Why do some guys go for married women?
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There are reasons why things happen.
No sane rational being starts out with the intention to hurt anyone especially in affairs of the heart such as r/s & marriage. If fools are not fools and they turn wise in the face of emotions that are almost as strong as love, what then is love that has been helmed as the greatest motivation of existence?
Then again, many may argue that it's often lust in such cases. But who on earth does know the workings of the heart fully? Who can search anyone's soul and define / classify emotions & intentions clearly? Life has its mysterious lessons that are beyond the grasp of human understandings.
Of course, love is not the license to hurt and never is. But it's no trivial, insignificant force that one may shrug off simply. It takes time, sheer effort and immense courage for both involved parties to do what's appropriate for the sake of harsh reality defined by the society that's rigidly framed by morality and many such.
Anyway, here's just my 1-cent worth..
Can't help saying the above as some forumites are brutally degrading these struggling beings to being idiots, sub-humans, b.itches, s.luts and what-nots.
Granted that they should be given criminal treatment for hurting innocent parties but there's even Yellow Ribbon Movement these days that ask for mercy towards ex-convicts. So shan't we give these troubled souls some sensitive understanding instead of utter one-way condemnation? These are the ones who may really need help from a virtual outlet such as sgForums.
If there's no avenue of help but just sheer vicious finger-pointings for these confused beings, they'd never be as freed as the ex-convicts in the adverts.
Of course, my view differ if there's any planned murders of 4-yr-olds (or anyone) involved. That's sheer mindless inhuman emotional violence that can't be condoned.
At the end of the day, whatever the case may be, love triumphs & outlasts and it always does wherever it is, whatever it touches, at whichever or whoever's side it is rooted in.
If it's not love, all else fades away. Nothing stands against it, not even logic or mere reasons. -
oh dear so many cuckooed, green caps, slu tty and b itchy businesses going on....incapable and incompetebt peopleOriginally posted by woman123:These men who go for married women are looking no-strings attached relationships. These women are perhaps "hungry" for attention or are in an unhappy marriage so they just gave in to them.
These married women could also seen to provide better sex as they tend to be more experienced in bed.
are always giving stupid excesses for their uncontrollable urges.......
it is a good thing that we have an after marriage process called "divorce" and according to my divorced colleague (and he is mighty proud of it), it is a trend to divorce...after mayb some1 has screwed her wife and they gave birth to a bas tard father-in-doubt son o' a bi tch......just read my signature man
