does size matter?
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I am 29 now. At age of 21, I met Mr.Big (my hubby), I gave him everything after few months together. About 2 years later, we broke off. Few months later, I met Mr.Nice, and our relationship lasted for about a year. After separated with Mr.Nice, about 9/10 months later, I met Mr.Big again at my friend's birthday party, and at that time he is still single, so do I. So, he started to invite me out for movies, lunch, dinner (no xxx activities). After about a year, he ask for patch up, and I feel touch for what he has done for me, we married, and now we have 2 kids, and plan to have our 3rd one next year.
Glad that you shared your real-life experience to others and indeed a very culturative issue for generations X Y Z here.
Just curious, how long are you with the 60% guy before you call it off a day and how long are you with the 90% guy before you pull the trigger on him and last how long you marry 60% guy when you patch back and never look back.
By that way, I don't have D-cup, I just have a pair of C-cup normal size assets. I never ask for the largest tool. Some guys just need to understand, women will never look for the largest, we just want something that can fulfill/satisfy us.
Well, if you are not a woman, you won't know that kind of disappointment when the small didi goes into your XYZ, you canÂ’t even fill a thing inside. No matter how large a woman hole, is a guyÂ’s job to satisfy her. Of course if you have a small one, you canÂ’t do the job like a man. But the Big guy will be able and know how to do it. Eventually, all women will have a big hole when age comes.
Hey, again, woman never look for the largest, but at least can do the job like a man, can satisfy a woman. At least you donÂ’t lose to a piece of plastic toy. -
anyway, just my opinion
sex is of cos important
but then love is important too
u juz cant stay with a person u wanna fark than a person u love with all ur heart
dun tell me tat u gonna break up with ur bf cos he has a small diq
n find another with a big tool? funny..
then y dun u go n sit at the road side, take a tag
written 'i need a a guy with a big diq to be my bf'
but anyway, of cos dont have b a large tool
but a tool tat can satisfy a girl at least
dont attack me for what i had written
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alright miumiu, ur statement is:
1. ur ex is good on bed, but he din treat u well like a bf should do
2. ur current bf treats u well and caring but his didi cannot turn u on
now, forgive us that we tend to compare the 2 guys in ur case.
let me tell u this story. i have a god sis, she used to have a very good looking bf, and he was very understanding and caring. but too bad he performed very bad on the bed. no matter how she taught him he still din improve much, so in the they broke up, and the reason is very obvious...
then she found another bf, although he was not as as handsome as her ex, but he really can satisfy her needs in terms of love and most importantly sex as well. so she really loves him very much...
so miumiu, here is my suggestion:
u claimed that ur relationship with ur current bf is lack of something, then i think this is very serious matter, be it sex or whatever, what is missing is missing, if u cant carry on, then leave him...
but u also dun need to go back to ur ex, i mean only bcoz he has got bigger one and better skill, but u need love and a bf who can satisfy ur every needs in terms of everything also right? if u go back to ur ex just bcoz of "that" reason, then ur trying to say sex is more important that love oredi...
so, leave ur current bf, and forget ur ex, find a new one who is a combination of the 2, a "man" who can "satisfy" all ur needs. good luck -
I have an above-average sized tool for an asian. That does not mean I go around expecting and demanding that my partner should have big this or tight that. We are all made differently. It is bad enough if one is blessed with a small dick. To have a gf who chooses her bf freely then starts to complain about his size does say one obvious thing... that the size of her heart and brain when put together, is no bigger than her bf's dick!Originally posted by miumiu:i m cup D, that why i can ask.
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Look, let's make things easier. What is more important to you.
SEX or LOVE.
If you can have a straightfoward answer to that. Then you know who to go for.
Should there be a 'BUT' appearing in your answer. Then you do not know what you want.
And we can provide you with many theories, suggestions, answers and stories. But in the end if you DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. You'll never get the answer you want. -
BUT isn't it obvious enough to you that she wants a big dick?
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Obvious to us, yes... not obvious to her.Originally posted by 887:BUT isn't it obvious enough to you that she wants a big dick?
Like i said in my previous posts... she is here because she wants opinons that she wants to hear. And like i said in my previous posts, if that is so, why bother asking? -
sorry that you have been 'attacked' by so many guys. they cannot help it, they have to defend their own species... or they will be questioning themselves the same thing...
the choice does not lie in 'one or the other' - sex or love, big or small.
it is the best combination for you. going back to the ex is going back to the old set of problems again. dont be stupid here.
give the current beau time and if he isnt what you want, leave him. please dont tell him what it is, or you will hurt his feelings, no matter how hard he begs you. if he cannot keep you, at least keep him keep his pride.
may you will find the best man for you. -
I wouldn't define it as defending my own species, even if it was a guy, i'd give the same comments. it the PERSON who should find out what they want in life.Originally posted by nuchio:sorry that you have been 'attacked' by so many guys. they cannot help it, they have to defend their own species... or they will be questioning themselves the same thing...
the choice does not lie in 'one or the other' - sex or love, big or small.
it is the best combination for you. going back to the ex is going back to the old set of problems again. dont be stupid here.
give the current beau time and if he isnt what you want, leave him. please dont tell him what it is, or you will hurt his feelings, no matter how hard he begs you. if he cannot keep you, at least keep him keep his pride.
may you will find the best man for you. -
sex and love are equally important. it is not one or the other. it is not if you have good sex, you dont get a good man and if you get a good man, you dont get good sex.Originally posted by kopiosatu:I wouldn't define it as defending my own species, even if it was a guy, i'd give the same comments. it the PERSON who should find out what they want in life.
it is about best man, with the right combination. the guys havent exactly been understanding of her predicament.
should a woman lie to herself that sex doesnt matter as long as he loves you? when it does? show me a woman who says that and i will show you a woman in denial or never had a good lover..
she knows what she want - sex and character, why should she settled for second best?
come on guys .. if you have a partner who just wants to lie there, do or say nothing, can you be satisfied??? even when she adores you and is a damn good cook?
do you want to eat rice when you are aroused?? hello??
* hope the words didnt come out to strong. i still think what i said is right. sorry! -
Well i know for sure that sex doesn't hold such a high priority to me, not to the extent I feel like looking somewhere else for it. Not to the extent i COMPARE with someone else.Originally posted by nuchio:sex and love are equally important. it is not one or the other. it is not if you have good sex, you dont get a good man and if you get a good man, you dont get good sex.
it is about best man, with the right combination. the guys havent exactly been understanding of her predicament.
should a woman lie to herself that sex doesnt matter as long as he loves you? when it does? show me a woman who says that and i will show you a woman in denial or never had a good lover..
she knows what she want - sex and character, why should she settled for second best?
come on guys .. if you have a partner who just wants to lie there, do or say nothing, can you be satisfied??? even when she adores you and is a damn good cook?
do you want to eat rice when you are aroused?? hello??
* hope the words didnt come out to strong. i still think what i said is right. sorry!
One moment, its love, next its sex. Like i said, KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. If you still can't make up your mind? Then go find the answers.
Why should she settle for second best? Because she hasn't found her best. And if she hasn't found her best, i suggest that she leave the second best alone before she hurts him.
If you want a third party view on this, I say this is a pretty selfish thread. Its all about satisfying oneself. When there is LOVE involved, then you'll want to satisfy the other. And if there is even LOVE involved, instead of complaining, one should work it out together with the one you love.
Well i'm sorry if you disagree with my views, but think about it. Now this thread is all about selfishness. -
so u are saying u are DA gal with the best combination? make necessary noises in bed?Originally posted by nuchio:sex and love are equally important. it is not one or the other. it is not if you have good sex, you dont get a good man and if you get a good man, you dont get good sex.
it is about best man, with the right combination. the guys havent exactly been understanding of her predicament.
should a woman lie to herself that sex doesnt matter as long as he loves you? when it does? show me a woman who says that and i will show you a woman in denial or never had a good lover..
she knows what she want - sex and character, why should she settled for second best?
come on guys .. if you have a partner who just wants to lie there, do or say nothing, can you be satisfied??? even when she adores you and is a damn good cook?
do you want to eat rice when you are aroused?? hello??
* hope the words didnt come out to strong. i still think what i said is right. sorry! -
[quote]Originally posted by nuchio:
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come on guys .. if you have a partner who just wants to lie there, do or say nothing, can you be satisfied??? even when she adores you and is a damn good cook?
dear nuchio, u r comparing performance with physical attributes. one can improve on performance but can't change size. (discounting penile implant)
how would you like yur partner to tell you that u r his perfect mate except that he wish u've got bigger tits? and if u got big tits, it'd be better if it was firmer and perkier? and if u have that, he wish that your nipples are pink!
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dont be sorry that i disagree with you. i am not, since yours arent the ultimate view just as it is mine. no need to think. thanks.Originally posted by kopiosatu:Well i know for sure that sex doesn't hold such a high priority to me, not to the extent I feel like looking somewhere else for it. Not to the extent i COMPARE with someone else.
One moment, its love, next its sex. Like i said, KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. If you still can't make up your mind? Then go find the answers.
Why should she settle for second best? Because she hasn't found her best. And if she hasn't found her best, i suggest that she leave the second best alone before she hurts him.
If you want a third party view on this, I say this is a pretty selfish thread. Its all about satisfying oneself. When there is LOVE involved, then you'll want to satisfy the other. And if there is even LOVE involved, instead of complaining, one should work it out together with the one you love.
Well i'm sorry if you disagree with my views, but think about it. Now this thread is all about selfishness.
just because sex isnt important to some doesnt mean she feels the same. everybody's level of need is different... some just dont need (or so they think because they dont get it or have never known it... )
what do you expect her to do instead of complaining? talk him into getting a bigger one?
tell me who isnt selfish? chinese saying REN BU WEI JI, TIAN ZHU DI MIE.
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This IS the real world, and the real world is to wake up and stop complaining and DOING something about it.Originally posted by nuchio:dont be sorry that i disagree with you. i am not, since yours arent the ultimate view just as it is mine. no need to think. thanks.
just because sex isnt important to some doesnt mean she feels the same. everybody's level of need is different... some just dont need (or so they think because they dont get it or have never known it... )
what do you expect her to do instead of complaining? talk him into getting a bigger one?
tell me who isnt selfish? chinese saying REN BU WEI JI, TIAN ZHU DI MIE.
welcome to the real world.
talk him into getting a bigger one? My my my, you just don't get it do you.
Well if a big dick is all you're obsessed about, then like i said, leave the good guy. For he deserves someone better. -
thats just so frog in the well.. u mean the real world is in the well?Originally posted by nuchio:dont be sorry that i disagree with you. i am not, since yours arent the ultimate view just as it is mine. no need to think. thanks.
just because sex isnt important to some doesnt mean she feels the same. everybody's level of need is different... some just dont need (or so they think because they dont get it or have never known it... )
what do you expect her to do instead of complaining? talk him into getting a bigger one?
tell me who isnt selfish? chinese saying REN BU WEI JI, TIAN ZHU DI MIE.
welcome to the real world. -
i knew this would come up.... esp from a man...Originally posted by 887:[quote]Originally posted by nuchio:
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how would you like yur partner to tell you that u r his perfect mate except that he wish u've got bigger tits? and if u got big tits, it'd be better if it was firmer and perkier? and if u have that, he wish that your nipples are pink!
get t point?
why else do you think women are going for slimming treatments, liposuction, breast enlargements and nipple bleaching ????
so that they can admire themselves?
or to please the men?
no demand, no supply! you are telling me men dont ask that of women? come on! -
i assume u have a DD cup br.easts?Originally posted by nuchio:dont be sorry that i disagree with you. i am not, since yours arent the ultimate view just as it is mine. no need to think. thanks.
just because sex isnt important to some doesnt mean she feels the same. everybody's level of need is different... some just dont need (or so they think because they dont get it or have never known it... )
what do you expect her to do instead of complaining? talk him into getting a bigger one?
tell me who isnt selfish? chinese saying REN BU WEI JI, TIAN ZHU DI MIE.
welcome to the real world. -
you shouldnt be talking about yourself like that...Originally posted by Faye Valentine:thats just so frog in the well.. u mean the real world is in the well? -
now you're generalising. Personally I don't ask for it. In fact i'm against it. I believe in living healthy, and if you want to slim down, you jolly well exercise to burn those fat.Originally posted by nuchio:i knew this would come up.... esp from a man...
why else do you think women are going for slimming treatments, liposuction, breast enlargements and nipple bleaching ????
so that they can admire themselves?
or to please the men?
no demand, no supply! you are telling me men dont ask that of women? come on! -
i think you've seen the wrong side of the world.Originally posted by nuchio:you shouldnt be talking about yourself like that... -
this is a discussion and a heated one as that. you dont need to resort to personal questions or attack. i can tell you anything i want, would you know.Originally posted by Faye Valentine:i assume u have a DD cup br.easts?
try wits or humor. -
i think you should get out more.Originally posted by kopiosatu:i think you've seen the wrong side of the world. -
well, i guess i live in another world.. the one where i accept people for who they are. not for their bigger fake tiddies or better colored nipple. If i want that, then I shall look for that particular person who owns such REAL tools and not be with the one without (these attributes), then bitch about it.Originally posted by nuchio:i knew this would come up.... esp from a man...
why else do you think women are going for slimming treatments, liposuction, breast enlargements and nipple bleaching ????
so that they can admire themselves?
or to please the men?
no demand, no supply! you are telling me men dont ask that of women? come on! -
I'm out enough. Then again you might be out and mixing with the wrong company, time to relook your life.Originally posted by nuchio:i think you should get out more.
Apparently materialism and looks rules it.