Pregnant, and get Sacked?
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The funny thing is that, I am hearing from friends that there are getting more women being the sole breadwinner rather than the husbands. The husband prefer to laze around and do "own business" which is not always profitable.Originally posted by elindra:Yup, and they wonder why birth rates are declining
I wonder how many families are comfortable with the guy being the sole bread winner of the family
Eventually for those whose husbands are not helping much the women has to do everything and literally pay for everything.
It's also one of the reason why some women just don't want to have kids. Cos there is no help whatsoever from the male side.
**Don't shoot me, I am just saying there are SOME males that are like that. -
i dun want a maid.. babysitters are better..Originally posted by icebaby0:baby sitters aren't cheap too. Most are charging abt $500, not including food, diapers, etc If you want baby to be taken care on weekends or public holidays, they charge extra..some up to $50 each extra day.
So having maid in a way is cheaper but regardless it's a hugh cost.
more privacy in comparison.. and... they are more experienced than teh average maid u get.. they're younger than me... some dun even noe how to carry a baby the correct way -
Maid comes from a starting price of 240 apieceOriginally posted by icebaby0:baby sitters aren't cheap too. Most are charging abt $500, not including food, diapers, etc If you want baby to be taken care on weekends or public holidays, they charge extra..some up to $50 each extra day.
So having maid in a way is cheaper but regardless it's a hugh cost.
So, it's cheaper, and somemore it's a 24 mths contract. They do everything to..."bao ka liao".
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Not too sure whether privacy is an issue or not....Babysitters Club?Originally posted by shinta:i dun want a maid.. babysitters are better..
more privacy in comparison.. and... they are more experienced than teh average maid u get.. they're younger than me... some dun even noe how to carry a baby the correct way -
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Actually I do know of some guys who are like that. However, they are a small %Originally posted by icebaby0:The funny thing is that, I am hearing from friends that there are getting more women being the sole breadwinner rather than the husbands. The husband prefer to laze around and do "own business" which is not always profitable.
Eventually for those whose husbands are not helping much the women has to do everything and literally pay for everything.
It's also one of the reason why some women just don't want to have kids. Cos there is no help whatsoever from the male side.
**Don't shoot me, I am just saying there are SOME males that are like that. -
i dun mind a househusband.....
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Hi ah cindOriginally posted by cindtan29: 
This topic which I put up is worthy of discussion wor...wad do u think huh?
Not the part on househusbands...that's deviated -
Well...if the lady is okay with that...Originally posted by icebaby0:The funny thing is that, I am hearing from friends that there are getting more women being the sole breadwinner rather than the husbands. The husband prefer to laze around and do "own business" which is not always profitable.
Eventually for those whose husbands are not helping much the women has to do everything and literally pay for everything.
It's also one of the reason why some women just don't want to have kids. Cos there is no help whatsoever from the male side.
**Don't shoot me, I am just saying there are SOME males that are like that.
Aiya, it's up to the couple of manage their businesses too
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Hmmz...trueOriginally posted by elindra:Actually I do know of some guys who are like that. However, they are a small % -
many maids are fresh here.. tho my mom says its better to have someone who's green, than to hve someone experienced, i dun have the time to teach them everything.. the trainings that they received are bull...Originally posted by deathscythe99:Maid comes from a starting price of 240 apiece
So, it's cheaper, and somemore it's a 24 mths contract. They do everything to..."bao ka liao".
my family had employed 5 maids in the past, so i've seen them doin things before..
bao ka liao... i just wan someone to take care of my babe while i'm away at work... dun need them to bao ka liao.... -
Originally posted by deathscythe99:
there are some aunties, who have had expeirence lookin after their own kids n other ppl's kids..
Not too sure whether [b]privacy is an issue or not....Babysitters Club?[/b]
i'm lookin for them to help me look after my kid..
i just have to bring my baby over, den they will take care of my baby until i knock off.. they dun come into my place.. so that's privacy
damn i speak as tho i'm really lookin for one now.. -
didnt know u preggie liaoOriginally posted by shinta:there are some aunties, who have had expeirence lookin after their own kids n other ppl's kids..
i'm lookin for them to help me look after my kid..
i just have to bring my baby over, den they will take care of my baby until i knock off.. they dun come into my place.. so that's privacy
damn i speak as tho i'm really lookin for one now..
ok how old is he/she? -
Originally posted by bismarck:didnt know u preggie liao
ok how old is he/she? 
not preggy...
but accordin to deathscythe n everyone else, i'm close to 3 mths pregnant le
hmm... think i will only get preggy after ROM.. -
Latest records is 1 months already.Originally posted by shinta:
not preggy...
but accordin to deathscythe n everyone else, i'm close to 3 mths pregnant le
hmm... think i will only get preggy after ROM..
It's due -
wat's due?Originally posted by deathscythe99:Latest records is 1 months already.
It's due -
Ur babyOriginally posted by shinta:wat's due? -
nt even 3 mths "into pregnancy" how to give birth?Originally posted by deathscythe99:Ur baby