this is the situation:
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I have just ended a 3-mth relationship with my girlfriend.
we ended in the term of lack of commitment. he chose another guy over me cuz of i was lack of commitment.
well, the fact is, i have had wanna break up and be single cuz we were sticking together for too long and did not have much room for one another.
but now, she have had left, i felt fairly upset. (you see, she lives with me.) and pretty empty.
if any of you are free, do give me some consolation please...
Thank You!
Allen -
What u r going through is a phrase to get acustomed back to ur single life...Originally posted by wangkai:I have just ended a 3-mth relationship with my girlfriend.
we ended in the term of lack of commitment. he chose another guy over me cuz of i was lack of commitment.
well, the fact is, i have had wanna break up and be single cuz we were sticking together for too long and did not have much room for one another.
but now, she have had left, i felt fairly upset. (you see, she lives with me.) and pretty empty.
if any of you are free, do give me some consolation please...
Thank You!
Allen
COmmitment... is not easy...
If u dun intend to commit, you should not hav start this relationship at all.
Hope you learn from this relationship.
U felt 3 months was too long... i really dunno what to say... it should have been a honeymoon period.. but you have been yearning for a break up... Dun think u really love her so much... you are just used to her companionship...
IMO, u will be able to pick up urself soon....
You might also be feeling... Bu Gan Xin that she picked someone else instead of u...
but Since you have been yearning for a break up and got what u wished for, then u shouldn't be so upset... go out and have a break...
Enjoy urself... come back and have a good sleep... dun look back anymore..
Cheerios... -
Hmm, personally I tink tat the 3 mths relationship is a rather short one... mabbe u 2 have not been going thru bad patches or r/s... if its the time for u to forget den u will have to accept the reality.. time will heal everything...
gOod Luck~ -
Thought this kinda topic should be in Aunt Agony..?
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3 months ??? yep gotta to agree with u ...lack of commitment.. jeez.. 3 months is nothing.. i thought waah maybe 3 years then of course can be upset... 3 months ??!! nothing.. just enjoy yourself...Originally posted by wangkai:I have just ended a 3-mth relationship with my girlfriend.
we ended in the term of lack of commitment. he chose another guy over me cuz of i was lack of commitment.
well, the fact is, i have had wanna break up and be single cuz we were sticking together for too long and did not have much room for one another.
but now, she have had left, i felt fairly upset. (you see, she lives with me.) and pretty empty.
if any of you are free, do give me some consolation please...
Thank You!
Allen -
3 months only what?
Fart one time, every trouble blow out with it~
LoL..
I 1 months only then done!
Take away the virginity and dump her!
That's all!
Keke...
Erm.. did i felt sad?
I don't know... that time i just fell troublesome cause she don't want let go!
Sad maybe after 2 months like that cause miss sex!
LoL
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Originally posted by wangkai:
lol not trying to be some idiot... but upon seeing that it really made me laugh
I have just ended a 3-mth relationship with my girlfriend.
we ended in the term of lack of commitment. he chose another guy over me cuz of i was lack of commitment.
well, the fact is, i have had wanna break up and be single cuz we were sticking together for too long and did not have much room for one another.
but now, she have had left, i felt fairly upset. (you see, she lives with me.) and pretty empty.
if any of you are free, do give me some consolation please...
Thank You!
Allen
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Yo is your gf a guy or a girl? you're confusing all of us!Originally posted by wangkai:I have just ended a 3-mth relationship with my girlfriend.
we ended in the term of lack of commitment. he chose another guy over me cuz of i was lack of commitment.
well, the fact is, i have had wanna break up and be single cuz we were sticking together for too long and did not have much room for one another.
but now, she have had left, i felt fairly upset. (you see, she lives with me.) and pretty empty.
if any of you are free, do give me some consolation please...
Thank You!
Allen -
hmm...get a maid? ask your mom to move in...? hmm... tough one...good luck
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i will giv u a consolation in prize...Originally posted by wangkai:I have just ended a 3-mth relationship with my girlfriend.
we ended in the term of lack of commitment. he chose another guy over me cuz of i was lack of commitment.
well, the fact is, i have had wanna break up and be single cuz we were sticking together for too long and did not have much room for one another.
but now, she have had left, i felt fairly upset. (you see, she lives with me.) and pretty empty.
if any of you are free, do give me some consolation please...
Thank You!
Allen
consolation price! -
i mean consolation prize heheOriginally posted by 'm back:i will giv u a consolation in prize...
consolation price! -
haiyo..feel empty..is cause u used to her being around..not becoz u luv her..feel something missing..cuz u not used to her not being around..but not cuv u love her...
if u dun love her..dun be in a relationship for the sake of being in one...
commitment? didn have the commitment? den u shudn't have started in the first place bahx.
no matter how a girl hurts me sometimes, i just stick to her, knowing one day life with her will be sheer bliss and even though there have been many rough patches..must say that we have overcame all that sh!t together lorz..hand in hand...walking thru the cruel reality of life.. only 7 months...alot of problems so far..prolly cuz we sec students onli, alot teachers against us and senior students oso... sum damn extra make trouble for us...so either of us usually always veri sad onez...so yeah, must cheer each other up... no matter how many times i felt like breaking...i would've always told myself, "tmr it'll be better.we'll feel better.she still loves me.though she hurts me sometimes.it's worth it."
yeah, and that's what keeping me from saying "maybe we should stop seeing each other for awhile"..for i know that would break her heart, and it would break mine even more!
in all..must be responsibile..faithful..trust each other..no matter how betrayed or sad or lonely or wadever u might feel sometimes..must tell urself..she loves me..she Does.
haix i talk so much..ppl probably disregard all i've said, cuz they'll be thinking "he's just a kid.wad does he know.screwy teenager"
yes,i know..u thinking "u think u know everything!" too... 