What would you do if......
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you discovered your bf has been visiting brothels before he was together with you? This question mainly applies to girls or gays......straight guys may comment if u want.
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1st. send him for a thorough checkup..eg. HIV test..Originally posted by snowkiss:you discovered your bf has been visiting brothels before he was together with you? This question mainly applies to girls or gays......straight guys may comment if u want. Just find it interesting esp from a girl's point of view.
2nd.
(a) if test results r negative, he's clean & most importantly, you love him still, then forgive him, he was young & curious.
(b) if test results r positive, he's got STDs/AIDS, pls reconsider & think if you're willing to shoulder new responsibilities for him and with him & decide if you still wana be with him, if so, nurse him back to health. if not, leave him.
3rd. strike an agreement with him that while u two r tog, he shall not pay another visit without your permission.
4th. forget abt this bit of his past. let bygones by bygones.
5th. be a good gf to him.. satisfy him & pamper him much...
cheerzz & chillzzz.. oh btw, i'm a str8 gal..
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I don't think I can handle that fact.
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it's okay if he's playing it clean.
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I asked my girlfriend that before, she says what happened in the past isn't so impt, what's impt is what happens when I'm with her. Just don't let my past come back to me while I'm still with her. If I ever have sex with her, I shouldn't pass anything on to her (STDs) also. I myself should know better and not put her at risk if I am aware that I have contracted anything. She did mention that some girls would mind if the guy lied about the past, but some would be more understanding towards the guy as to why he lies.
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Originally posted by sleepycat:
exactly what i wld do...but i'm a str8 guy
[b]1st. send him for a thorough checkup..eg. HIV test..
2nd.
(a) if test results r negative, he's clean & most importantly, you love him still, then forgive him, he was young & curious.
(b) if test results r positive, he's got STDs/AIDS, pls reconsider & think if you're willing to shoulder new responsibilities for him and with him & decide if you still wana be with him, if so, nurse him back to health. if not, leave him.
3rd. strike an agreement with him that while u two r tog, he shall not pay another visit without your permission.
4th. forget abt this bit of his past. let bygones by bygones.
5th. be a good gf to him.. satisfy him & pamper him much...
cheerzz & chillzzz.. oh btw, i'm a str8 gal..
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why bother? the pass is the pass.. now is now..
"The old has gone, the new has come" -
The most important thing is to check for STDs.
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check if got STD,if he has then its pretty obvious what girls will do...not many love being tied down...
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how abt ger who sleeps around? 2-3 bf before u?Originally posted by ditzy:I don't think I can handle that fact. 
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I'll definately want to know if he has been practising safe sex and send him for a medical check up for all STDs and Aids!!!
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then i shall confess tt last time i work in geylang one........Originally posted by snowkiss:you discovered your bf has been visiting brothels before he was together with you? This question mainly applies to girls or gays......straight guys may comment if u want.
Just find it interesting esp from a girl's point of view.
so we are fair liao~~~~! -
oh FireIce you do ? so u went for upgrading and become a moderator ? wah should recommend u for a skills upgrading award
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now garment encourage ppl to pick-up new skill to survive retrenchment.......
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Originally posted by sleepycat:
Hey.. just want to clarify, even if the results are negative that do not mean he is clear of HIV. There is a term known as "Window Period" It means that the person is already infected with HIV but it still cannot be diagnosed by medical means. It takes few weeks or even months for the virus to surface and to be detectable...
[b]1st. send him for a thorough checkup..eg. HIV test..
2nd.
(a) if test results r negative, he's clean & most importantly, you love him still, then forgive him, he was young & curious.
(b) if test results r positive, he's got STDs/AIDS, pls reconsider & think if you're willing to shoulder new responsibilities for him and with him & decide if you still wana be with him, if so, nurse him back to health. if not, leave him.
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siao liao..........
no idea then,completely forgot about this.. -
dont be naive.
if he did it once, chances are he will continue.... (though i cannot confirm)
visiting brothel is just like smoking.
u think can quit so easily meh?
even if he comes clean with u,
i would recommend u still ditch him.
In this world, sometime u got to think more for your good. -
i am considering going to brothels for feminine non-sexual companionship which i cannot find elsewhere.
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Just do it. But play safely.Originally posted by men_@_arms:i am considering going to brothels for feminine non-sexual companionship which i cannot find elsewhere. -
I will say bcoz I luv my gf very much and I do not want her to perform the sick things I always wanted to perform on a women or a women to perform on me.
this reason can anot? -
I agree with VroomVroom, from the guy friends that I know both young and old (in their 50s)... its unfortunate that once the INHIBITION of having paid sex is gone... its a damn easy slide after.Originally posted by vroomvroom:dont be naive.
if he did it once, chances are he will continue.... (though i cannot confirm)
visiting brothel is just like smoking.
u think can quit so easily meh?
even if he comes clean with u,
i would recommend u still ditch him.
In this world, sometime u got to think more for your good.
This is what I noticed... one day he's not happy for whatever reason and needs something to make him feel good... he will. When he travels and he sees some pretty ones and he feels horny, he may...
That is the psychology of things. Of cos there are exceptions but they are not the norm.
Within a persons mind (any person guy and gal)... its very easy to justify and lie just so that you can do something and sex being so powerful and adictive just somehow has the power to make a grown man go back... sad but true. -
so we can't change the human psychology. what can we do now? is nothing an option?
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i think d answer may be found in L O V E bah....Originally posted by beavan:so we can't change the human psychology. what can we do now? is nothing an option? -
2-3 bf is ok wat,if 30+++,then gotta question her abt it liaoOriginally posted by euphratis:how abt ger who sleeps around? 2-3 bf before u? -
i conceed.........Originally posted by sleepycat:i think d answer may be found in L O V E bah....
haha