I asked for views as it seems like society is so open minded abt this... But anyway, it seems the conservative 1960's era is gone....Originally posted by Possum:I usually don't like answering questions with questions, but why are some people so closed about pre-marital sex? What would you say if I or someone else declared how ridiculous, for whatever reasons, it is to not have sex till we get married? Both are right yet both also 'not so right'. It really depends on how how you feel about it and not press your beliefs unto others. You don't like it if people pressed you to believe their ways, do you?
Bring it on!!
Conservative 60s? Hmmm.. Woodstock, acid, Jimmy Hendrix, The Beatles, Elvis, weed to the max, free love, hippies. You'd be surprised if I said that was the time of social revolution, mate. The issue you've raised has always been happening even before our grandparents were born. It's just that it's being spoken more publicly today.Originally posted by sbst275:I asked for views as it seems like society is so open minded abt this... But anyway, it seems the conservative 1960's era is gone....![]()
Good point, mate. Like I always ask - lust before love or love before lust? If you said love before lust, I'd say, 'Wow... you mean you fall in love with a person the moment you set eyes on him/her?' More like you were wanting to know what's it like to get all horizontal with him'her is more like it. Chuckle...Originally posted by L@gSoN:I for one am for pre-martial sex, nothing wrong with that as long as it isnÂ’t casual sex and while doing it the participants take proper precaution.
Had a couple whom I knew didnÂ’t engage in any form of sex right up till their wedding night. And when the time came guess what? They both had such lofty thoughts that how great sex was going to be that when the actual act took place both were so disappointed with the other.
Neither knew exactly what to do except from what they say in movies and read in mags.
Partially due to this they parted ways and filed for divorce, I had to console my friend who became disillusioned with sex after marriage as all he could say was “I saved myself up till now all for this?”
Tip: in order to lead a happily married life, have pre-martial sex, its sort of training u up for the actual thing![]()