hi girls, if you find ur bf have another girl...

• icyprincess

  12 Oct 04, 14:59

  i dun really care..i will focus more on getting over him than wasting myself getting jealous abt the other gal..
  
  i.c.y
• aHGer^83

  12 Oct 04, 15:05

  Originally posted by miumiu:

  Yes, as what i say, if you realise your bf have another girl, you wish she is pretty than you or ugly?
  
  which one will make you feel better?

  another gal?
  i wld rather focus on other things like getting over it, rather den wondering y...
• miumiu

  12 Oct 04, 15:06

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i dun really care..i will focus more on getting over him than wasting myself getting jealous abt the other gal..
  
  i.c.y

  cool answer
• fett

  12 Oct 04, 15:06

  Originally posted by miumiu:

  does it mean gf's outlook is not important to a guy? only important is have a beautiful heart? i dont believe most of guy will thing in this way
  
  The problem is her bf do not leave her, he live with my friend who are quite pretty, meantime date another girl!

  guy choose pretty girl: superficial
  guy choose personality girl: fake!!!!!
  
  guys can't win
  
  your friend and her guy seems to have a different take on their realtionship
• laurence82

  12 Oct 04, 15:10

  Originally posted by miumiu:

  does it mean gf's outlook is not important to a guy? only important is have a beautiful heart? i dont believe most of guy will thing in this way
  
  The problem is her bf do not leave her, he live with my friend who are quite pretty, meantime date another girl!

  
  
  Yet another sweeping generalisation of man, and gals playing victim mentality..
  
  If things can just go by looks alone, relationship wouldnt be so complex. Please dont make it sound gals are high and mighty while guys are the devils.
  
  Besides, if its realy ur friend as u say, u are not in the relationship, so how much of them do u understand? U really noe whats going on among them, or based or the hearsay of ur friend who is the 'victim'?
  
  
• miumiu

  12 Oct 04, 15:24

  Originally posted by fett:

  guy choose pretty girl: superficial
  guy choose personality girl: fake!!!!!
  
  guys can't win
  

  haha, should let us win lah.
• fett

  12 Oct 04, 15:27

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  
  
  Yet another sweeping generalisation of man, and gals playing victim mentality..
  
  If things can just go by looks alone, relationship wouldnt be so complex. Please dont make it sound gals are high and mighty while guys are the devils.
  
  Besides, if its realy ur friend as u say, u are not in the relationship, so how much of them do u understand? U really noe whats going on among them, or based or the hearsay of ur friend who is the 'victim'?
  
  

  clap, clap, clap.
• fett

  12 Oct 04, 15:28

  Originally posted by miumiu:

  haha, should let us win lah.

  no way. fair is fair.
• miumiu

  12 Oct 04, 15:29

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  
  
  so how much of them do u understand? U really noe whats going on among them, or based or the hearsay of ur friend who is the 'victim'?
  
  

  emm... ya lah, just based on what my friend told me. and i am also confuse:
  1. if the girl pretter than her will make her feel better?
  2. or if the girl urglier than her will make her fell better.
  
  and i dont know why her bf still flirt around as he has such a good gf already. somemore flirt with a very normal one.
• Dodobirdie

  12 Oct 04, 15:30

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  i wish i can kill my bf

  wait a min...aint u suppose to be a guy?
• hiddengal

  12 Oct 04, 15:32

  Originally posted by SumOne:

  My ex once told me, if I ever leave her for another girl, I must make sure the other girl is prettier. She cannot stand the fact that she lose out to someone who is uglier.
  
  Not to insult anyone, but to the girls who say they wish the other girl was uglier, think about it this way, even though the other girl is uglier, she is able to catch his heart. Maybe because she's sweeter, or she's more understanding, or understands him better, or just treats him better. Something that you failed to do. He goes to her because there is something already lacking in his relationship with you.
  
  I won't deny that there are guys who just fool around because they're playing. They may not sleep around, but they just like the chase. Thing is, the above scenario almost happened to me. Whereby I was unhappy in my relationship and I kept having chances with other ladies whom I felt I would be happier with. It didn't matter if the girl was prettier or uglier, I just felt that I would feel more loved being with the other person.

  True is true... But some gals can't help feeling this way.. Can't stand losing to another pretty gal, might as well hope to lose to a ugly gal... like tt can feel better... haha... Psychological feeling...
• laurence82

  12 Oct 04, 15:38

  Originally posted by miumiu:

  emm... ya lah, just based on what my friend told me. and i am also confuse:
  1. if the girl pretter than her will make her feel better?
  2. or if the girl urglier than her will make her fell better.
  
  and i dont know why her bf still flirt around as he has such a good gf already. somemore flirt with a very normal one.

  good as in? pretty? temperament? quick wit? sporty?
  
  What the bf see in the new gf he prolly does not see in the old one. Besides, underlying tension which outsiders also cannot see also contribute to the break up.
  
  Btw, thanx to one forumnite who told me this: how gal see gal, gal see guy, are all different from how guy see gal, guy see guy. So at the end, still depend on the individual.
  
  Some guys prolly find it hard to keep up with a 'good' galfren, especially if she has active lifestyle, super chio look, quick witted, stuff like that..
  
  Thats prolly why he settle for 'normal' one to prevent himself from getting heart attck...
• laurence82

  12 Oct 04, 15:44

  Btw, anyone watch Bai Nian Hao He by Louis Koo and Sammi Cheng?
  
  Rem Sammi want to learn how does it feel to break up with someone u love, and end up with Louis Koo who is a hua hua gong zi, and has a fiancee?
  
  The fiancee all along never mind his playboy lifestyle, till she saw Sammi.
  
  And she said angrily to Louis "..at least find someone who is uglier than me, she eat so much yet can remain so thin..."
  
  This topic remind me of this movie.
• elindra

  12 Oct 04, 18:42

  Err my 1st bf left me for an uglier girl and she is only A cup
  
  Then again we were all young at that time and I was so goddamn innocent and was pretty shy when it came to the petting and stuff. So I figured out that since he is out for the sexual bit, so be it if she is so desperate
  
  Anyway's I don't care if the girl is prettier or uglier because in situations like this it takes 2 to clap and either way, I'm going to kick him real hard in his balls before I self-reflect
• miumiu

  13 Oct 04, 10:59

  Originally posted by elindra:

  I'm going to kick him real hard in his balls before I self-reflect

  hahaha, cool. got it? those guys.
• FireIce

  13 Oct 04, 11:11

  Originally posted by elindra:

  Err my 1st bf left me for an uglier girl and she is only A cup
  

  uh oh.......
  
  was it me?
• hiddengal

  13 Oct 04, 11:12

  Originally posted by elindra:

  I'm going to kick him real hard in his balls before I self-reflect

  YEAH!!!!! I agree... It takes two to clap.. Who cares! Kick him real hard before i reflect!!!
  
  He can talk to me abt the probs surfacing in our relationship wat...