need to talk

• wildemperor

  13 Sep 04, 22:02

  Hey Guys, i'm new here so have mercy.
  Been with this girl for a year plus and we broke up 3 months ago. Been asking her to patch back ever since but she doesn't want. She went for another guy (her best friend) but they broke up last month. She said she didn't want to be in a relationship now and enjoys her freedom but last week, we went out for the first time in a long time and she kissed me. Following that, we went out almost everyday for the week and it was just like last time. Then on Sunday she say she not interested in getting together and she felt like she had no space. But fact is, she was the one who agreed to go out everyday for that week. She's very special to me, and never felt like this about any girl before. need to know what to do.
• Faye Valentine

  13 Sep 04, 22:04

  Originally posted by wildemperor:

  Hey Guys, i'm new here so have mercy.
  Been with this girl for a year plus and we broke up 3 months ago. Been asking her to patch back ever since but she doesn't want. She went for another guy (her best friend) but they broke up last month. She said she didn't want to be in a relationship now and enjoys her freedom but last week, we went out for the first time in a long time and she kissed me. Following that, we went out almost everyday for the week and it was just like last time. Then on Sunday she say she not interested in getting together and she felt like she had no space. But fact is, she was the one who agreed to go out everyday for that week. She's very special to me, and never felt like this about any girl before. need to know what to do.

  if she has no interest in getting back together with you, there is no use asking her. Even if she agree on it, it could be out of pity, not of love. And when u wanna be together with someone, Love should be the only reason.
• the Bear

  13 Sep 04, 22:05

  she has NO idea what she wants...
  
  until she figures out what she wants, you go be her friend...
  
  and maybe you need to talk with her..
• beavan

  13 Sep 04, 22:06

  firstly, ask her to stop playing with ur feelings...
  secondly,just try to move on,u gave her enough chances already,its time to move on...
• wildemperor

  13 Sep 04, 22:22

  its weird but i've tried moving on but each time i feel like there might still be a chance that it might work out. in a way its like me being faithful to her and i know she's been intimate with the other guy and all but its not important to me. some part of me thinks there's always something i can do to make her feel for me again.
  like i said, if it were any other girl, i'd be over her by now, but this one's different.
  
• Faye Valentine

  13 Sep 04, 22:33

  Originally posted by wildemperor:

  its weird but i've tried moving on but each time i feel like there might still be a chance that it might work out. in a way its like me being faithful to her and i know she's been intimate with the other guy and all but its not important to me. some part of me thinks there's always something i can do to make her feel for me again.
  like i said, if it were any other girl, i'd be over her by now, but this one's different.
  

  for what i understand about girls. We do not need to like that someone, but we would very much like it if they like us. Its an assurance thingy that some girls need. So u are just another trophy.
• usck

  13 Sep 04, 22:40

  and btw u how old?
  
• wildemperor

  13 Sep 04, 22:43

  i'm 20.
• Faye Valentine

  13 Sep 04, 22:46

  Originally posted by wildemperor:

  i'm 20.

  future is ahead of you. Dun look so closely to the closed door that you overlook what is already opened for u.
• wildemperor

  13 Sep 04, 22:51

  thanks for that
• Faye Valentine

  13 Sep 04, 22:53

  Originally posted by wildemperor:

  thanks for that

  you live your life for YOURSELF. Dun forget that. Life is a bore, but u have a choice to live it beautifully
• the Bear

  13 Sep 04, 22:55

  words of wisdom from fayefaye
  
  she's unsure and maybe treating you as a trophy...
  
  or worse...
  
  sometimes love isn't enough...
  
  love sometimes demands that you walk away...
  
  do some soul-searching... could be that the best thing you can do for both is to walk away...
• wildemperor

  13 Sep 04, 23:02

  desperation drove me to post my feelings here but i see it was a right move.
  
  thanks for your advise. all of you
• the Bear

  13 Sep 04, 23:05

  i dunno if we helped.. but do drop in once in a while...
  
  and if you have problems, post in Agony Aunt instead?
• Faye Valentine

  13 Sep 04, 23:23

  Originally posted by wildemperor:

  desperation drove me to post my feelings here but i see it was a right move.
  
  thanks for your advise. all of you

  Anytime
• vivasg

  14 Sep 04, 13:19

  Friend, she is a player, don't get urself burn up. if u take my advise, moved on. Stop thinking bout her. A player will never be tie up by a 'good' guy like u. understand? There are still better choices once u moved on. all the best