Stupid lame excuse
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here's my take...
he's a dick...
and you have been taken unfair advantage of..
live and learn... don't tar all men with the same brush... there are wonderful people out there... just as there are terrible men and women out there...
don't give up on love!
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think you got cheesed off by sgfather. Don't bother with him, the guy's a jerk. The guy who cheated you is even worse. There are other guys around more worthy of your affection.Originally posted by aisu_kuriimu04:ya, i know i am no saint. just a girl, like any other girls, who needs love. if i am called cheap. so are many other girls who you have hanky panky with. you guys dont do it with your gfs? your gfs are cheap too.
yes i have learnt my lessons. all guys are bastards. they should not be born. -
just take it as a lesson learnt, don't condemn all men though...
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x2Originally posted by kopiosatu:just take it as a lesson learnt, don't condemn all men though... -
X3Originally posted by kopiosatu:just take it as a lesson learnt, don't condemn all men though... -
2 week and his yr bf?
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father? noOriginally posted by ozon:erm...pls do not generalise...u got father rite??
there r all kinds of people in this world , most important is to learn from mistake and open yr eye wide when u meet friends ( including gal friend )
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KAOZ!!!
2 weeks and u become his GF???
did u bother to kow the person better??
and 2 weeks to hanky panky??
gosh??
why don i haf such frens???
probably they r more streetwise than u babe..
to tink that u r a uni undergrad..
throw face lehz..
wat can i say..
u only brought it upon urself..
i cant say its totally ur fault.. but u should haf been more careful..
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Totally agree with u... I'm a guy n i know tat this bastard r only after gal body...Originally posted by Accela:Haiya, dun be angry le. Live and let live, if possible.
1. You know him for 2 weeks and you accepted him. Not very wise.
2. You ask yourself why he liked you in the first place. Maybe you are very good looking but that shouldn't be the reason, IMO.
3. Abit religious and moral crap, but why does he want to get hanky panky so fast should be suspicious, you know.
4. I do not see how love can be fostered from pestering someone for 2 weeks without any reason. If that is the case, its not love but just some silly game. -
Originally posted by aisu_kuriimu04:I knew this man for 2 weeks. He pestered me every nite asking me to be his gf. We ended up in a hot horny hanky panky. The next day, he is gone. I called him but he hang up his hp. Finally saw him on the street, asked him why he ignored me like this. He gave a lame excuse..."i think I dont really love you...you told me you are an ntu student and this interested me." &#$*#(@)((#*?? what type of stupid excuse is this???
2 weeks and kept pestering you to his gf.
Then after you agreed or something - he advance.
EVEN BEFORE HE BEGINS, you should already know he is up to no good. No good man will request for sex within 2 weeks of knowing unless he wants to fcuk and go.
Since you go along with it - don't expect love to return - like what he had said 'this is not love.'
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You can avoid the issue entirely by labelling 'I learn to see all guys are bast@rd.' because the issue lies within you. If you can't reflect and see through why is this happening to you, history will repeat itself.
P.S: A man and woman having sexual intimacy with each other for love is not cheap. Their love has blossom and move to much higher level, or at least much higher level than what you have with that jerk. Be wise, treasure yourself. You need love - but don't let that be a weakness for man to prey on and exchange it with sex. If you are wise, no man can take advantage of you - at least in this way.
Cheers -
Originally post by aisu_kuriimu04 at Aunt Agony forum:
I'm now facing a problem which I cant really answer. I am worried.
Just yesterday me and my bf indulged ourselves in mutual masturbation. we were too engrossed that he dont even remember whether did he accidently touched his wet cock (flowing with precum) before he fingered me.
my worry is...is there a chance of pregnancy during mutual masturbation? If he really had precum in his finger before touching me, will I get pregnant? is the chances high? Anyone really get pregnant in that way?
pls pls pls help me. Thanks
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This girl is messed up.
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Met this kind of guys before. Happened to me when I broke up with my bf, was too broken hearted and got involved.Originally posted by aisu_kuriimu04:I knew this man for 2 weeks. He pestered me every nite asking me to be his gf. We ended up in a hot horny hanky panky. The next day, he is gone. I called him but he hang up his hp. Finally saw him on the street, asked him why he ignored me like this. He gave a lame excuse..."i think I dont really love you...you told me you are an ntu student and this interested me." &#$*#(@)((#*?? what type of stupid excuse is this??? -
not all guys r like tat. there r also nice guys out there. b more careful next time.
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But guyz also cannot be too nice to ladies sometimes, i have being too nice to my ex n give her everything she wants coz i love her so much but tat, i have given her with nothing to discover, nothing to chase, no mystery.... What is the use of being so nice, thoughtful, sensitive, attentive, and considerate but afterall disqualified as a potential mate??Originally posted by RaTtY81:not all guys r like tat. there r also nice guys out there. b more careful next time. -
oops...sorry...Originally posted by aisu_kuriimu04:father? no -
Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:
Originally post by [b]aisu_kuriimu04 at Aunt Agony forum:
I'm now facing a problem which I cant really answer. I am worried.
Just yesterday me and my bf indulged ourselves in mutual masturbation. we were too engrossed that he dont even remember whether did he accidently touched his wet cock (flowing with precum) before he fingered me.
my worry is...is there a chance of pregnancy during mutual masturbation? If he really had precum in his finger before touching me, will I get pregnant? is the chances high? Anyone really get pregnant in that way?
pls pls pls help me. Thanks
Is this the guyz tat give u the lame excuse??[/b]
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Yes the guy was a jerk. But this girl is also messed up. Why even bother to advise her? She's old enough to already know what all of you are trying to tell her as your advice. The thing is, she wouldn't admit it, even to herself.
She's just trying to find an excuse to her mishap by taking the easy way out, i.e. labeling all guys as something something. After she has established that all guys ARE bastards like she said, then she will start feeling ok about herself once again.
I think this is a typical sorry case. Grew up without a father, then got hurt by a guy, hates all males forever. Needs professional help I reckon. -
Face the fact that he used you and then dumped you.Originally posted by aisu_kuriimu04:I knew this man for 2 weeks. He pestered me every nite asking me to be his gf. We ended up in a hot horny hanky panky. The next day, he is gone. I called him but he hang up his hp. Finally saw him on the street, asked him why he ignored me like this. He gave a lame excuse..."i think I dont really love you...you told me you are an ntu student and this interested me." &#$*#(@)((#*?? what type of stupid excuse is this??? -
As a guy's point of view, you are to say all guys are bastards, cos this guy took my wife away from me!!!Originally posted by aisu_kuriimu04:ya, i know i am no saint. just a girl, like any other girls, who needs love. if i am called cheap. so are many other girls who you have hanky panky with. you guys dont do it with your gfs? your gfs are cheap too.
yes i have learnt my lessons. all guys are bastards. they should not be born. -
My poor gal, may the Lord Jesus reign over you and please accept Him to be your friend and father in your life ....May God fill you with God's fatherly love, grace, wisdom and peace..
Peace be with you..know that God wants to be with you -
Congratulations! You just fell for one of the oldest tricks recorded in the history of mankind...
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Next time u encounter dis type of man, dun say so much... Show him dis >>>Originally posted by aisu_kuriimu04:I knew this man for 2 weeks. He pestered me every nite asking me to be his gf. We ended up in a hot horny hanky panky. The next day, he is gone. I called him but he hang up his hp. Finally saw him on the street, asked him why he ignored me like this. He gave a lame excuse..."i think I dont really love you...you told me you are an ntu student and this interested me." &#$*#(@)((#*?? what type of stupid excuse is this???
Chop off his bird bird!!!
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Take it as a lesson learned. Also, learn to love yourself more lor. Not all guys are bad but i agree alot are bad too. Hope you got no negative effect on us guys. =)Originally posted by aisu_kuriimu04:ya, i know i am no saint. just a girl, like any other girls, who needs love. if i am called cheap. so are many other girls who you have hanky panky with. you guys dont do it with your gfs? your gfs are cheap too.
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Well learn from this lesson. Never hanky panky with a guy u just met. Get to know him better before u even kiss him. It is a fact of life, there are many players out there, u just have to learn to distinguish them from the nice ones. Also don't use sex to hook a guy. U only cheapen yourself. Guys will also know which type of girls they can fool around.