Mian Bao (bread) or Ai Qing (love)?

• kelnvb

  21 Apr 04, 10:52

  a gal fren posed this question to me days ago...which ones of u will choose bread(career) over love?
• ^sylvia^

  21 Apr 04, 10:56

  bian bao is very impt, love also impt..
  maybe if one of you can work for both, theres nothing wrong in choosing bian bao and ai qing le..
  cheeky questions..
• the Bear

  21 Apr 04, 11:02

  here's what Don Henley wrote in his song about lost love...
  
  These times are so uncertain
  There's a yearning undefined
  ...People filled with rage
  We all need a little tenderness
  How can love survive in such a graceless age
  The trust and self-assurance that can lead to happiness
  They're the very things we kill, I guess
  Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms
  And the work I put between us,
  Doesn't keep me warm
  
  so, are we to be automatrons for numbers in a bank account, slaving away for a career?
  
  or do we make someone and ourselves happy, offering and receiving mutual love, respect and support?
  
  your call....
  
  i know what i'll choose without a moment's hesitation
• ^sylvia^

  21 Apr 04, 11:05

  woah.. nice nice..
  if have to choose between one, i will choose ai qing~
  
• M©+square

  21 Apr 04, 11:06

  When we are at certain age.
  We want different things.
  We grow, our needs and desires changes too.
  
  If you're talking about now? Yes Mian Bao.
  Few months down the road.....who knows?
• ^sylvia^

  21 Apr 04, 11:09

  if got 'enough bian bao'.. of cos sure will have ai qing..
  but only with ai qing.. we can work hard for 'bian bao' ah~
• M©+square

  21 Apr 04, 11:10

  Originally posted by ^sylvia^:

  if got 'enough bian bao'.. of cos sure will have ai qing..
  but only with ai qing.. we can work hard for 'bian bao' ah~

  Very ideal. Not many girls have this ideal.
  I respect your beliefs.
  
  When you grow older. Maybe values change...maybe not.
  
• the Bear

  21 Apr 04, 11:13

  without a career, we will never starve if we are willing to work...
  
  without love, we stop being human... what's the use of a career if we lose our humanity?
  
  

  Originally posted by ^sylvia^:

  if got 'enough bian bao'.. of cos sure will have ai qing..
  but only with ai qing.. we can work hard for 'bian bao' ah~

• jusgal

  21 Apr 04, 11:17

  Originally posted by ^sylvia^:

  woah.. nice nice..
  if have to choose between one, i will choose ai qing~
  

  same....cos woman can support ourself
• jusgal

  21 Apr 04, 11:17

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  without a career, we will never starve if we are willing to work...
  
  without love, we stop being human... what's the use of a career if we lose our humanity?
  
  

  i agrees
• ^sylvia^

  21 Apr 04, 11:31

  Originally posted by jusgal:

  same....cos woman can support ourself

  nice saying.. jia you jia you jia you~
• ^sylvia^

  21 Apr 04, 11:32

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Very ideal. Not many girls have this ideal.
  I respect your beliefs.
  
  When you grow older. Maybe values change...maybe not.
  

  guess will not change.. i don't know.. even i myself don't understand me~
  but one for sure is.. always must have ai qing! even if no bian bao.. haizZz
• M©+square

  21 Apr 04, 11:45

  Originally posted by ^sylvia^:

  guess will not change.. i don't know.. even i myself don't understand me~
  but one for sure is.. always must have ai qing! even if no bian bao.. haizZz

  Good for you!!!
  You're one out of many hundred of women who'll say that.
  Nice going. A fortunate bf you have.
• ^sylvia^

  21 Apr 04, 11:47

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Good for you!!!
  You're one out of many hundred of women who'll say that.
  Nice going. A fortunate bf you have.

  xie xie ni~
• Ah Ma

  21 Apr 04, 11:49

  Mian bao.....cos i nun eat mian bao mah
• Lynette80

  21 Apr 04, 12:29

  i think difficult 2 choose ley.. if have love, no money oso sianz.. got money no love oso sianz.... i tink i will still go for love.. hehee got too much money oso no good wat.. guys too much money will have extra marital affairS? =X
• FireIce

  21 Apr 04, 12:46

  when u have stable ai qing....u can concentrate better on mian bao.....
• ^sylvia^

  21 Apr 04, 13:05

  mian bao ke yi zai zhuang.. ai qing heng nan zai you..
  shuo yi wo yao ai qing. yin wei wo ke yi zhuang mian bao ah~
  nu li zhuang lor..
• looksee

  22 Apr 04, 04:05

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  without a career, we will never starve if we are willing to work...
  
  without love, we stop being human... what's the use of a career if we lose our humanity?
  
  

  wah, steady steady...wise words from the wise guy...honestly. Wld fall for u if i'm a gal...but sometimes u sounded very serious leh...got a gf now or still can't get over dat someone?
• www

  22 Apr 04, 06:06

  when u have enough mian bao, its easier to concentrate on ai qing...
• jedi

  22 Apr 04, 09:21

  if you don't have enough mian bao, then don't go for love
  
  normal human being will look for food when hungry.
  Same case in love, if you can't provide enough mian bao then your partner will go for others mian bao.
• xking

  22 Apr 04, 09:39

  I think can live wifout love for sometimes...but cant live wifout food all the time....
  
  Bread is extremely impt....
  
  Its no too good to be "gan qing yong shi" also sometimes
• shandower

  22 Apr 04, 09:51

  I will choose bread.
• the Bear

  22 Apr 04, 10:06

  looking for love now
  
  especially at someone
  
  she's lovely
  
  

  Originally posted by looksee:

  wah, steady steady...wise words from the wise guy...honestly. Wld fall for u if i'm a gal...but sometimes u sounded very serious leh...got a gf now or still can't get over dat someone?

• Dj_Shadow

  22 Apr 04, 10:07

  Bread is better... Can eat...