Do gals really mind if their b/f is not a virgin?

• yoohoo

  27 Apr 00, 11:28

  hmmm after reading the other topic "Do guys really mind if their g/f is not a virgin?", i guess this topic is a follow up....
  
  May i just conclude that in general, gals don seems to mind their b/f not being a virgin?
  
  Why is this so? Perhaps some gals out there (or Belle)would like to volunteer and share your oppinion with us?
  
  Why do ppl have such sterotype thinking that "ah, its alright tat guys are not V, while gals should not lose their V"?
  
  
• planster

  27 Apr 00, 11:50

  hahahha gd point there!
  i personally feels all gals r still virgins!
  as long as the gals i am currently with.. dnt lose it "again" with sommeone else while hitting it out with mi..
  
  pardon mi if i am wrong.. dats called 'wearing green hat' in chn right?
  
  all guys(or should i say all ppl) hate being taken lke a fool..
  
  ~be trueful to ur current..
  ~ditch her.. & b carefree..
  
  [This message has been edited by planster (edited 27 April 2000).]
• march

  28 Apr 00, 18:05

  hey yoohoo....y u worry ah....scared that u won't be able to resist??????hehe....
  
  I think that even if the guys are not virgin....,the gals won't know about it leh
  
  Rite?????maybe u are not one already.......????
• Belle

  28 Apr 00, 21:29

  i dun mind if my b/f is a not a virgin but i will feel uncomfortable if he still contact with the ger.
  the reason y i post this thread is b'cos most of my guy friends do mind if their g/f is not a virgin. In fact, they will not even consider going after the ger if she is not a virgin.
• yoohoo

  29 Apr 00, 03:18

  hmmmm march, how come u turn the table round and ask me the question that i posted? hehehehehe
  
  anyway, i asked this Q as i felt that after reading Belle's topic, it is natural to ask such a similar Q loh.....
  
  but as i mentioned, its quite true mah..... its not "alarming" to learnt that guys are not V, but upon learning that a gal is not a V, hmmmmm got a bit of gossips leh~!
  
  so unfair right gals?
  
• maestro

  29 Apr 00, 09:19

  yahoo well in 1 of the tread we did state the double stanards.
  
  Belle I feel most of you frens a little norrow minded. How many virgin they expect to find. Most impt is a person character(& I saying cos it sound good) good looks is a bonus. Dont u think?
  
  
• march

  29 Apr 00, 15:38

  i totally argee with belle,if the bf/gf still contact with the gal who he/she have sex with,does that mean they still get together sometimes?and that is without u knowing!!!!!!!
• march

  29 Apr 00, 15:40

  hey....by the way,yoohoo... u havent answer my question yet???hehe...
• moose

  29 Apr 00, 16:16

  I don't see anything wrong with them meeting as long you know that they are just friends for now,after all,do you trust your gf??? ? ))
• gRif

  14 May 00, 13:37

  Belle,
  
  Don't know why you feel weird, but I guess it's understandable, but trust the guy, if you can.
  If every girl is to be like you, then I think I don't need to have any g/f anymore.
  
  
• WR

  19 May 02, 21:04

  V or not does it really matter, dat muchhhhhh???? haizz.... if we worry so much we'll die young lohz. enjoy while u live.
• starzzz

  22 May 02, 21:35

  actually i dun mind if my bf is not a virgin and so he must not mind that i am not too....
  
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  whats love?
• ms_walkin

  24 May 02, 22:59

  i don't mind as long as he loves me so much.
• God Emperor

  2 Jun 02, 21:16

  I suppose that this is something that you can only trust him with isn't it?