Some friends

• varatare

  1 Jun 04, 11:26

  Has anyone encounter or know someone who had been back stabbed or ill-talked by their friends just because they are having most of the attention from the opposite gender??
• FireIce

  1 Jun 04, 11:29

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Has anyone encounter or know someone who had been back stabbed or ill-talked by their friends just because they are having most of the attention from the opposite gender??

  yah man.......im always the butt of their jealousy........
• varatare

  1 Jun 04, 11:34

  Do you have an incident what really bother you?
• FireIce

  1 Jun 04, 11:35

  yeah....right here in sgforums....
  but tt was years ago de taiji........
  better dun mention liao...
• ditzy

  1 Jun 04, 11:37

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Has anyone encounter or know someone who had been back stabbed or ill-talked by their friends just because they are having most of the attention from the opposite gender??

  I'm one of the above who back-stabs and ill-talks.
• varatare

  1 Jun 04, 11:39

  I wonder why they do it? I know this girl, not very pretty but very charming. Guys attracted to her. Then one of her friend go around telling people she is a sl*t and she go around having s*x with other guys. She is very sad because that friend happen to be her best friend.
• wuming78

  1 Jun 04, 11:42

  if a gal chooses this guy knowing tt he backstabbed and bad mouthed his friend just to get her attention den there mus be something seriously wrong with her.
• varatare

  1 Jun 04, 11:43

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  I'm one of the above who back-stabs and ill-talks.

  What make you wanna do that??
• [ r 0 y s t 0 n ]

  1 Jun 04, 11:45

  Originally posted by varatare:

  I wonder why they do it? I know this girl, not very pretty but very charming. Guys attracted to her. Then one of her friend go around telling people she is a sl*t and she go around having s*x with other guys. She is very sad because that friend happen to be her best friend.

  Jealousy?
• ditzy

  1 Jun 04, 11:46

  Originally posted by varatare:

  What make you wanna do that??

  Bacause everyone else is doing the same, I can't be wrong, though I tried.
• dreamybear

  1 Jun 04, 11:47

  MI!!!!! always beening back stabbed by tis girl in my ex class... always goes around telling ppl i m a big flirt.. always in front of mi she would tell mi i look pretty... then in front of my other 2 good friends sdhe would keep saying wat i act chio... then create a lots of conflicts between mi n my good friends... always wanna tear us apart... even draw on my diary once.. make mi so angry wif her.... almost slap her.... dunno wat i did to deserve tis type of treatment from her.....
• varatare

  1 Jun 04, 11:47

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  if a gal chooses this guy knowing tt he backstabbed and bad mouthed his friend just to get her attention den there mus be something seriously wrong with her.

  I seriously agree. Just dunno how can someone do such a thing to his own friend.
• varatare

  1 Jun 04, 11:50

  Originally posted by dreamybear:

  MI!!!!! always beening back stabbed by tis girl in my ex class... always goes around telling ppl i m a big flirt.. always in front of mi she would tell mi i look pretty... then in front of my other 2 good friends sdhe would keep saying wat i act chio... then create a lots of conflicts between mi n my good friends... always wanna tear us apart... even draw on my diary once.. make mi so angry wif her.... almost slap her.... dunno wat i did to deserve tis type of treatment from her.....

  Well dont bother too much with her, now we know something people do just because others are doing it. Why they dont follow those who treat their friend well? I believe there are many people who are doing it too.
• varatare

  1 Jun 04, 11:54

  Originally posted by [ r 0 y s t 0 n ]:

  Jealousy?

  Well Jealousy is an emotion state, friendship is an emotion attachment. Does that then their friendship is not string enough?? Then why they wanna be friend? so they can back stabbed their friend?? Is that fun?? Is hurt one own friend something to be enjoy??
• Achil|es

  1 Jun 04, 12:18

  Originally posted by dreamybear:

  MI!!!!! always beening back stabbed by tis girl in my ex class... always goes around telling ppl i m a big flirt.. always in front of mi she would tell mi i look pretty... then in front of my other 2 good friends sdhe would keep saying wat i act chio... then create a lots of conflicts between mi n my good friends... always wanna tear us apart... even draw on my diary once.. make mi so angry wif her.... almost slap her.... dunno wat i did to deserve tis type of treatment from her.....

  Maybe,in her eyes,you r a b|tch.And she just does'nt want to tell it straight into your face.
  
  Hypocrites do exist.
  
• FireIce

  1 Jun 04, 12:42

  dun have to bother about these ppl lah
  they jiak ba kah eng....
  
  ppl will see their true colors soon...
  
  
• Boy Next Door => []

  1 Jun 04, 12:51

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Has anyone encounter or know someone who had been back stabbed or ill-talked by their friends just because they are having most of the attention from the opposite gender??

  At work, yes. They dun seem to noe that it makes them look stupid. It's tickles me more than anything.
  
  But outside work, no. Not anymore, since I'm no longer active in the dating scene.
  
  
• choco B

  1 Jun 04, 12:55

  Revenge is sweet wad. Vindictiveness is therapeutic. It feels good to watch your enemy suffer.
  
  

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Well Jealousy is an emotion state, friendship is an emotion attachment. Does that then their friendship is not string enough?? Then why they wanna be friend? so they can back stabbed their friend?? Is that fun?? Is hurt one own friend something to be enjoy??

• parn

  1 Jun 04, 13:10

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Has anyone encounter or know someone who had been back stabbed or ill-talked by their friends just because they are having most of the attention from the opposite gender??

  Hmm...how about having a little complain about your frd to another frd? Is that consider ill-talked? Well, I think everybody at a certain point of time do complain about another person. I do that as well. But never do it to grab attention from opposite gender lor.
• parn

  1 Jun 04, 13:11

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  if a gal chooses this guy knowing tt he backstabbed and bad mouthed his friend just to get her attention den there mus be something seriously wrong with her.

  It does really happens in real life. But it is just because the gal already liked the guy who happened to backstab his frd in front of her. Then in the end, the two "gou nan nu" become a couple lor.
  
  
• varatare

  1 Jun 04, 13:36

  Originally posted by parn:

  Hmm...how about having a little complain about your frd to another frd? Is that consider ill-talked? Well, I think everybody at a certain point of time do complain about another person. I do that as well. But never do it to grab attention from opposite gender lor.

  This I know. I mean the friend is doing it because the other friend is getting most of the opposite gender attention.
• varatare

  1 Jun 04, 13:44

  So will like to know does anyone does any good and sweet revenge on "these type" of friends??
• Devil1976

  1 Jun 04, 16:40

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Has anyone encounter or know someone who had been back stabbed or ill-talked by their friends just because they are having most of the attention from the opposite gender??

  What's new...? Happens all the time....
• arse-fan

  1 Jun 04, 17:29

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  I'm one of the above who back-stabs and ill-talks.

  Do on to others before others do on to you???
• Patrik

  2 Jun 04, 20:25

  Yeah...no matter where you go...there is bound to be some everywhere...