does size matter?
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i would say its all depends how u think...
Maybe u r a person who put sex in the first place rather than love...
or...
maybe u r a person who put love in the first place...
nobody is really at any fault, its a matter of ur choice...
in this matter, muimui have to have her mind clear on wat she wants in her relationship.. love or sex in first place?
But of course, sex is not everything.. love is...
Sex is only an additional enjoyment for couple to have fun at. Love must be at the foundation at ur relationship....
If u seek for enjoyment first, yes... u may still had the love (like polpolx), but the relationship will still not be as good as the one who seek love first... -
just simply put it.....love sex....
does size matters.....try fight beating up a guy bigger than you...
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fwah ! my grandmother had the same idea but saw it differently (like 25 years ago)Originally posted by watah:pre-marital sex is important, without having sex b4 u marry him, u wouldn't know how well he can satisfy u. after u marry him then only u find out his didi cannot give u excitement and cannot give u good sex life, u will "hou hui dou lai bu ji le..."
she said to my aunt (her daughter) when my aunt was planning to marry:
exact words "better sleep with him first, if not every night he want, how? you will be very tired"
* normalboi - eveything is
, meet you again in another thread. remember no more personal attacks oK? i wait for you ....... 
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The truth is that there will always be some airheads that accuse guys of choosing girlfriends/partners based on how they look. And they will turn around and try and choose a partner that looks good/has a big dick.Originally posted by miumiu:I just realise that maybe guys fear to know the truth, small size cant satisfy some girs. heihei.
open this topic here, just want to know if other girls dont care about e sex life and e size. If most of the girls thinking in this way, i might accept my curren bf's proposal and ready to be a good wife, forget e past. But if most of girs who choose e small size regret, i might consider leave my current, bcs i dnt want to keet have two men in my life.
again, love, love first, then talking about e size.
And if u never give him the chance, talk to him, he will never be the big man u wan him to be. If thats the case, leave him.
Oh yah and asians are mostly small. If u wan big dicks go look for american blacks. Most of the time they have big dicks.
Maybe it is because u r not putting ur thinkings and feelings very well into words(how the hell u keet 2 men in ur life oni u noe), maybe misunderstandings come about from this. Do what u wan since u probably oredi noe what u wanna go from here.
Just remember that whichever path u choose, there will be a corresponding consequence.
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now u talk like a beng "i wait for u"Originally posted by nuchio:fwah ! my grandmother had the same idea but saw it differently (like 25 years ago)
she said to my aunt (her daughter) when my aunt was planning to marry:
exact words "better sleep with him first, if not every night he want, how? you will be very tired"
* normalboi - eveything is , meet you again in another thread. remember no more personal attacks oK? i wait for you ....... 
oni the mods can make me stop or tell me what i can or cannot do. so dun try telling what i need to do. will do as i see fit.
and no i dun see personal attacks as a way of life. i wont hapi hapi attack someone. no worries on that point.
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I've come across reports that the size of the "didi" can be enlarged by giving it "training".
Basically the male pen15 is made up of muscle, so by giving it training, we should be able to strengthen it (gaining width), and maybe even lengthen it (but dun expect from 4" to 8").
Way to train 'it' can be found on the internet, just do a search using google
Maybe you can ask ur present bf to try it... no harm anyway (but of course, dun overdo it).... -
miumiu, what is the ideal size u hope ur bf have? what size can easily turn u on?
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Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:now u talk like a beng "i wait for u"
oni the mods can make me stop or tell me what i can or cannot do. so dun try telling what i need to do. will do as i see fit.
and no i dun see personal attacks as a way of life. i wont hapi hapi attack someone. no worries on that point.
Ja.
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Just a suggestion....
Keep him for love...
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SINFUL.Originally posted by slowplayman:Just a suggestion....
Keep him for love...
get another guy purely for sex.
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Originally posted by Jwagne:All I can say, you are fated to be with Mr BIg whether he is big/small or him good or bad. Correct me if im wrong, in total time you took 3 years to patch back with Mr Big from the day u two broke off. I was oso wondering are you still incontact with Mr Nice now.How did he take it when you broke off with him?
Fated....I have no idea....
I never keep in touch with Mr.Nice after married. But according to my friend, he is still single. I wish him to have a good life, and found someone he love, and who will love him too. No matter what happen now, I won't look back. That's the pass.
Love is more important or wonderful sex? I feel that both are important, missing either, your life will be incomplete. You will feel missing something in your life. Well, it's easy, your left leg is more important or right leg? To me both are important. Missing one, I will not be able to walk normal, my life will be incomplete. Of course, some people lack of one leg still able to walk.
You still have a choice before married, so, think carefully what you want. It's bad to make second choice in your life if you find that this marriage is not what you hope for in the future. -
haha, i like it!Originally posted by polpolx:
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does size really really matter???
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For this question, you don't ask guys, because:Originally posted by watah:does size really really matter???
1) 9/10 small didi guys answer you, skill is more important (well, obviously majority fall under this group), the other one keep quiet
2) 10/10 big didi guys answer you, size does matter
they answer according to what they have. But do they know ther truth?
Well,
1) 10/10 women, answer you, YES, SIZE DOES MATTER (if they have the choice to answer you according to their heart)!
Listen to the ladies, SIZE DOES MATTER!
Of course, size does matter doesn't mean we are looking for Hulk's tool, but at least can do the job like a MAN! -
I never keep in touch with Mr.Nice after married. But according to my friend, he is still single. I wish him to have a good life, and found someone he love, and who will love him too. No matter what happen now, I won't look back. That's the pass.
I pity Mr Nice. He could not move on and still could not get over you. Love is selfish anyway. Just fated he single.
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I disagree on this, i've never said skill matters nor have I said that size matters. Please read my posts if you want to know what i emphasize on.Originally posted by polpolx:For this question, you don't ask guys, because:
1) 9/10 small didi guys answer you, skill is more important (well, obviously majority fall under this group), the other one keep quiet
2) 10/10 big didi guys answer you, size does matter
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Sorry, I never pointing at you. What I mean is, generally.Originally posted by kopiosatu:I disagree on this, i've never said skill matters nor have I said that size matters. Please read my posts if you want to know what i emphasize on.
Don't be so sensitive, I never reply this for you or any particular person here, I can't even remember who's who, and who said what...
We are just discussing, not war right? If yes, count me out, and I will stop posting under this topic.
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Sorry for the long post!!Originally posted by polpolx:For this question, you don't ask guys, because:
1) 9/10 small didi guys answer you, skill is more important (well, obviously majority fall under this group), the other one keep quiet
2) 10/10 big didi guys answer you, size does matter
they answer according to what they have. But do they know ther truth?
Well,
1) 10/10 women, answer you, YES, SIZE DOES MATTER (if they have the choice to answer you according to their heart)!
Listen to the ladies, SIZE DOES MATTER!
Of course, size does matter doesn't mean we are looking for Hulk's tool, but at least can do the job like a MAN!
Well spoken but IÂ’ll not go so far as to say that the guys in this forum were speaking out of their inadequacies. I think they were probably speaking out of their convictions, beliefs and possibly relational experiences!
Of cos we shall never know what it feels like to be filled up just like you said and I shall not deny the fact that sex is definitely important.
Sorry but lets look at it again... May I ask what do you wish to build your relationship on? love or sex?? Yes I agree that it does not have to be mutually exclusive. There must be nice guys with nice tools just as there are great guys with inadequate tools. But there are definitely plenty of nasty guys with magnificent tools...
You mention something about proposal and being a wife etcÂ… this makes the consideration more important.
Miumiu said it herself that not just anyone with a big tool can be her bf. That is great! Everyone knows that sex with the person you love will be so much more intense and pleasurable and the bonds stronger than sex with just a tool!
Along this line therefore it must be that if your relationship isnt going anywhereÂ… I am not sure that having the most magnificent tool to have sex with can save the marriage. You probably will not even want to come close to it!!!
Please do not forget, sex for most people can be and does become a routineÂ… no matter how good it was before and how wonderful the tools of trade were! 
This is a fact which must never ever be overlooked! 
Great sex can never save a marriage. If you are not communicating and loving and being kind and generous to each otherÂ…. Your marriage will be under a lot of pressure from the beginning with or without great sex!
Oh please O please if you do have a good sex life after many many years of sex with the same person .... more power to you. But please do not send a post saying... " no I disagree bec I have good sex for xyz years and still enjoying it blah blah.." cos it would mean that you clearly missed my point.
Think about it, how long can his sex drive last?? How long can yours last?? howmany years?? What about marriages without sex?? That must be even worse than having sex with a small DD right? But before viagra, many relationship survives and flourish inspite of and in the face of impotency! Impotency hits more man than you care to know! Thats why they are depressed cos they cannot raise their magnificent tools!!
Why are we even talking about this??? Well its bec of the longer term objective of being in a healthy and successful relationship. Again please, I am not discounting the importance of sex but it should not be the only or BIG BIG factor to determine and peg your happiness to.
Like I said, there are nice guys with nice tools. So if you think you have the chance, go ahead and do a swap. But if you do have to choose between the two, I hope you will choose wisely and not merely on the basis of the tool box alone!
There are plenty who marry for love and their relationship survives. There are many who marry for sex and theirs don’t! Please do not mistake love for sex… what you think is love may not be… I have seen many examples ....... of divorcing couples. Often the reason for the divorce has to do with “defects” in 1 or both parties personalities. Of cos there are definitely sex related issues but usually sex is not the original cause… the cause normally lies much deeper than just the non enjoyment or inadequacy of sex alone.
For fear of going way out of threadÂ… IÂ’m just going to end with thisÂ… There is very little that can replace a kind generous and merciful spirit in a person, definitely not the biggest hottest sex or DD or anything. But its possible to make up for certain amount of sexual inadequacy with tons of loving care, compassion and emotional intimacyÂ… donÂ’t believe meÂ… check out Mr SupermanÂ’s life. He cannot walk anymore let along have sex but he is still happily married. Talking about a frustrated wife!
So if your ex is first a loving person etc plus has a nice tool box, great you have your answer. But if he is not a nice person but is one you can live withÂ… then I am wondering if you are doing yourself and your future a disfavour by turning down your current esp if he can satisfy you emotionally mentally and with intimate companionship etc. (I am only guessing hereÂ… his tools may be small but I do not believe its inadequate for the job! There is a big difference but I shall not argue this with you cos you know what you like)
So I guess the bottom line may look something like this..
a) if the first donÂ’t satisfy emotionally etc but great tool kitÂ…
IÂ’ll say forget him.
b) Current satisfy but it really bothers you that you really need nice tools box and that techniques and foreplay will not helpÂ…
then I say forget him too!
c) Then its back to what some of the guys ahve already saidÂ… you should go try your luck and hope you hit the jack pot!
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you didn't say anything about me. But u did generalise the guys here. and i'm a guy. and your statistics are not in conjunction with your claims, because i am a guy who disagrees with the numbers you have put up.Originally posted by polpolx:Sorry, I never pointing at you. What I mean is, generally.
Don't be so sensitive, I never reply this for you or any particular person here, I can't even remember who's who, and who said what...
We are just discussing, not war right? If yes, count me out, and I will stop posting under this topic.
Thanks
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it is very long, thanksOriginally posted by supercharger:Sorry for the long post!! 
but a u a m or f? i think e view will be difference if u a f. BTW, would you marry a girl you love but you cant have sex with her for life long? if u a m. -
how long u wanna have sex with ur hubby? till ur 70-80++? i really think u need to grow up. this is a guy here. i would wan my wife to be more than just a sex object. and i think when i do sleep with my wife it would be more than how big i am or how tight is she.Originally posted by miumiu:it is very long, thanks
but a u a m or f? i think e view will be difference if u a f. BTW, would you marry a girl you love but you cant have sex with her for life long? if u a m.
life is about compromises. if u cannot learn to compromise then i think ur better off living a single life and having sex whenever u want to would be much easier, especially if u, and i quote u "need to have the feeling of being filled up".
ur mind is just filled with sex with a big dick right now. have a good read on the above comments everyone has made ba. try not to be selective about what u read. read everything then decide if we make sense ba.
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think we all get a fairly good idea of who or what you bf is like.. throught your eyes. would love to get his response to all these one sided talk. don't take offence but it'll be most interesting if he tell us why he is not interested in sex with you. ever wonder about that? there are plenty of possible reasons.Originally posted by miumiu:i tired----
it is always me demand, most of time he refuse me by "I am tired" " Work very hard today" " I got headache".....
It make me feel that i m not attractive any more, and we are not that close.
If i marry him, i think he will make me flirt around. How can i keep ask him for sex, if it is so difficult for him, i go to get others!
no, i dont want to be that kind of girl.
I consider break up with him. He is not e right person for me, he should get one who sex drive is low.
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