NEEd help again
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wanted to post this in Aunt Agony bit i fear that i may get lesser replies and advices as compared to the BAR forum. i am 30 years of age and getting lonely. i am not rich but with a combined income from my other half, i am sure that i can get married and start a family soon. however, i saw a colleague of mine separated (to say nice nice) think on the edge of divorcing soon (to say it hard hard) so i amscared that one day my wife will be unfaithful to me and hurt me in my heart and let me wear a green cap even when i hav my fr ench caps on u know.
so what i am askin 4 r good ways to prevent all these...should i even not get married at all? i fear that secretly my other half may hav alredy and willingly get f ucked by another man or men like a mess or gy stuff u know. i scared that one nit my wif e will get drunk and high and got screwed by other races of men (black white yellow and pink men) u know. i fear that our offsprings will be product of the environment she is secretly in - caut blown and styled...
i see a colleague of mine's son and recalliinghis features i thought i saw a ZHAP ZHEN KIA ( bastard in short )
hoe like dat ned help fast leh...or else i still single 2 proud 2 go geylang may revert to mmy old ways again --------
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nvm u 2 might be able to suit each other's lifestyles..
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aiyah..again ar? ok ok but dont make it a habit
no need for marriage, get a good maid and a dog to keep u company
if the maid goes home, the dog leaves..no alimony
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dun worry too much coz we nv know wat wil happen to us..if she gonna to chg heart, u oso can't stop her rite..jus try ur best
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you think too bloody much dude, both has pros and cons, it's your choice...
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choose wisely..dun screw ur life up cos of a girl..altho they do it most of the time..
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if u really like her trust her
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This type of question is best put to your father or mother. If you are shy then put it to your grandfather or grandmother.
If you are too shy then no body can help you. Not even here
You no experience so do not know what to do right. Then go for it and dive into it with both eyes closed - to gain experience. Be prepared to wear green cap and next time then you will know what to do right. -
yeh lar okay okay but i think sincerely a man must know how to clean up his own s hit, be it at work or his personal life i guess.Originally posted by PatrickLTH:This type of question is best put to your father or mother. If you are shy then put it to your grandfather or grandmother.
If you are too shy then no body can help you. Not even here
You no experience so do not know what to do right. Then go for it and dive into it with both eyes closed - to gain experience. Be prepared to wear green cap and next time then you will know what to do right. -
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u have a big problem
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it seemed that you don't trust her at all.. not at all.. i can say forget about marriage.... unless you trust her ..Originally posted by 'm back:
wanted to post this in Aunt Agony bit i fear that i may get lesser replies and advices as compared to the BAR forum. i am 30 years of age and getting lonely. i am not rich but with a combined income from my other half, i am sure that i can get married and start a family soon. however, i saw a colleague of mine separated (to say nice nice) think on the edge of divorcing soon (to say it hard hard) so i amscared that one day my wife will be unfaithful to me and hurt me in my heart and let me wear a green cap even when i hav my fr ench caps on u know.
so what i am askin 4 r good ways to prevent all these...should i even not get married at all? i fear that secretly my other half may hav alredy and willingly get f ucked by another man or men like a mess or gy stuff u know. i scared that one nit my wif e will get drunk and high and got screwed by other races of men (black white yellow and pink men) u know. i fear that our offsprings will be product of the environment she is secretly in - caut blown and styled...
i see a colleague of mine's son and recalliinghis features i thought i saw a ZHAP ZHEN KIA ( bastard in short )
hoe like dat ned help fast leh...or else i still single 2 proud 2 go geylang may revert to mmy old ways again -------- fu cking spiders
if you don't trust her...... even if she didn't do any thing, you will do suspicious stuffs that make her heart broken... and this might leads to end of marriage... i can say..
sorry.. i am not married nor divorvce before... hope that helps
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so much fear and scare.......stay single. If you want to get marry, prepare for divorce.......by the way, divorce is not a bad decision/ choice if that is the only way out.......good luck
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wah if u prepare for divorce before marrying, its like almost comfirmed to divorce in the end what..
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If u treat yr wife well, she won't stray.
Every relationship is a gamble. If u worry so much, u will never try. -
Get an ugly wife that has bad breath, bad attitude and some skin disease.
Confirm no one will snatch your wife away. -
do learn abt her past relationships,u gotta know y the relationships ended
how many men she slept wif etc etc
very important 1
i do that all the time when i c a new guy or a potential bf -
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Marriage is no guarantee for happiness. I thing you are not ready and still unsure, so why do you even bother. Geylang spiders is a viable alternative but if you're shy, just let the WuYa approach you.
Perhaps she has the same idea about you and post in some other forum saying she's afraid you might go geylang and those WuYa entice you and you take on a mistress. Or some sexy bitchy office girl offer up to be your fu.ck buddy or some auntie want to offer you $ to be satisfy them... whatever the scenario.
Its not happen yet. Dont over analyse. When it happens, it happens. If not, all this is mental exercise to scare yourself. But then, bro, its all only you... she has not done anything and you're already suspecting her. You see TV, Henry Tia was the controlling husband? Ah, you wanna be like that? -
marriage is a gamble itself. dun worry too much. step into it and see how it goes. the way u are thinking now even if ur wife is not fooling around u might think that she is also...
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eh... wats a french cap?
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Yes, that is right, you must clean your own "s hit" what ever it is. especially something to do with your heart and feeling.Originally posted by 'm back:yeh lar okay okay but i think sincerely a man must know how to clean up his own s hit, be it at work or his personal life i guess.