if don't,then all the best to the husband and the marriage man!
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seriously, ladies....will you carry on partying after you get married?
I mean which husband would want his wife to carry on partying after marriage? Even though a lady has mentioned that she can cope by "cheonging" on sat night and do housework and cook dinner on sunday. But is that what we really want?
Partying should be just part of the "enjoyment" that should be stopped after marriage. Can u imagine your spouse getting picked up by guys/girls all the time and if worst, get drunk..God knows what may happen. Is that what we call maintaining a wonderful legal unionship of two individuals? -
shen me shi dai le... ru ci feng jian si xiang.... zhen yao bu de...
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you can bet no matter how much those gals havoc, drink, smoke, fark around............as long as they are chio, sure got many loaded suckers want to marry them.Originally posted by Dorian-X:You know some of today's gals are so havoc one. Cheong clubs all the time and drink so much and smoke like a dragon like that not to mention ah have so many boyfriends.
How can such women ever get married or even remain married ah? The world wonders... -
you are rite !!
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That is only if narrow-minded people equate clubbing with getting picked up, getting drunk and getting laid.Originally posted by H-Profile:Partying should be just part of the "enjoyment" that should be stopped after marriage. Can u imagine your spouse getting picked up by guys/girls all the time and if worst, get drunk..God knows what may happen. Is that what we call maintaining a wonderful legal unionship of two individuals?
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they need to meet a guy whom will "open" their mind... and they will change.. i have a female fren who chiong almost everynight in the past.. shes a super chiongster + drinker and smoke alot.. but around 1/2 year ago, she met this guy whom she really love.. for him she quitted chionging, drinking.. but smoking she still did lar... she say her bf make her realise the importance of life...Originally posted by Dorian-X:You know some of today's gals are so havoc one. Cheong clubs all the time and drink so much and smoke like a dragon like that not to mention ah have so many boyfriends.
How can such women ever get married or even remain married ah? The world wonders... -
When one is young at heart, with no major commitments, fun is the word in mind.
When one is more settled, ocassional fun is good.
When one is committed (to kids), they could still enjoy good fun once in a while.
I'm one that takes my family life very seriously, hence I've stopped clubbing. But I still go out for a dinner and drink with good friends once every month or two. However, its no longer stepping into home at 3-4am.
Anyway, I've known ppl who are married, had kids, but still chiong almost every night. Kind of feel sad for the neglected kids n spouse. -
my boss is in her thirties now and used to cheong in her younger days. but as she matures and get married, she would rather rest at home after a day's work, even on weekends oso prefer to rest at home. guess tat some ppl after cheonging too much will oso get tired and want to settle down.
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This is an interesting topic and a serious issue. Because as the turn of the century... countries are starting to evolve. For isntance.. singapore is veyr effected by the US of A 's mentality. Look around you ...they seem to perform the role of the males..its not such a bad thing in a way..but then..it sure as hell confuses the males in OUR role. For the the new generation after us...i dun think we will make very good or effective parenting =P Girls nowadays seems to slowly loose thier sense of womanhood..asking me if they will make very good wives ? depends..i mean..seriously..i know girls who cant cook , cant wash....cant do jack shiet. But they sure as hell can study or club to the max..and look damn fine =D.
