Crossdressing?

• stephan_ie

  6 Sep 04, 17:55

  Lemme juz put this simple. I'm a STRAIGHT married man, but have been crossdressing on and off over the years... i like the excitement of crossdressing, but i'm not good enough to pass as a lady... can any fellow crossdressers help? pls, I'm not interested in sex with guys or even ladies, just like some help and advice...
  
  a little more abt me... started out when i found my cousin's drawer of old lingerie (she was staying wif me then) when I was 10 yrs old... took out one of her panties (pastel blue with lace and frills ) and wore it on the toilet.... felt really excited. after that, i became more daring and started trying out more of her lingerie. before i know it, i was wearing panties to school, secretly of course. as the years went by, i bought a few panties, bras and even some panty hose. it was always done secretly in terms of clothing, as i could not pass as a girl even then. i really wished that i was slim enough to wear a dress and look nice in it, but my waist was only 29 inches any my slimmest... sigh...
  
  as years went by, i bought a few dresses, tried them, but did not keep them as i was just ugly in them... have been doing this even after by marriage... luv my wife, but the desire to crossdress never faded.... please help... thanks. [email protected]
  
  
• Prodigy

  6 Sep 04, 18:57

  ask your wife for help
  
  see what is her advice
• borgkilla

  7 Sep 04, 14:31

  Perhaps you could talk with your wife . .. she may be ok with you cross-dressing ... it may even spice up tour lives
  give it a go ..
  
  if it makes u happy then why not
• djjc_1

  7 Sep 04, 14:37

  what advise or help do you want ?
  
  if you are doing it for so long, is it a problem now ?
  
  just wear the dress and be a freak, no problem!
• rongshao85

  8 Sep 04, 02:04

  i think u need serious help from doctors..
• SnowFlag

  8 Sep 04, 03:33

  Originally posted by stephan_ie:

  I'm a STRAIGHT married man, but have been crossdressing on and off over the years..

  I wonder wat is your definition of straight.
• 101wish

  8 Sep 04, 22:49

  r u having some stresses??? suggest u better go n see a psychologist to find out wat problems...
• Killer Tomatoes

  8 Sep 04, 22:50

  what if your wife also like to cross dress?
• arse-fan

  9 Sep 04, 09:45

  go to www.iamlooney.com for advise
• shandower

  9 Sep 04, 09:49

  Another crossdresser appears on the forums. Well, whatever rocks your boat mate.
• the.raven

  9 Sep 04, 10:12

  dress as a woman and let your wife dress as a man. then the two of your can make love and Shit.
• diaperboy

  9 Sep 04, 10:24

  Originally posted by the.raven:

  dress as a woman and let your wife dress as a man. then the two of your can make love and Shit.

  
  
  BAD RAVEN.
• SGpork

  9 Sep 04, 11:11

  your wife can help u with it.
• edseeker31

  9 Sep 04, 17:51

  oh damn....
  
  you are one sick man...
  
  I can understand why a man will rape a woman...its lust their after...
  
  but I can never fathom why a man will rape/molest another man...
  
  you need help... BADLY.... considering the fact how long you've been doing this
• Demolition

  10 Sep 04, 15:20

  Aiyah stephan_ie, crossdressing only wat, no big deal lah......
  
  If that make u happy juz carry on lor.....
  
  Along as as u don't disturb or harm others is ok wat....
  
  Who cares?