I Really Like This Gal...What Should i Do?
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hi all pple..would like to seek ur advice on tis small problem of mine..been bugging me for almost 2 yrs le...
i like tis gal since 2002...during tat time i went out with her many times...on a few occasions she even push away other appts when i ask her out...she oso allow me to fetch her from sch...during tat few mths period i like her more and more...and i believed she liked me too..as she dun like to tok on the fone...we always exchange sms almost abt 30-50 a day...she even msg me when she's going out or going home..or when she is going to slp at nite...so i assumed she like me...
finally 1 day i plucked out enuff courage to tell her i like her...i was going to tell her in the lift when i was sending her home...but when facing her...i lost all guts haha...but she noe i wanted to tell her someting...i was smiling...she was giggling..cuz she is very shy and quiet by nature...and i tink she knew tat i was going to tell her i like her...
when when i reached home and log on to net..i saw her online too...den she ask me wat i wanted to tell her in the lift...finally i told her i like her...the answer she gave me i dunno wan to cry or wat...dunno good or bad...she said she wanted to concentrate on her studies as she's in her last year and got big project coming up...she oso say to let tings proceed on their own naturally...she say after her studies anyting is possible...i was devastated..
we still keep in contact often...1 year has passed since her graduation...i was busy with my studies during that period too..now my studies r finished...and i still really like her...and she has been single all along tis 2 yrs....wat should i do?
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Find time and opptunity to express your feelings, but know when to reel back. Gals like men who can express their feelings.
Send this post to Aunt Agony forum, not here, you'll just get funny answers. -
Since u are still in contact, it is very easy. Ask her out & tell her personally, don't do it by SMS.
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Call her again?Originally posted by MCCM:hi all pple..would like to seek ur advice on tis small problem of mine..been bugging me for almost 2 yrs le...
i like tis gal since 2002...during tat time i went out with her many times...on a few occasions she even push away other appts when i ask her out...she oso allow me to fetch her from sch...during tat few mths period i like her more and more...and i believed she liked me too..as she dun like to tok on the fone...we always exchange sms almost abt 30-50 a day...she even msg me when she's going out or going home..or when she is going to slp at nite...so i assumed she like me...
finally 1 day i plucked out enuff courage to tell her i like her...i was going to tell her in the lift when i was sending her home...but when facing her...i lost all guts haha...but she noe i wanted to tell her someting...i was smiling...she was giggling..cuz she is very shy and quiet by nature...and i tink she knew tat i was going to tell her i like her...
when when i reached home and log on to net..i saw her online too...den she ask me wat i wanted to tell her in the lift...finally i told her i like her...the answer she gave me i dunno wan to cry or wat...dunno good or bad...she said she wanted to concentrate on her studies as she's in her last year and got big project coming up...she oso say to let tings proceed on their own naturally...she say after her studies anyting is possible...i was devastated..
we still keep in contact often...1 year has passed since her graduation...i was busy with my studies during that period too..now my studies r finished...and i still really like her...and she has been single all along tis 2 yrs....wat should i do?
Seriously, the fact that she didn't reject your confession outright that you like her indicates that you do hold a significant place in her heart. It may be just that at that point in time she is unsure she wants to that the friendship you two had to a new level (read: boy-girl relationship).
You did the right thing by respecting her choice then. Now since her original concern is over, try asking her again. If you don't do it you will never know the result. Good luck!
Oh and next time try posting post such question in the Aunt Agony forum. The bar forum isn't exactly the best place to post this sort of question. -
jio her!! what else can u do???
just go askher out.. then ask her.... "errr... ur study over already hor....mine too leh..... so anything is possible now right?? so when u want to ROM with mi?? tomolo can??"
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yeah...realised my mistake of posting here...how do i delete tis post here?Originally posted by ziezoe:Find time and opptunity to express your feelings, but know when to reel back. Gals like men who can express their feelings.
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Never mind about it.Originally posted by MCCM:yeah...realised my mistake of posting here...how do i delete tis post here? I don't think you can delete it. Think it is the job of the moderators to do so.
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haha ok thanx...can see wat funny answers i can get here...but frankly speaking...i would love to get good adviceOriginally posted by ChrisYX:Never mind about it. I don't think you can delete it. Think it is the job of the moderators to do so.
Just treat it as another avenue for advice lor. -
continue chase her lor, then pop her the question when time is rite...
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Hi MCCM,Originally posted by MCCM:... she said she wanted to concentrate on her studies as she's in her last year and got big project coming up...she oso say to let tings proceed on their own naturally...she say after her studies anyting is possible...i was devastated..
we still keep in contact often...1 year has passed since her graduation...i was busy with my studies during that period too..now my studies r finished...and i still really like her...and she has been single all along tis 2 yrs....wat should i do?
Mai tu liao!!! IMHO, what she meant was you got chance and she willing to try it out but not then as there were restrictions / inhibitions then. She was probably very very very concerned with her study and fear that a relationship will disrupt her studies.
Now that you are both eng and available, start asking her out again, but don't cheong straight to the point, warm up first, build up momentum from there, rekindle the old flame, make her see stars, you'll know what to do... for all you know, she is waiting for you all this while that's why still single.
So........... mai tu liao!!!
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ya..u need to take the first step.
Relax......
Call her.....(no sms pls)
start with small talk...easier
there are many good shows...shrek2...harry potter etc..
don't think too much about outcomes...what happens if this or that....
do it now or live to regret
get to know her first and not focus just on feelings..
for all u know u may not be suitable for each other or you may be so why waste energy
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This time must face-to-face ask her. Not like last time through ICQ or whatever. Show your sincerity.
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Hahaha...I don't really understand what is your problem here. Have you lost your guts to face her? What have you been doing...letting her wait for so long.
Faster give her a phone call and ask her out again. You got chance man...if you love her, you must do your best to go after her. Let her know when the time is right...hmm...think you should have let her know in the lift few years ago.
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Ring Ring...
"Harlo, are you free for dinner"
At resturant:
"To pick up from our conversation on the net 2 years ago...."
2 things might happen:
if good
if not