SG Sharil....i totally empathise your situation..........my advice is.........when u r lying or sitting next to her in your room or her room, pretend to cry or weep suddenly and painfully.............
when she asks u what happens...pretend not willing to tell her.........
remember...all women do not like guys to use FORCE!!!
tell her u r sorry.......that u almost have sex with another malay girl doing admin job in Tekong........
u said u thought of her when u were about to have sex with that malay admin girl in Tekong....
i assure u 200% that within 2 weeks, your gf will make love with u automatically.......
if successful u must SAY!!!!

ok?