RE:So ashame of myself!
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I feel so ashamed! I had sex with a guy...Been thinking a lot as feel scared of getting affected with any disease or whatsoever. I'm a guy who found out that I'm actually a gay after a few years in a relationship.
My ex does not know about it. Once when I'm in the coffee house, met with my ex classmate and later we engage in oral sex. The feeling was good and I like it very much! Been feeling guilty that I've let down my ex because I'm gay.
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Hmm... Did u use condoms???Originally posted by wolv:I feel so ashamed! I had sex with a guy...Been thinking a lot as feel scared of getting affected with any disease or whatsoever. I'm a guy who found out that I'm actually a gay after a few years in a relationship.
My ex does not know about it. Once when I'm in the coffee house, met with my ex classmate and later we engage in oral sex. The feeling was good and I like it very much! Been feeling guilty that I've let down my ex because I'm gay.
What do you think?
Chances mayb quite high, dependin on ur sexual partner promiscuity... Coz HIV etc, spreads thru bodily fluids...
Jus look out for any abnormal signs n symptoms... Any thing u feel tat is not all rite, esp in ur groin area, jus see a doc, n be truthful about it, so he can help u... Confidenality is a must, so u don have to worry about the doc disclosin any thing tat u have said...
Oral sex... It can gives u Herpes, or sores on the mouth, etc... If really want engage in tis kinda of private activites, use condoms also... There is the kind for oral de...
U feel guilty coz u feel tat u have let down ur ex... But when u r wif her, r u true to her at tat pt of time? Have u done anythin tat would have let her down durin the time tat u were tog?
If the ans is no, i feel tat so long as u haven done anythin tat will let her down durin the course of period, u don have to feel guilty... Coz u didn realise tat in the 1st place, u were gay... So u were in a normal relationship...
Now tat it is over, both of u leads ur own life... So there shouldn be cause to feel guilty... I can understand wat u feel... but then though is not exactly ur fault, but u do feel is ur fault... I also dunno how to put in across u, coz no matter wat i say, u still will feel tat u r letin her down...
Think in another perspective... Short term pain is better than long term pain... N tat at least u come true wif wat u really are, n no longer wastin her time, etc...
i wish u all the best... -
Hi,Originally posted by ahkico:Hmm... Did u use condoms???
Chances mayb quite high, dependin on ur sexual partner promiscuity... Coz HIV etc, spreads thru bodily fluids...
Jus look out for any abnormal signs n symptoms... Any thing u feel tat is not all rite, esp in ur groin area, jus see a doc, n be truthful about it, so he can help u... Confidenality is a must, so u don have to worry about the doc disclosin any thing tat u have said...
Oral sex... It can gives u Herpes, or sores on the mouth, etc... If really want engage in tis kinda of private activites, use condoms also... There is the kind for oral de...
U feel guilty coz u feel tat u have let down ur ex... But when u r wif her, r u true to her at tat pt of time? Have u done anythin tat would have let her down durin the time tat u were tog?
If the ans is no, i feel tat so long as u haven done anythin tat will let her down durin the course of period, u don have to feel guilty... Coz u didn realise tat in the 1st place, u were gay... So u were in a normal relationship...
Now tat it is over, both of u leads ur own life... So there shouldn be cause to feel guilty... I can understand wat u feel... but then though is not exactly ur fault, but u do feel is ur fault... I also dunno how to put in across u, coz no matter wat i say, u still will feel tat u r letin her down...
Think in another perspective... Short term pain is better than long term pain... N tat at least u come true wif wat u really are, n no longer wastin her time, etc...
i wish u all the best...
Ok. But what if both parties are clean? and only engage in Oral Sex only? Any chances to be infected with HIV etc....? -
OMG WTF KEKEKEKEKE
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was ditzy involved too???
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What is ditzy?Originally posted by sgboy2004:was ditzy involved too??? -
Hi Ahkico,Originally posted by ahkico:Hmm... Did u use condoms???
Chances mayb quite high, dependin on ur sexual partner promiscuity... Coz HIV etc, spreads thru bodily fluids...
Jus look out for any abnormal signs n symptoms... Any thing u feel tat is not all rite, esp in ur groin area, jus see a doc, n be truthful about it, so he can help u... Confidenality is a must, so u don have to worry about the doc disclosin any thing tat u have said...
Oral sex... It can gives u Herpes, or sores on the mouth, etc... If really want engage in tis kinda of private activites, use condoms also... There is the kind for oral de...
U feel guilty coz u feel tat u have let down ur ex... But when u r wif her, r u true to her at tat pt of time? Have u done anythin tat would have let her down durin the time tat u were tog?
If the ans is no, i feel tat so long as u haven done anythin tat will let her down durin the course of period, u don have to feel guilty... Coz u didn realise tat in the 1st place, u were gay... So u were in a normal relationship...
Now tat it is over, both of u leads ur own life... So there shouldn be cause to feel guilty... I can understand wat u feel... but then though is not exactly ur fault, but u do feel is ur fault... I also dunno how to put in across u, coz no matter wat i say, u still will feel tat u r letin her down...
Think in another perspective... Short term pain is better than long term pain... N tat at least u come true wif wat u really are, n no longer wastin her time, etc...
i wish u all the best...
Just to check with you. You were saying that oral sex with cause Herpes or sore in the mouth. What if both parties are clean? While engaging on oral sex and if the party ejaculate right into the mouth, will there be anything? -
Well at least you found out now rather than found out after you are married.
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hmmm.... why do i feel like i'm in a gay channel???
Anyway wolv, i think many other ppl do much more than what you did and they're still alive and well. Dun think you should worry so much lar. Just don't take unneccessary risks in future! -
don't do it again.....dun go against nature
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sex only ma,well,did u ever love a guy b4?no right?
just sex ya?
so..........not gay lar,maybe ur just curious
oh yeah,always wear protection!heheheheh -
You ought to be.Originally posted by wolv:I feel so ashamed!
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oh yes...got one less guy to compete for gals...go thrust some guy's ass hole and get AIDS...
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Should be quite safe ba... Unless mayb will kena sores on the mouth? Which i think is very rare... HIV can be spread thru bodily fluid, eg, semen, vagina fluid, or saliva, bld, etc...Originally posted by wolv:Hi,
Ok. But what if both parties are clean? and only engage in Oral Sex only? Any chances to be infected with HIV etc....? -
wah seh......Bar more and more happening liao.........
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how about Oral? If consume the semen, will get HIV?Originally posted by ahkico:Should be quite safe ba... Unless mayb will kena sores on the mouth? Which i think is very rare... HIV can be spread thru bodily fluid, eg, semen, vagina fluid, or saliva, bld, etc... -
Huh? I not pro leh... Mayb yes?
The chance is higher then if non aids carrier ba?
Really not sure... -
The guy got Aids a not? If no then nevermind lor... Thats why want to get rid of Aids very easy de... Put all Aids people one place for them to die and the virus die with them lor... But too cruel liao.Originally posted by BLIM:how about Oral? If consume the semen, will get HIV? -
1. you can get aids/std via direct transfer of body fluids. Body fluids include saliva.
2. so use a condom
3. well my gay friends say once you did it with another guy, its hard to get straight again
5. especially because the gay community in general are pretty horny people
and very liberal abt sex.
7. But dont know why you need to feel guilty towards your ex. maybe you not gay, maybe you are bisexual what
11. But be safe lah. -
Whoa, talk about coming out of the closet.
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Its really funny how ppl thinks gays = sex disease.
As if straight people dont get HIVs, herpes etc??
In fact, figures for straight HIV infected ppl (esp women) are much higher then the gay population now (from some newspaper report i read recently)
Wake Up. whether its gay or str8, as long as its sex, there is danger of contracting disease if either party is infected, and the virus gets into your bloodstream. (unless both are clean and only have sex with each other).
Straight or gay, important thing is to be happy, be yourself. Who cares what other ppl/society thinks? Try to be someone you are not and you probably become depressed and unhappy, worse so when you wake up to reality years later when you are old....imo.
Whatever it is , learn how to protect yourself when doing "it". -
wahaha frankly speaking when u had sex with the gal more shiok or with the guy more shiok?
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stupidity and discrimination is natural???Originally posted by beavan:don't do it again.....dun go against nature -
another classic example....Originally posted by chguy:oh yes...got one less guy to compete for gals...go thrust some guy's ass hole and get AIDS...
u need guys to be gays so that there will be less people to compete with u for gals???
i hate to be u when u look into the mirror man......