Is virginity truly that important?
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Well, I suppose I'll be getting messages here by the hundreds, well I hope so.
Anyway, the reason for this topic is because I am deciding whether or not to save myself. Should I wait for years for that right woman to come along (IF she does) or get rid of all my sexual frustration now by hiring a hooker. And if you encourage me to choose the later, then where, how, when, and why? If you prefer for me to chose the former, please explain why I should do so. I'm very confused right now, so all replies to this will be welcome save those that do not contribute to my eventual decision whatsoever.
And in case anyone misinterprets my views on virginity, let me say this. I do not believe it a shame to keep my virginity, no if I could I'd be keeping my virginity until my honeymoon. But one thing is in my way. HORMONES! You can't believe how often the subject sex enters my mind, regardless of whether I wish it to or not.
Don't take this the wrong way, I am no pervert nor do I envision a future where I will become Singapore's most notorious peeping tom, but it's just... ARGH! Dash it all! There's just so much sexual frustration that I doubt I can hold it for much longer.
Well, hope to hear from you all soon.
And if you all still haven't figured it out, I'm a virgin and thus, very VERY new to this whole prostitution thing. -
Since you already questioned yourself on this, you know it more or less is something special. Do you really want to give it up to someone you don't even know?
You know, if your wife know how hard you try to save it for her, she will feel very special. And you are special too, cos you are able to exhibit that much determination.
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**I want u to be with me.....
be with me in the morning...be with me in the nite...with me when its dark out...with me when its light...
I want u to be with me...no matter what we do...just keep this reminder...of how much I love u...** -
Yes well I know that, but there's just one thing preventing me from doing that. A really high sex drive (well that's what I believe anyway) sometimes sex is all I think about.
I have really lax self-control so the possibility of me being able to hold all this in for let's say... ten more years? It's really low.
Should there be that much importance placed on the first time and person one has sex with? I'm hoping that once I lose my virginity, I will be able to think a little bit clearer, or at least no longer constantly think about this debate of the importance of my virginity. Plus, there's no longer the possibility that my choice of girlfriend/wife is affected by my desperation for sex.
Any comments on this? -
Yes, it's important. For the other person that is, HA HA HA!!!
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yup,i like y'r ans mate.wat the heck,so long as the other party is should b alright huh.but to b fair,both gt to b.but dun expect too muchOriginally posted by KTE:Yes, it's important. For the other person that is, HA HA HA!!! -
For guy, not impt, in fact the more you practise the better you are at it
. For girls, no comment. -
well i am not the kind that sleeps around and the subject of sex is not 100% ommipresent on my mind.
when i choose a girl, i would like her to be a virgin though -
Virgin? Why's that?