Are ladies more open-minded these days?
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Nowadays, r many ladies are open-minded? I known a few of them who r either married or with bfs, but they still flirt ard in those night spots. Some even to the extent of huggings, kissings, and even ONS. Can any lady out there tell me is this's true? Is this a trend or wat? Doesn't give me any secure feelings in a relationship.
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women liberal...guys complain they sluttish...flirt...
women conservative...guys complain they boring...not open-minded... -
Well, I dun think liberal is to dat extent lor. They are hugging guys, french kissing them, even let those "wolves" all hands over their body, some I even notice under their skirts. I really dun know how to comprehend this kind of mentality. To you girls, is this ur definition of being liberal?Originally posted by FireIce:women liberal...guys complain they sluttish...flirt...
women conservative...guys complain they boring...not open-minded...
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Ken -
as long they are responsible to all the consequences tt may happen later
it's their life, they choose how to live it
why dun u tok abt the guys taking advantage of such gers?
why u tok about the guys who go clubbing with the sole aim to pick up willing parties for ons?
guys flirt can, ger flirt kena ostracise...
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Well, guess u r rite.Originally posted by FireIce:as long they are responsible to all the consequences tt may happen later
it's their life, they choose how to live it
why dun u tok abt the guys taking advantage of such gers?
why u tok about the guys who go clubbing with the sole aim to pick up willing parties for ons?
guys flirt can, ger flirt kena ostracise...
It's their lives, they r responsible for it themselves. If they wanna ruin it, no one can stop them. And this goes to guys as well lah.
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Ken -
it takes 2 hands to clap...
so it's not totally the gers' fault as i believe guys do play a part in "encouraging" such behaviour and even taking advantage of it...
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~~Evi|Ger~~
more affectionately known as...
tHe eXtrA-oRdiNaRy eCCenTriC PaRanOid BiTch wiF thE PaiZaBor aTTiTudE
(who is a Prata-natic...and a loyal supporter of Quickly and Qoo~)
A hiaK~ is a sarcastic laugh
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U abit too defensive la .... look at the topic ... he is only asking if girls are more open-minded ... he is not suggesting they are more sluttish
Originally posted by FireIce:it takes 2 hands to clap...
so it's not totally the gers' fault as i believe guys do play a part in "encouraging" such behaviour and even taking advantage of it... -
Hey RubberDuckie.Originally posted by rubberduckie:U abit too defensive la .... look at the topic ... he is only asking if girls are more open-minded ... he is not suggesting they are more sluttish
Thks.
Exactly my sentiments!
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rubberduckie:
this is the "examples" he gave...
and im answering to these...Originally posted by Seeker2002:Some even to the extent of huggings, kissings, and even ONS. Can any lady out there tell me is this's true? -
heh well in his opinion he meant open-minded ... some guys might see it as sluttish... can give him the benefit of doubt.Originally posted by FireIce:rubberduckie:
this is the "examples" he gave...
and im answering to these... -
If the ladies want it, then we guys give it to them. Simple concept is it not?
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Oh! Now i see someone who noes nothing & is still trying real hard to achive more posts so that newbie will think that he's a pro... But who noes? Whahaha! He's a freak...Originally posted by FireIce:rubberduckie:
this is the "examples" he gave...
and im answering to these...
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Huh?
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Don't mistake female openness for sluttishness. Women are opinionated nowadays probably because of the western influence. You have to look at how they use this to express themselves. Most don't know how to convey elegance, most are just doing too much wayang, watching to much TV, living the lives of their TV or movie stars, nothing new there.
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most of them are these days
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please do not be mistaken. you are taking every guy's thoughts into account. meaning that as long as your bf does not keep changing his mind then it is okay. if 1day, he say u are a flirt then the next day say u are not openminded... then u can dump this guy.Originally posted by FireIce:women liberal...guys complain they sluttish...flirt...
women conservative...guys complain they boring...not open-minded... -
i dont know what to say about the girls in singapore and i dont like them the least bit (that explained why i have never dated before, what a waste of time anyway!) yes most of them are westernised in their doctrines and options something like my sister whom learned about all the silly stuff from teeny american shows like friends, beverly hill(at her time is quite famous) and campus pals. Abilities to mumble a few american jargon doesnt show that you are a blonde, it just show that you are more like a banana(white interior, yellow exterior). why is that our society just cant get it right, chinese man dont even know about your own customs and you wanna acquire foreign's ideologies, believe me those foreigners are making a mockery of us outside singapore. what i mean is girl can be open-minded but in a singapore way and not those sluttish US bitch. who cares anyway, i try not to get in contact with them as best as i could.
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[color=darkblue]Yeap...women nowadays are definately open-minded...but like most guys thinking...as long as you are open-minded, you are a cheap-pickup or some kind of slut which they can bed you...if you are not, then they complain you are boring....
Anyway, anyone is repsonsible for their own actions...I mean when u go to a club, don't tell me you don't even flirt abit? As long as you know what yu are doing, and don't regret what you have done...then no one can stop you!! -
EASY.Originally posted by Seeker2002:Nowadays, r many ladies are open-minded? I known a few of them who r either married or with bfs, but they still flirt ard in those night spots. Some even to the extent of huggings, kissings, and even ONS. Can any lady out there tell me is this's true? Is this a trend or wat? Doesn't give me any secure feelings in a relationship.
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Regards
Ken
You don't go night-spot but go MARKETs and OFFICES instead and see if such things are happening...? -
oh....i tink its really a trend...me too heard from ppl tat ONS r normal nowadays....but i hardly get one. in doubt wif my frds too.
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Lol, u want ONS? Go ask your friends lor. Don't be shy, cos they won't be shy with their answer either.
Its the mix of friends u hang around with. If your group of friends are liberal, then I guess its your gain/loss, whichever way you decide to consider it. Its true tho, if girls are liberal, guys call them sluttish, and if they are conservative, then guys label them as narrowminded. In the end, you can't please everybody, so might as well be YOURSELF. Let others form their opinions, who gives a fuck? -
Well said Shotgun...