i lk a guy 8 yrs older.. hw? I gt current bf...
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any1 can advise? i lk tis guy who's 28yrs old... went out wif him once, keep tinkin of him.. haiz.. He no sms me de, only chat in msn, bt he does reply me when i sms him, though nt an instant quick reply.. any advice?
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u sure u really like him, not a crush??Originally posted by psyshe:any1 can advise? i lk tis guy who's 28yrs old... went out wif him once, keep tinkin of him.. haiz.. He no sms me de, only chat in msn, bt he does reply me when i sms him, though nt an instant quick reply.. any advice?
from what he is doing, I can see he is not likely to be interested in U!! -
Actually when you like someone, you really don mind his age one loh.. What is important is the chemistry between the two of you.
Imagine
1. Guy who is ard your age but no chemistry
2. Guy is older and mature and have chemistry between you two.
Actually i once liked someone who is 9 yrs older then me, to me he really very different from others cos he knows what is love, care and concern, but in the end we never get together cos i'm attached. -
2 time both of them, cheers.
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Hmm... In this case, I think you juz like a mature man who is much older than you. It is normal at your age.Originally posted by psyshe:any1 can advise? i lk tis guy who's 28yrs old... went out wif him once, keep tinkin of him.. haiz.. He no sms me de, only chat in msn, bt he does reply me when i sms him, though nt an instant quick reply.. any advice?
If a guy who likes a girl, after the first dating, he will continually sms/call you or tries to have more dating with you. There are only few reasons why he won't reply instantly :-
1) He is too busy to reply you (acceptable, but depends on what kind of work/job)
2) He seldom use sms/call someone (???
, may be he doesn't bring his hp always.... may be he turns off his hp during working hours.....I have no comment)
3) He juz treats you as a cyber friend as he treats same way with others online (depends on what is his priority for you in his heart/life, so don't expect something)
4) He might has gf liao or he is with other girl when he receives your sms(whether you like it or not, juz be careful)
p/s - Anyway, don't judge a book by its cover, try to know more about him including his friends and his lifestyle (of course keep a distance with him first before having closer relationship with him)
Hope you will take more considerations before making any decision for further development of relationship. Good luck
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No doubt gals do flirt as well as guys do, but please know your limits. Has you bf done anything to make you stray out of this r/s? If not, please be fair to your bf. Or maybe, time will prove everything.Firstly, how do you get to know this guy? Is he trustable? From his gestures, you should know whether he is interested in you. Don't risk at the expense of your r/s with your boy if you are unsure...
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HAIZ.. I PITY YR BF
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I think he shown no interest in you... forget the whole thing... be faithful to one.. if not u go out, sure got pple want to pian ni... haha
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What kind of advice you need?Originally posted by psyshe:any1 can advise? i lk tis guy who's 28yrs old... went out wif him once, keep tinkin of him.. haiz.. He no sms me de, only chat in msn, bt he does reply me when i sms him, though nt an instant quick reply.. any advice?
You like this guy....nothing wrong, can keep it that way.
You keep tinkin of him... nothing wrong, can keep it that way.
You communicate with him with sms... good, you 2 have communication.
Ask youself, what do you want? -
From my past experience....
I also see nothing wrong with going out with an older person. Older people like me are human too. As long as there is chemistry, go with your heart. By the way, old man here looking for love too. I don't mind girls 10 or more years my junior. I will take good care and provide for you. Application is now open!!!! -
e ting is once i lk sum1, or whoever ive gt gd feelins for, i can jus lk blindly.. i tink i jus c hw.. his line of wrk requires him to know hw to tok... comission comes from clients... i tink i better be careful.. i oso guilty about my bf, sumtimes i can be childish lk him, sumtimes i dun. I guess if any1 is sincere enuf, he will jus get to noe e ger more.. b4 testin e waters about askin her out.. I had a similar 'crush' (as i lk to call it).. he's worse. no reply n stuff. damn attitude. I tink i jus lk him cos he's gd-lookin. sad, bt i tend to do dat.
Thanks to all for ur comments, i tink i jus lie low and c if he decides to do anyting...
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if that's the case what for you get attached to your bf in the first place knowing fully well you have straying eyes?Originally posted by psyshe:e ting is once i lk sum1, or whoever ive gt gd feelins for, i can jus lk blindly.. i tink i jus c hw.. his line of wrk requires him to know hw to tok... comission comes from clients... i tink i better be careful.. i oso guilty about my bf, sumtimes i can be childish lk him, sumtimes i dun. I guess if any1 is sincere enuf, he will jus get to noe e ger more.. b4 testin e waters about askin her out.. I had a similar 'crush' (as i lk to call it).. he's worse. no reply n stuff. damn attitude. I tink i jus lk him cos he's gd-lookin. sad, bt i tend to do dat.
Thanks to all for ur comments, i tink i jus lie low and c if he decides to do anyting... just becos that someone appeals to you more you're going to break a person's heart and you don't even know the person well.
if that's what you're doing you'll never settle down becos you're constantly looking for someone better.what did your current bf do for you to stray away in the first place?i think his sin is not looking as good as your crush?so superficial!
don't break innocent parties' hearts lah. he never call or sms you that means he's not interested lah. maybe he already got gf you better don't go kar jiao. what goes around comes around. think of how you'll feel if you're being trated like this by someone you love
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another pervertOriginally posted by Very Old Man:From my past experience....
I also see nothing wrong with going out with an older person. Older people like me are human too. As long as there is chemistry, go with your heart. By the way, old man here looking for love too. I don't mind girls 10 or more years my junior. I will take good care and provide for you. Application is now open!!!! -
Actuallly wat is it that gals look to? Charisma? Handsome? Boyish? Rich? Nerdy? Personality? Hunky? Boring? All the above?
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8 years may seem to be a lot, but it doesn't mean you can't be with him.
I think it's ok for a girl to be with a guy 8 years older than her but 8 years younger will be a bit strange.
I see many marriages, the age gap is over 9 years but they still living together happily.
I guess if the guy is much older than the girl, he will take good care of you.
Just think whether which guy is more suitable for you, which guy you are most happiest with. -
x1Originally posted by Nanami:if that's the case what for you get attached to your bf in the first place knowing fully well you have straying eyes? just becos that someone appeals to you more you're going to break a person's heart and you don't even know the person well.
if that's what you're doing you'll never settle down becos you're constantly looking for someone better.what did your current bf do for you to stray away in the first place?i think his sin is not looking as good as your crush?so superficial!
don't break innocent parties' hearts lah. he never call or sms you that means he's not interested lah. maybe he already got gf you better don't go kar jiao. what goes around comes around. think of how you'll feel if you're being trated like this by someone you love -
Personality!!!!!!!!!!!Originally posted by excused:Actuallly wat is it that gals look to? Charisma? Handsome? Boyish? Rich? Nerdy? Personality? Hunky? Boring? All the above?
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Aiyah juz two legs step two boats lah....
Juz keep this 28y.o guy as spare tyre....
If your bf not available, go date with this 28y.o guy lah... -
From what I see, he is priming you up for a one shot one kill.
Screw you dead. Ho li si!!!