Originally posted by alamak!:
i wld lk to ask if anybody ve d same problem as me.. i was a frequent masturbator. but recently i met my gf n i told myself to stop masturbate cos i din wanna fantasise abt her nor our rship. althou d frequency ve dropped alot, des a problem. everytime when i am with her my penis wld excret some tranparent liquid stuff lk lubricating lotion u know wad i mean? i ve been reali bothered by this problem. sometimes it gets reali bad and my trousers wld appear a wet spot at u-know-where. therefore i've had to put tissue paper in my u-know-where so dat it wont spread to my trousers. its been 4mths n still d problem is there. my thinking is that as long as i do not masturbate eventually the problem will be gone.
does any1 have d same problem as me? guys gals or whoever? i wld like to have any advise on this.
another problem recently me n my gf ve gone into very light petting. our views on making love is very clear as in NO WAY b4 marriage. she stresses it and i stand by it. but i am afraid we may not be able to control ourselves esp since we r into very light petting. wad shd we do??
This is just fluid produced by your penis to lubricate it. The penis, in response to sexual stimulation, will secrete fluid to lubricate your penis to allow smoother penetration during sex. However, your penis doesn't know when you are penetrating, it will just secrete. If I don't remember wrongly, I believe it is the bulbourethral gland that is secreting the fluid.
Therefore, the point is that it is normal to secretethe fluid upon stimulation, either through physical contact or thoughts.
But you said that your underwear gets all wet and there will be a wet spot, so it may be hypersecretion. I'm not too sure. Maybe you can just wait a while more to observe further before seeking medical help.