a relationship is not exciting by itself..
it is up to individuals to make their relationship exciting with spices and surprises..
i would say the average people's kind of relationship comprises of mainly these 3 events:
1) shopping
2) movies
3) eat
if everyone is basically "following" this routine, sooner or later the relationship will jus become stagnent...
so it is up to you to make your relationship have spices.. plan things different once in a while, explore into events that you all never attempt before, things that you dun wish to do alone can now be done together and the result and experience may be quite different compared to when you are doing it alone..
plan for a holiday, plan something out of the blue, go out of your routine, make the extra effort to do something special... soon you will find your relationship full of spices and feelings will flow all the time...
(unless your no feeling is you dun like her anymore.. then better reflect on the relationship..

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