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hi everybody,
jess here. i am new here and needed some advice from the seniors...
must be wondering my age, rite?? 15yr
i got a bf and we indulge in petting for the past few months.....ever since that, when we pet, i have this awdward feeling like going to urinate, but could not urinate. my bf always ask me to relax, and there was once when i relaxed, i urinated on the bedsheet...........is this normal and is that urine on the bedsheet??
my bf say its normal....
pse advise....
tks. -
Are you sure it is urine? I think girls can actually ejeculate. Maybe you should go check you bedsheet again. I think if it is sticky - it may not be urine - and yes, congratulations, you just had an orgasm.Originally posted by jess_gal:hi everybody,
jess here. i am new here and needed some advice from the seniors...
must be wondering my age, rite?? 15yr
i got a bf and we indulge in petting for the past few months.....ever since that, when we pet, i have this awdward feeling like going to urinate, but could not urinate. my bf always ask me to relax, and there was once when i relaxed, i urinated on the bedsheet...........is this normal and is that urine on the bedsheet??
my bf say its normal....
pse advise....
tks. -
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well, it really depends if dats really urine... cuz there r medical cases of women havin the feelin of wantin to urine when they r engagin in intercourse... but it's also a possibility dat u had an orgasm, which is gd... cheers!Originally posted by jess_gal:hi everybody,
jess here. i am new here and needed some advice from the seniors...
must be wondering my age, rite?? 15yr
i got a bf and we indulge in petting for the past few months.....ever since that, when we pet, i have this awdward feeling like going to urinate, but could not urinate. my bf always ask me to relax, and there was once when i relaxed, i urinated on the bedsheet...........is this normal and is that urine on the bedsheet??
my bf say its normal....
pse advise....
tks.
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halo jessgal. u onli 15 niah leh.....
one thing would lead to another.... so haiz... either u stop this nonese or if worst comes to worst, pls ask him to wear condom. very important.
as for the rest, haiz, amituofuo shan zai shan zai, lao na can't sat much....
ni hao zhi wei ziOriginally posted by jess_gal:hi everybody,
jess here. i am new here and needed some advice from the seniors...
must be wondering my age, rite?? 15yr
i got a bf and we indulge in petting for the past few months.....ever since that, when we pet, i have this awdward feeling like going to urinate, but could not urinate. my bf always ask me to relax, and there was once when i relaxed, i urinated on the bedsheet...........is this normal and is that urine on the bedsheet??
my bf say its normal....
pse advise....
tks. -
x2Originally posted by foga:halo jessgal. u onli 15 niah leh.....
one thing would lead to another.... so haiz... either u stop this nonese or if worst comes to worst, pls ask him to wear condom. very important.
as for the rest, haiz, amituofuo shan zai shan zai, lao na can't sat much....
ni hao zhi wei zi -
tks for ur comments...but i would like to have some opinions of the gals here.....
if possible, pm me and i chat with u in private....cos i got some problems.....
only gals pls...
thks -
Try not to engage in sex... u r underage n the guy will be charged in court for having sex with u... try to stop the petting else it goes further out of control... juz my advice...
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Chlamydia
Chlamydia is an *STI which is passed on during unprotected sex. The symptoms include stomach pains, irregular periods, a fever and an abnormal vaginal discharge. Often, there are no symptoms at all, but if it's left untreated, it may spread to the *fallopian tubes. If that happens, it often results in *PID, which can make you infertile.
If chlamydia is diagnosed, it's easily treated. So if you've had unprotected sex, make an appointment with your GP (aka doctor, not General Paper) immediately. Chlamydia is on the increase amongst teenagers, so if you're in a sexual relationship, use a condom everytime you have sex.
STI = Sexually transmitted infection (Not Singapore Trade Index)
Fallopian tubes = A body part which carries an egg from the ovary to the womb
PID = Pelvic inflammatory disease -
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Sorry, just want to highlight that 15 is not the right age for sex even if U agreed to have sex. In law, your bf could end up in jail term for having sex with under-age girl.
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tks....
i dont want it but i am afraid that my bf might leave me.....and i luv him very much....
at the moment, we are juz only petting...... -
one thing will lead to another.
if he forces u to have sex then it's rape.
if u're afrid he wld leave u because u won't wanna have sex with him, leave him 1st.Originally posted by jess_gal:tks....
i dont want it but i am afraid that my bf might leave me.....and i luv him very much....
at the moment, we are juz only petting...... -
If your boyfriend loves you he will not leave you – if you say “NO” to any sexual advances. Love is not about sex alone. It is respect for one another.Originally posted by jess_gal:tks....
i dont want it but i am afraid that my bf might leave me.....and i luv him very much....
at the moment, we are juz only petting......
Should he leave you just because you say “no” – then I believe you may have done yourself a favour.
As for your original problem, it may be best that you talk to a doctor (a lady doctor) about it. You can tell her the truth and you can be sure she will keep it strictly confidential.
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I have seen so many such reason.... I dont know why the gals have to give in just because she love her bf, why not the bf no force the gf when he loves her?Originally posted by jess_gal:tks....
i dont want it but i am afraid that my bf might leave me.....and i luv him very much....
at the moment, we are juz only petting......
if he leaves you because he dont get your body... then leave cos its a one sided love. Only you love him and he love ONLY your body... once he has enough of your body... its time for him to look for a new body... -
[quote]Originally posted by Nelstar:
[b]Chlamydia
Scare the shit out of people already... Petting cum water only tok til so serious.. -
u dun want then dun do it lor.. afraid he leave u??? ask him to marry u now lor .. since u love him so much....Originally posted by jess_gal:tks....
i dont want it but i am afraid that my bf might leave me.....and i luv him very much....
at the moment, we are juz only petting......
petting at the moment.. then if tomolo he ask u for sex how??? u give??
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Originally posted by Wetsensation:
Teaching you all the dangers of sex mah.
[quote]Originally posted by Nelstar:
[b][b]Chlamydia
Scare the shit out of people already... Petting cum water only tok til so serious..[/b]
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so.. did many 'gal' pm u already ?Originally posted by jess_gal:tks for ur comments...but i would like to have some opinions of the gals here.....
if possible, pm me and i chat with u in private....cos i got some problems.....
only gals pls...
thks
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oooh dear.....Originally posted by jess_gal:tks....
i dont want it but i am afraid that my bf might leave me.....and i luv him very much....
at the moment, we are juz only petting......
theres many other way u can show ur love to him
whats done is done..u might regret 1 day
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Hi jess,Originally posted by jess_gal:hi everybody,
jess here. i am new here and needed some advice from the seniors...
must be wondering my age, rite?? 15yr
i got a bf and we indulge in petting for the past few months.....ever since that, when we pet, i have this awdward feeling like going to urinate, but could not urinate. my bf always ask me to relax, and there was once when i relaxed, i urinated on the bedsheet...........is this normal and is that urine on the bedsheet??
my bf say its normal....
pse advise....
tks.
I think i can understand ur feelings here... But one things may lead to another... I got a friend here who is jus lik u lor... She is my best friend... She also tat time was 15 n already got engage in sex wif her bf...
She told me once all about it, when she broke down one dae...
It all started out wit normal pettin all tis kinda of stuff... At tat pt of time... She also dun lik... yet dun dare to reject her bf... End up they have sex after being wif each other less than 6mths lik tat... She daren't say no to him...
Now u all started pettin n u daren't reject him... Wat if it eventually leads to sex n u also daren't reject him??? Tis is n issue of ur vigrinity here! N i really feel tat it is best to keep till marriage... Who knows for sure he is ur future husband? U will surely face alot of emotional baggage wit ur spouse, esp guys coz they kinda of prefer Pure gals?
Each time she do it wif her bf... She kinda of feel guilty, etc... Then end up, tis emotion baggage of hers builds up... n they break off...
N as many of the replies have quoted... It is illegal to have sex wif a gal under the age of 16 regardless if both parties is willin... The guy will be charged in court n mayb caned, dependin on the job...
U r still very young... Don for the sake of a guy... Do things tat u will regret in the future... ONce it is gone, it is gone... Wat done cannot be undo... N when u realise ur mistakes, It mayb too late...
Mayb u still won understand now... think back in 3 yrs time, when u reach 18... U will find tat oh... Now i m very matured... i am able to make decisions tat i wants, etc... but when u 18... ur thinkin differs again... come back to think of it, u will find tat ur judgement, ur pt of view of alot of things changes as u grow older n more mature... U will feel tat wat ever decision u have tot to be wise turn out to be silly...
Mayb i too lao sau liao... haha... but i jus don wish to see someone else steppin in the same steps as my best friend...
U mus ways remember if tat if ur guy really loves u, he should not force u to do things tat u don lik or don wish to. Guys always use the tattic if u don do tis or tat, means tat u don love me... Tis will results in the gal givin them exactly wat they want coz of fear of losin the guy...
Now u may think the world of him... but u haven't seen the rest of the other guys yet! There r many nicer people around!
I feel tat u should let him know exactly how u feels... whether to as u wanna continue pettin or not... But bear in mind tat pettin eventually leads to sex very inevitably... Quite uncontrollable...
If he doesn't respect ur decision, jus forget him... He jus isn't the guy for u...
I wish u all the best...
I m a gal here btw... -
wah liew.... she 15 oni leh... underage! COPS arrest the guy!Originally posted by foga:halo jessgal. u onli 15 niah leh.....
one thing would lead to another.... so haiz... either u stop this nonese or if worst comes to worst, pls ask him to wear condom. very important.
as for the rest, haiz, amituofuo shan zai shan zai, lao na can't sat much....
ni hao zhi wei zi
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Originally posted by Axelheat755:wah liew.... she 15 oni leh... underage! COPS arrest the guy!
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definitely urine la. he got u high and maybe orgas. but from wat u describe, its unlikely.Originally posted by jess_gal:tks for ur comments...but i would like to have some opinions of the gals here.....
if possible, pm me and i chat with u in private....cos i got some problems.....
only gals pls...
thks
u will have an urge to pee after he make u high. especially if u did not let him go all the way. when u high, ur bladder will be pressed. when u stop, u will feel the need to pee. -
all the best to you and hope you know the reponsibility in you and all teens out there to learn the right way.Originally posted by jess_gal:tks....
i dont want it but i am afraid that my bf might leave me.....and i luv him very much....
at the moment, we are juz only petting......