What if one day you caught your gf/wife in bed ....
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What if one day you reach home and found that your gf or wife in making love with another man....what will you as guys do??
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Caught my ex-GF of 3yrs(at dat time) doing "IT" in a car below her flat... forgived her n carried on the relationship... but like i said b4 in another thread.. "Time heals the wounds, but the scars remains"... in the end, we still broke up... we were sooo close to getting engaged... i was sooo damn blind..Originally posted by forum_man:What if one day you reach home and found that your gf or wife in making love with another man....what will you as guys do??
Just a survey to see men response...
SAY!!!
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OMG, i feel for you....my condolences...you should have wallop that guy man!Originally posted by larry_longwei:Caught my ex-GF of 3yrs(at dat time) doing "IT" in a car below her flat... forgived her n carried on the relationship... but like i said b4 in another thread.. "Time heals the wounds, but the scars remains"... in the end, we still broke up... we were sooo close to getting engaged... i was sooo damn blind.. -
thnx 4 condolences..Originally posted by forum_man:OMG, i feel for you....my condolences...you should have wallop that guy man!
No reason to wallop any1... wat goes around comes around.. they'll both get wat they deserve one fine day... i'm not the one to judge.. -
You are welcome...but there must be a certain reason for that to happen ma...your relation on the rocks is it...Did you not bother to explain to you after that...Originally posted by larry_longwei:thnx 4 condolences..
No reason to wallop any1... wat goes around comes around.. they'll both get wat they deserve one fine day... i'm not the one to judge..
For me whenever i quarrel with my gf, she would purposely ask other guys friends out to spike me...wa liao, that really put me on the nerves...anything could happen lor esp when my gf is such a chio bu category one...
But i kept strict supervision on her...make sure i capture her heart, soul, mind, and body...so that no one can cut in -
you don't have to make sure on so many things, juz make sure that you're humble enuff to know that anything could happen & not to be outsmarted by her.Originally posted by forum_man:You are welcome...but there must be a certain reason for that to happen ma...your relation on the rocks is it...Did you not bother to explain to you after that...
For me whenever i quarrel with my gf, she would purposely ask other guys friends out to spike me...wa liao, that really put me on the nerves...anything could happen lor esp when my gf is such a chio bu category one...
But i kept strict supervision on her...make sure i capture her heart, soul, mind, and body...so that no one can cut in -
for me, if tat happens, there's no way i will be able to carry on the relationship..
i dont know if i'll whack the guy, guess it'll have to depends on how obnoxious his face is
i once did catch an ex wif another guy, not in bed or wat but holding hands. I walked right up to them n asked her to intro the guy to me... n i left after tat.. the look on her was pretty priceless! -
Wa liao like that sound quite loser leh, pardon me. But it seems like you are trying to act as if you heck care, but actually deep down inside your heart its pain and du lan like hell rite....Originally posted by marlboro:for me, if tat happens, there's no way i will be able to carry on the relationship..
i dont know if i'll whack the guy, guess it'll have to depends on how obnoxious his face is
i once did catch an ex wif another guy, not in bed or wat but holding hands. I walked right up to them n asked her to intro the guy to me... n i left after tat.. the look on her was pretty priceless! -
easier said then done man...Originally posted by marlboro:for me, if tat happens, there's no way i will be able to carry on the relationship..
i dont know if i'll whack the guy, guess it'll have to depends on how obnoxious his face is
i once did catch an ex wif another guy, not in bed or wat but holding hands. I walked right up to them n asked her to intro the guy to me... n i left after tat.. the look on her was pretty priceless!
for me, no excuses or whatever... it's THE END... -
whack the man larh....den the girl just dump her lorh...and tell all her fwens...
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Why wallop that man only? It takes 2 hand to clap. Wallop up both!!!Originally posted by forum_man:OMG, i feel for you....my condolences...you should have wallop that guy man! -
It almost happened to me once. My ex-GF almost had s*x with her exBF. She was willingly but was having her mens* that day. She confessed but I felt disgusted with her thought. Broken up the next day. Too mush pride.Originally posted by larry_longwei:Caught my ex-GF of 3yrs(at dat time) doing "IT" in a car below her flat... forgived her n carried on the relationship... but like i said b4 in another thread.. "Time heals the wounds, but the scars remains"... in the end, we still broke up... we were sooo close to getting engaged... i was sooo damn blind..
Saw her a couple years later... arm fill up with tatoos, well glad we go separate ways. -
hoped all couple commited to each other..
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i'll justOriginally posted by forum_man:What if one day you reach home and found that your gf or wife in making love with another man....what will you as guys do??
Just a survey to see men response...
SAY!!!
then i
but this is too serious, i think decision will be a breakup
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not really, i actually dun really care.Originally posted by forum_man:Wa liao like that sound quite loser leh, pardon me. But it seems like you are trying to act as if you heck care, but actually deep down inside your heart its pain and du lan like hell rite....
if its not meant for u, it never will be no matter how u force it. I take things very easily 1, n i can nv understand how some guys can cry or wan to die becos of relation problems.
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just for interests sakes...
i think a few of us have read a story where a woman was cheating on her man and the man knew, but continued to be the best bf he could be until they finally decided to get married.
on the wedding nite, all was happy, until the groom made his speech, ".... pls look under your seats, everyone, there is a photo of my wife and my bestman in a compromising position." he then walked out of the ball room.
this is wat i call: don't get angry, get even!
anyway in all seriousness, catching her red handed is something i wouldn't dream of. honestly i dunno wat i'd do. i dun think i'd whack the fella, i dun see myself as a violent person. as for the girl, well love is fUcking blind lor, so i can't really say what i'd do. i guess the LOGICAL thing to do is to break up. *duh*
i feel sad thinking about it, and for those who have had the tragedy of witnessing such a thing, guy OR girl. -
i will try to get even?he sleeps wif one,i sleep wif 3 -
ha, read that story somewhere too. any such similar happenings in your line of work?
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Take photos.
Go up to the ask the yin fu " hey intro your bf to ur ex ! ". Once you've gotten the jian fu's name, beat the #$%@ out of him. Since you've got his photo, he also can't do anything to you ... -
how does that help??? wouldnt that hurt you even more??Originally posted by amuletgurl:
i will try to get even?he sleeps wif one,i sleep wif 3 please dont do anything like that! if he cheats... you should not have to suffer even more than his cheating by hurting yourself like that hor! pls ok pls!
My buddy was engaged to this girl, also a friend of mine since we were all in school together... They were having some problem and had argued about one of her new friend, an angmo. she promised to not make contact with the angmo. Then one day, he told me that he found an opened letter on her desk from the same angmo talking about the morning after!!!!
He got angry and for whatever reason only known to him, he flipped her filofax to see if he can find a phone number or address but guess what he found??
he found that 4 dates were circled and those were the dates that he worked late and bec it was only recently, he recalled that they didnt meet. and the date of the morning after letter referred to one of those circled date!
shit man... you should have seen the pain in his face! I have never seen a man hurt like that before!... I have never seen a man as shattered who cried like that! I hurt too!
Anyhow, he still wanted her back bec he geninuely loved her they did patch up for 6 months but she still left him... for yet another man.... well... what to do... these things happens.... -
thank goodness.. NO!!Originally posted by JLennon:ha, read that story somewhere too. any such similar happenings in your line of work? -
i'm pretty sure you don't mean that. or at least i hope so.Originally posted by amuletgurl:
i will try to get even?he sleeps wif one,i sleep wif 3 -
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me also...even worst. Not in bed but cheating on me... 4d also not so chun.Originally posted by marlboro:for me, if tat happens, there's no way i will be able to carry on the relationship..
i dont know if i'll whack the guy, guess it'll have to depends on how obnoxious his face is
i once did catch an ex wif another guy, not in bed or wat but holding hands. I walked right up to them n asked her to intro the guy to me... n i left after tat.. the look on her was pretty priceless!
I msg her in morn she say she gota study.
So i went out. The moment i stepped into the mrt...there she was wif another guy.
so I stand there just looking straight into her eyes the whole journey. U could jus see the guilty look on her face. Went she alight the guy didnt alight wif her but i went out to her ...the stupid guy then follow up.
She tried to pull me away...well i confronted the guy...but we didn't fight.
She's been cheating on us both, telling lies to both of us all the times. Macham drama we all. Then before i left i shouted at her "U better dun come and find me ever again". I left the place.... the guy stun there for around 3 mins before rushing into the train to ask me things. We exchange number and even became frenz. We both noe is neither of us at fault so we dun blame each other.
End up both of us left the b.i.t.c.h.
She's trying to have the best of both...so well... she deserve none. S
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i agreed with u!!!!Originally posted by Dutch:Why wallop that man only? It takes 2 hand to clap. Wallop up both!!!